Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Aaron✦]

So...
If you know me, which you don't (stalkers xD) you know I was in a, what, 10 month relationship until I broke up with him about a month ago? We still talk every day and get on.

But there are a few things that are confusing me; for a couple days after school started I did catch him looking at me. When I caught his eye he'd look away - and when I called him out on it he just said I must have been looking his way to see. Fair enough.

But then he stopped doing it.
Then a few days ago another guy asked me if I'd like to go out, I ever so gently said no, and my ex knew all about it and he and his/my friend helped me avoid the awkwardness today.
Then just recently me and my ex had an albeit quick conversation on facebook, kind of how we did when we were together. Whenever one of us had to go when we were together we'd tell eachother the usual love you mush and goodnight. But this time we had a conversation before bed he ended it with
"I have to go...
Bai
I guess...
I..
I still...
Nvmd
Bai"

and after he went I replied with "you still?" but he saw and never responded.

And now he's looking at me again. Like full on stares, not really glares, just looking for a while. I just
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any advice? ;w;

[Julia]

Do you like me or don't you?
Can I please look into your head and see your thoughts

I like you so much I can barely breath. Release me if you don't want me.

Patience. Be patient. There'll be someone else if he isn't the right one.

[Imagine()Dragons]

Hi so my bro is letting me use his account to ask this question.
There is this guy that I kind of like. He's a grade younger and really sweet. Well everyone says that he has a crush on me, and we did hold hands for a little bit at one point. The thing is I'm not sure. Even though we've held hands, we don't exactly talk about liking one another, and there are absolutely no other signs that he likes me. We talk and have a lot in common, but whenever we see eachother he always asks about my best friend. Could he just be using me to get to my friend?

[bubbly.]

There's this guy who everyone says likes me, but i'm not sure. All I can say is I don't like him. Well, not in that way. And it's really irritating because he nears near or next to me in most classes and i'm starting to believe that he likes me. I'm getting kinda scared of what to say if he asks me out. Like, how to let him down easily?

Also, my crushes are literally impossible. No point talking about them.

[frogpaws]

So yesterday my crush came up to me and hugged me
and it was adorable and stuff.
then we sat together on the bus and I really got to know how funny and crazy she is and it was great.
she also kept nudging really close to me until our shoulders and thighs were touching.
and she hugged me goodbye.
then she asked to sit with me this morning and I let her.
she put her head on my shoulder at one point and fell asleep.
I accidentally woke her up when I put my arm around her, but she snuggled up to me and slept there for a fairly long time.
then later on her friend (who I'm friends with) tells me my crush just wants to be friends and take it slow and whatnot and she doesn't want to lead me on even though that's exactly what she's doing (maybe unconsciously).

I never realized how confusing us girls are until now :c

I think she's just very confused about her feelings
especially since she's never been with another girl

so I suggested we should hang out and we're hanging out on Sunday.
wish me luck guys.

but one question; should I talk about our feelings?
I want to know for sure that girl wasn't lying for one thing, and also I want to know exactly her feelings about this whole thing.
I wanna hear it from her. not some other people...

I really don't mind taking it slow.
honestly if her interpretation of "taking it slow" is falling asleep in my arms and giving me cute hugs then I'm perfectly fine with that for now.

[kuromi.]

gah. so, this is a toughie guys. i met a guy in seventh grade. his name was angel. my friend kayla introduced us. he was an artist, and my friend kayla was crushin on him big time. they talked it out, and she got rejected. it turns out later that school year he liked me. okay. weird. that school year i didn't like him, and rejected him. that summer we went out though....for half an hour. the whole time we went out we never saw each other. now a few years later he likes me an holds my hand, but i don't feel the same. a guy i've liked from the seventh grade is named seth. he's shy, sweet, and has better handwriting than me. and then yesterday i asked Seth who he liked and he likes ruby. ruby. ruby is dating jose, sweetie. you do not know how bad that made me feel, seth. oh, and then chandler. chandler is older than me by a year, but is in the grade below me because he was held back becaus dog his shyness. me and him have been texting each other for a year now, but have never met face-to-face, but once and i while i do long to be in a relationship with him. so today, he randomly texts me "i love you". and what i responded with was ":o" and he responded with "=Ø" and it went back and forth. then he asked, " say words let me know how you really feel?" and i had no idea how to reply, so i simply responded ," poop ". and then he put, " that's where this relationship stands?". and then i told him we never even met, and he suggested that we change that. and then i told him what was preventing us from meeting [ too much to explain, if you want to know pm me ], and then he hasn't texted back. help please! :c

[denim]

@Ezamoosh: it sounds like he still has feelings for you.
there is a guy, named kevin, who i had a "thing" with
about a year ago (which i look back on now and i
basically "had feelings for him" out of spite... anyway,)
and we recently started talking more. his best friend,
jack, likes me and i like him in return. if you want to
hear the full story on how it happened, you can pm me.
i just am too lazy to type the whole thing out. but going
back to your question, kevin does the same types of things
to me. he will say confusing, short sentences hoping that
i will get the hint but i never do. my advice to you is to just
go along with it. i am assuming you don't have any more
feelings for this boy, so maybe what you should do is lean
away from talking to him every day, like you said you have
been doing. it just might be best for him.

@demi.minecraft: basically, you just need to understand that,
if he does, it takes a lot of courage to do that stuff. just be
mindful of that. you could say something along the lines of,
"aw, that's really sweet, but i'm just not interested in a
relationship at the moment." or "im sorry, but i really don't
think right now is a good time." you want to be nice about it,
but also not too nice that leads him to think that you need
time to think about it. i have used both of those examples
before and it has worked for me. pm me if you have any
other questions!

@Petzpower: i know exactly how you are feeling. the guy i like,
jack, apparently likes me and i have been told that by one or
two people. however, he has never said anything to me about
feelings or a relationship. i can totally get why you want to hear
it from her. i would say to wait to see how the day goes. are you
going to hang out just with her or a couple other people? if you
want to talk about feelings, make sure it is just you and her and
no other person around you two. dont pour your heart out but
just lay down the basic, "so i kinda like you.." type of thing.
good luck! pm me if you have any other questions!

[Paranoia]

Agh.
I don't know what to do.
Two guys for the most part.
One: Brayden, a friend for a few months (I think..?), we both like each other and wish we could date but from the distance (two hours. Not bad?) and not having yet met he's decided we shouldn't. It's getting harder to talk to him with school but I get a few texts out of him during the week and weekends are my time to spend talking to him. We love talking to each other and he treats me better than his guy friends, which I like. Probably because I actually listen to him though ahah.

Two: Will. A guy in my speech class. I just find myself attracted to him, he seems like a really cool and a generally good guy but I've never once talked to him. I really don't know how to start. I'm not one for making new friends and so socially awkward I'd just rather not try with new people. But I'd so like to start a friendship with him ;u;

[Lazy9248]

I like this guy... Let me explain...

Okay, we met freshman year. I could tell pretty quickly that he liked me and the teacher always sat us by each other. That year we became somewhat friends.

Sophomore year I fell hard for him. I'm not sure why but I did. We started texting non-stop and became really close friends. He seemed to stop liking me though, so I just let it go...

Now, junior year, we follow each other between a few classes and still text every day. I think he still likes me. My friends obviously caught on that one of us likes the other, because they are trying extremely hard to get us to go out. They yell things like, "I ship you two," "you two need to date," blunt things along those lines. I hope that doesn't bother him.

Anyways, I'd like advice. I'm not sure about what but I have never been asked out ever and I'm just really nervous that he'll ask me out soon... For me this whole liking someone thing is uncharted territory and I don't know what to do about it... Feel free to pm me and thanks for any help in advance! c:

[frogpaws]

@Petzpower: i know exactly how you are feeling. the guy i like,
jack, apparently likes me and i have been told that by one or
two people. however, he has never said anything to me about
feelings or a relationship. i can totally get why you want to hear
it from her. i would say to wait to see how the day goes. are you
going to hang out just with her or a couple other people? if you
want to talk about feelings, make sure it is just you and her and
no other person around you two. dont pour your heart out but
just lay down the basic, "so i kinda like you.." type of thing.
good luck! pm me if you have any other questions!

well, here's the thing.
she already knows I like her.
and we're just hanging out, me and her.
It just seems like she's toying with me because she KNOWS I like her.
But she keeps saying she isn't ready to all my other friends (and not talking to me about it).
I get that she doesn't want to hurt me by telling it to my face, but I really would rather talk to her about it.
Unless someone in the equation is lying.
The good thing is that she seems like she doesn't want to avoid me, like she wants to talk.
But if I just keep going along and she keeps doing all this stuff to me and then saying she doesn't want a relationship, I really don't know if I'm gonna be able to handle it.
That's why tomorrow is gonna be for getting our feelings settled.
From what my friends have guessed, she likes me but either wants to take it slow, doesn't want a relationship, or is confused about her sexuality.
For whatever reason that is, I don't know how snuggling up to someone on the bus and getting all blushy and smiley about someone are just friendly things, unless those people are really really close (and we just started talking face to face about a week ago).