Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Imagine()Dragons]

Hi so my bro is letting me use his account to ask this question.
There is this guy that I kind of like. He's a grade younger and really sweet. Well everyone says that he has a crush on me, and we did hold hands for a little bit at one point. The thing is I'm not sure. Even though we've held hands, we don't exactly talk about liking one another, and there are absolutely no other signs that he likes me. We talk and have a lot in common, but whenever we see eachother he always asks about my best friend. Could he just be using me to get to my friend?

[Simplistic Beauty]

I was on omegle recently and found this guy who seemed really nice. We talked for awhile but he didn't have Facebook and I don't got a Kik. He asked if I was single too. He ended up disconnecting, ugh. I didn't get his name or anything. I'm so mad at myself and now I can't find anybody good. He was 3 years older than me and lived in the US, that's all I know.

[Anuran]

So. Today, was amazing.
It was a few minutes after the bell rang to go to class after lunch. I have gym, therefor I normally walk my friends to their classes then go to mine late, as the teacher doesn't care at all and I have to wait for the volleyball coach to unlock the girl's lockeroom anyways.

Anywho.

It was just me and my best friend. Her and I are super close; she be my 'wifey' and everything, and I even made her a little ring that she keeps on her id. c: (This is all play; we're just really good best friends, haha.)

She had needed to get to her next class early so she could get her textbook that was locked in there, and her and I were standing by the door after the bell rang, waiting for her teacher.

That's when my crush came by, and he held me while the three of us joked around and such. Anywho, that's when he laughed and told my best friend, "You know that she's mine, right?" And she went BALLISTIC. xD She proceeded to share our entire history with him, ranting about the ring I made for her and such, while he just stood there and laughed... holding mwah.. and kissed the top of my head. I like, died. xD And then, my friend got jealous and kissed my hand and started yelling at him. I have a lipstick print on my hand now and it will NOT come off. It looks like a bruise; everyone's been asking if I'd gotten into a fight. This is why I love my friends. xD

Afterward, him and I left and he walked me to the steps to the lockerroom, and hrrrgh, guiiisseee, I really really like him. x3 He's funny and sweet and it's hard to be nervous around him, until it comes to actually trying to tell him how I feel, y'know? x3

[Alpen]

Wow, I don't even know where to start?

So, I'm in a long distance relationship (Nevada - North Carolina), with a person I've never really "met" before. Please don't go all, "He could be a creeper, a pedophile, kidnapper, etc." Because I don't care. I've been friends with this guy for around one and a half years and he's one of my best friends.

We've been together for almost a month now and I'm the happiest I've been in a while.

Today he had band practice and left his phone at his house. His brother picked it up and started texting me, asking me questions like how I knew his brother, who was I, etc. We started talking about An(my bf) and he asked me what I knew about him. Recently An was in a fight, I was told that it was with his best friend that was making fun of one of his other friends and he was standing up for her(he also told relatively the same thing to his brother, M). The fight left both An and his best friend in the hospital.

(What I was told/What I thought happened)
An was with a girl named S and they were together for three years. Last school year, she moved to another state and didn't want to keep the relationship going so they broke up. At the end of the summer, he found out that she was back to his school and had 3 out of 4 classes with him. She tried texting him, just saying the occasional 'hey', but they didn't really talk from what I was told.

While he was in the hospital, she was one of the people that came to visit.

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So, M and I started talking and he asked if I knew about S and I told him what I knew.

Then he told me they never broke up.

S was hit by a car and killed.

An's been having hallucinations and therapy isn't working.


Honestly I don't know what to do, An doesn't know I have contact with his brother. I'm really worried about him but I can't talk to him because I don't want him to go off on his brother. He's been really snappy with everyone, this didn't happen until S was killed.


Any advice?

[pumpkin.]

I'm going to keep this short & simple, since I've been procrastinating.
there's a dance. there's a guy. there's a question. there's me.
how the crap do I add this together and still get a solid answer?
I want to ask him to the dance but I don't know how to... unu

chynni, have you tried researching schizophrenia?
that's a possibility of what's wrong. pm me when you have a chance.
close to the same thing has happened to me, still is, and I'd love to help <3

[Simplistic Beauty]

So. Today, was amazing.
It was a few minutes after the bell rang to go to class after lunch. I have gym, therefor I normally walk my friends to their classes then go to mine late, as the teacher doesn't care at all and I have to wait for the volleyball coach to unlock the girl's lockeroom anyways.

Anywho.

It was just me and my best friend. Her and I are super close; she be my 'wifey' and everything, and I even made her a little ring that she keeps on her id. c: (This is all play; we're just really good best friends, haha.)

She had needed to get to her next class early so she could get her textbook that was locked in there, and her and I were standing by the door after the bell rang, waiting for her teacher.

That's when my crush came by, and he held me while the three of us joked around and such. Anywho, that's when he laughed and told my best friend, "You know that she's mine, right?" And she went BALLISTIC. xD She proceeded to share our entire history with him, ranting about the ring I made for her and such, while he just stood there and laughed... holding mwah.. and kissed the top of my head. I like, died. xD And then, my friend got jealous and kissed my hand and started yelling at him. I have a lipstick print on my hand now and it will NOT come off. It looks like a bruise; everyone's been asking if I'd gotten into a fight. This is why I love my friends. xD

Afterward, him and I left and he walked me to the steps to the lockerroom, and hrrrgh, guiiisseee, I really really like him. x3 He's funny and sweet and it's hard to be nervous around him, until it comes to actually trying to tell him how I feel, y'know? x3

Aw, that's cute. Either you guys are like really good friends or he make you by the sounds of it. I'm not sure though since i'm horrible when it comes to relationships usually.

[jayus]

Ack
I'm going to my first dance tomorrow (I've been at this school for 3 years, and haven't gone to one yet).
Soon as people found out, they started trying to set me up with multiple guys.
Whaaaaaaaat.
And I only like this one guy (I might try to find some cute way to ask him to the Sadie Hawkins dance in March or something).

[Lazy9248]

I like this guy... Let me explain...

Okay, we met freshman year. I could tell pretty quickly that he liked me and the teacher always sat us by each other. That year we became somewhat friends.

Sophomore year I fell hard for him. I'm not sure why but I did. We started texting non-stop and became really close friends. He seemed to stop liking me though, so I just let it go...

Now, junior year, we follow each other between a few classes and still text every day. I think he still likes me. My friends obviously caught on that one of us likes the other, because they are trying extremely hard to get us to go out. They yell things like, "I ship you two," "you two need to date," blunt things along those lines. I hope that doesn't bother him.

Anyways, I'd like advice. I'm not sure about what but I have never been asked out ever and I'm just really nervous that he'll ask me out soon... For me this whole liking someone thing is uncharted territory and I don't know what to do about it... Feel free to pm me and thanks for any help in advance! c:

[Lana1171]

@TeganlovesNiall
You're allowed to find other guys attractive while having a boyfriend...there really can't be a 'rule' against finding people attractive, it's part of human nature. You can have pictures, albums, t-shirts of 1D, it's not like you can cheat on your boyfriend with a band you're never likely to meet.

Thanks ...... Had my first kiss today... Fail..... I feel so bad

[kay.]

No one mentioned he had a girlfriend... Not even he himself when I told him I like him... Now my heart is broken again, not in my type to set up a fight.