Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Dia.]

EVERYBODY needs to read this!

Here is a little thing I learned from my guy friends:

Guys ALWAYS know when you like them. I don't know how, but they always figure it out. So if you have liked a guy for three years now, he probably knows. My friend and my boyfriend said that they figure out when a girl likes them at about the third month if not before then. So just keep in mind that unless you like a clueless guy, or a shy guy, he probably already knows you like him. :)

Er... no. xD
Some boys are absolutely clueless. Even the not shy, smart guys.
Unless you are REALLY obvious, someone tells him, or your friends make it clear in the way they act, they don't necessarily know.

[christine,]

@ Piper
I swear I just had a heart attack.
They always know you like them? I've liked the same guy for... Wow.... Seven or eight solid months, but I can count the number of times we've had an actual convorsation on my hands. Do you think he notices, even then?

[Dia.]

Spottedsong - I'd like to point you to my post above yours.
Some boys are clueless. Many don't notice. Or if they do notice, they don't connect it to the fact that you do like them.
If you haven't talked to him a lot, then he probably doesn't notice unless you are extremely flirty, extremely nervous, or your friends make it really obvious.
I wouldn't worry about it.

[Keletheryl]

EVERYBODY needs to read this!

Here is a little thing I learned from my guy friends:

Guys ALWAYS know when you like them. I don't know how, but they always figure it out. So if you have liked a guy for three years now, he probably knows. My friend and my boyfriend said that they figure out when a girl likes them at about the third month if not before then. So just keep in mind that unless you like a clueless guy, or a shy guy, he probably already knows you like him.

Er... no. xD
Some boys are absolutely clueless. Even the not shy, smart guys.
Unless you are REALLY obvious, someone tells him, or your friends make it clear in the way they act, they don't necessarily know.

I dunno, that's what I learned from my guy friends. If you look at them a certain amount of times they usually get it, if they've ever had somebody have a crush on them before that is

@ Piper
I swear I just had a heart attack.
They always know you like them? I've liked the same guy for... Wow.... Seven or eight solid months, but I can count the number of times we've had an actual conversation on my hands. Do you think he notices, even then?

Hmm, I think it depends. I mean, we all drop subtle hints, consciously or unconsciously to the opposite sex to give them note, whether they pick up on it or not depends on the chemical balance in their system. And it's not the end of the world if he knows <3 Everybody acts like it is (heck, even I did!) but really, it's not. The best thing could happen to you if you just come out and say it, tell yourself it's no big deal.

[Keletheryl]

Spottedsong - I'd like to point you to my post above yours.
Some boys are clueless. Many don't notice. Or if they do notice, they don't connect it to the fact that you do like them.
If you haven't talked to him a lot, then he probably doesn't notice unless you are extremely flirty, extremely nervous, or your friends make it really obvious.
I wouldn't worry about it.

Also not true, like my post said (where I got all psychological and sciency xD), I'm never super obvious about any of my past crushes, they all knew. My friends never told them and I wasn't flirty with them, either. I don't know what it is, they just have a sense or something o.o

[[x]]

So yesterday I FINALLY talked to my crush Bear and we really get along well. I told my friend today I like Bear and he said that he thinks Bear likes me back but IDK. We have this poking war thing going on and whenever we see each other we have to poke each other. If we sit near each other in school we always draw on our papers and talk and joke.

But he always gets distracted when I try to talk to him. During gym we were running together for a while and I was about to ask him how he likes school so far when he saw his friend catching up to us so he ran off.
Ugh... Boys.

We always stare at each other when given the chance as well. Dunno how to approach him though... I mean like, I wanna be good friends with him but I don't know how honestly.
1. Do you guys think he likes me?
2. How do I approach and befriend him.

Please answer!

[fruitbat]

going crazy atm

im going somewhere [for sports which i play with him]
and our team is staying in a motel. i will be staying in the
same room as my crushes grandmother, and i have no idea
if she knows i like him [her grandson]... hopefully she doesnt
and wont tell my mum.
and im also in the room next to him, maing my heart feel
fluttery and sick at the same time.
i know we will get teased, but i dont care anymore, i like him
to much for bullies to get in my way.

[horse .]

OMG! My crush likes me <3

Okay guys, here's a little background on what's happened...

First time I met him was after I'd broken up with my bf that I was with for almost 4 years (2009-2013 maybe 2010-2013). Anyway he cheated on me with someone from another school so I told him I hated him and I would never trust him again blah blah blah... Anyway that ended early this year (2013) and I haven't trusted any guy since, until a few months ago when I started liking my older brothers best friends younger brother, who is the same age as me. I thought he liked someone else, to be honest my best friend. But then I'm being told he likes me! And I asked him privately who he liked and he told me to guess, so I did and I guessed every girl in our year apart from me because I guess I was a little scared of that LOL. He said no to all of them, then this is exactly what I replied with: "Okay, um... Is it me?" And guess what!? He said yeah!

So the I've got a heap of pressure to ask him out, and believe me, I honestly would! But the thing is I've
Never actually asked a guy out... Because I've been asked out plenty of times, only twice I said yes. One was to te long relationship I stated earlier and the other I hated because I was forced into it... And in primary school I was asked out by every year 6 when we were in yr 6. Also I was school captain LOL!

Anyway, what would you do?
I really like him,
He's got light/medium brown hair and brown eyes, and he's a little taller them me and flirty with me only. Heh <3 thinking of him makes me happy

congrats!

and honestly i don't think you should ask him out. but hear me over. people at my school don't think it is 'proper' or 'right' for a girl to ask a guy out. i suggest waiting for him to ask you out, unless you are really desperate/want to date him right now.

Yes I get what you mean :3 and I'm too shy to ask him out and I would never be desperate I just like him soooo much. Heh

OMG! My crush likes me <3

Okay guys, here's a little background on what's happened...

First time I met him was after I'd broken up with my bf that I was with for almost 4 years (2009-2013 maybe 2010-2013). Anyway he cheated on me with someone from another school so I told him I hated him and I would never trust him again blah blah blah... Anyway that ended early this year (2013) and I haven't trusted any guy since, until a few months ago when I started liking my older brothers best friends younger brother, who is the same age as me. I thought he liked someone else, to be honest my best friend. But then I'm being told he likes me! And I asked him privately who he liked and he told me to guess, so I did and I guessed every girl in our year apart from me because I guess I was a little scared of that LOL. He said no to all of them, then this is exactly what I replied with: "Okay, um... Is it me?" And guess what!? He said yeah!

So the I've got a heap of pressure to ask him out, and believe me, I honestly would! But the thing is I've
Never actually asked a guy out... Because I've been asked out plenty of times, only twice I said yes. One was to te long relationship I stated earlier and the other I hated because I was forced into it... And in primary school I was asked out by every year 6 when we were in yr 6. Also I was school captain LOL!

Anyway, what would you do?
I really like him,
He's got light/medium brown hair and brown eyes, and he's a little taller them me and flirty with me only. Heh <3 thinking of him makes me happy

If he likes you go for it! You never know if it'll work or not unless you try!

As for myself. I can't fully get over my old crush from last year. Yeah most of my feelings are gone but it's like there's still this tiny part of me that likes him. I know that he doesn't like me cause a friend asked him near the end of school last year. It's just my mind can't fully get over him. After all, he was my first serious crush.

Yes I understand about the crush thing, my i liked my ex for over a month after we broke up for the last time, then nobody, and now (his name <3)! I honestly think we both might be to shy LOL

thanks for the answer(s)

[Noni Gailin Ayrenin~]

I had posted on the page before, but in case no-one saw it.....

Ok, so my current relationship is bound to hit a dead end, and I want to kind of prepare myself for being 'available' again. Of course, even when I was 'available' for my whole life until march 30th of this year, nothing happened, so i probably shouldn't expect much.

Anyway, I don't seem to attract anybody. But, in recent light of a new discovery of mine, I've gotten my hair cut. Short. And I mean flippy emo boy hair short. So far the only people to think it looks good are my teachers. NOT the kind of people I wish to attract.

Part of why I've had my hair cut though, is part of my attempt at attracting the people I seem to be attracted to physically. Yes, I know, looks shouldn't really matter, but it does provide some sort of base to work with.

So yeah, I dig them emo/goth boys~ <3 YUM!!

Of course, the world has to go and hate me even more by making all of the ones in my school either gay, taken, or A-holes in general. This is why we can't have nice things. That being said though, I do believe that a few of them are really nice and sweet. Though one of the ones I'm thinking of now might be gay. Still not sure on that one XD


In all seriousness though, I want to attract guys that suit me both physically (again, YUM) and in personality. I understand that this is a very, very difficult combination, but I do have a few shreds of hope left.

[Refugee]

@Noni: Don't worry about now. Maybe let it grow out a bit? Change its color? honestly I have no idea what you look like irl so I can't give you a straight answer. But like I said, don't worry about guys. You'll be out of school soon enough, you'll meet a HUGE variety of guys at college/your work/the real world, whichever you are heading towards. PM me if you want me to explain further, ok?

I hate myself! I chickened out on him today...!

Okay, despite what I've said about this guy, Brian (yes, the one I've mentioned in SOOO many posts before. I'm crazy over this guy) Anyways, I'm a guitarist. Its one of my biggest hobbies and sometimes at school its all I ever talk about.

Brian wanted to impress me, so he brought his acoustic to school today.

Then he asked me to stay after school with him alone (10th period, from 2-3) to play guitar with him and show him what I can play, etc., since people say I'm a good guitarist apparently

But, I DITCHED him. I TOTALLY forgot about it and when time came to get on the bus to go home, I realized this and my heart SUNK. I felt so AWFUL. I think I left him in the orchestra room all alone!

So I don't know the words to apologize to him.. and I also think maybe subliminally I chickened out cause the last time I stayed after school with a guy ALONE, he tried to kiss me. So maybe I was recalling that and didn't want that to happen again?

NOTE: Brian and I had a past. We never dated, but we were crushing on each other two years ago... and he knows that, I know that...

So what's wrong with me? Maybe do I still have feelings for this guy? Does he maybe still like me back? Why is it that he wanted me to come down and spend an hour with him alone in the orchestra room with his guitar..? I've know him for five long years and honestly, this boy drives me nuts. Like in a good, frustrating love kinda way.

Please help anyone,
-Kris <3