Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[vanilla kitten]

dang it.

i like a new guy. yeah, he's cute, but he's a huuuge, notorious jerk. i literally have no idea why i'm attracted to him. he's mean to me. yesterday in gym, he threw the volleyball i was playing with at the wall and i dodged it, but of course with my bad luck it came back and hit me in the side of the face. the only reason is probably because he and i kissed like twice last year. it still gives me butterflies tbch, which is the worst part of it. i don't want to like him. i want to punch him.

i don't know what this is.

[[Lannie]]

Okay... I need help, I like a guy, that is honestly not even very physically attractive, and all of my friends think it is hilarious that I like a guy like him... But anyway, not the point;

He sends me mixed messages! He does NOT know that I like him, and when I text him he usually stops responding on the 6 or 7th text. We sit together in math, right along side my best guy friend (Lets call him "J"), J is always saying to my crush, "Who are you texting, your girlfriend ?" and then my crush starts to blush... So I'm worried that he might actually have a girlfriend that I DON'T know about! J always jokes around with my crush about that sort of thing, but something about it makes me really uneasy..

I sat next to my crush in English class a couple of days ago, and he started pulling at my hair a little and making little jokes like "You're funny looking" then he would smile at me, then I would look at him and smile back.. I would usually respond with a "Gee, thanks.." (And I know I was probably blushing) But then he would always say "I'm just kiddin' " and he would smile at me again..

There is a dance on Thursday but I'm afraid that he won't come! I asked him if he was going to come and he said "I'm not really sure yet." But if he does come, should I ask him to dance? Or tell him I like him, or what? I don't want to rush things because like I said, he sends me mixed messages, and I cannot tell if he likes me or not... please someone help.

[WalkerNom]

If I could sum up how I feel right now, this would be it:


Long story short, I've developed feelings for one of my friends at school but we aren't very close outside of school, so I wanted to change that before I told him I liked him. However, today I heard that a friend of his now dates him and she's, for lack of a better word, a floozy. When I heard that I literally pictured the .gif above as it literally felt like my heart was being ripped out.

[Simplistic Beauty]

OMG! My crush likes me <3

Okay guys, here's a little background on what's happened...

First time I met him was after I'd broken up with my bf that I was with for almost 4 years (2009-2013 maybe 2010-2013). Anyway he cheated on me with someone from another school so I told him I hated him and I would never trust him again blah blah blah... Anyway that ended early this year (2013) and I haven't trusted any guy since, until a few months ago when I started liking my older brothers best friends younger brother, who is the same age as me. I thought he liked someone else, to be honest my best friend. But then I'm being told he likes me! And I asked him privately who he liked and he told me to guess, so I did and I guessed every girl in our year apart from me because I guess I was a little scared of that LOL. He said no to all of them, then this is exactly what I replied with: "Okay, um... Is it me?" And guess what!? He said yeah!

So the I've got a heap of pressure to ask him out, and believe me, I honestly would! But the thing is I've
Never actually asked a guy out... Because I've been asked out plenty of times, only twice I said yes. One was to te long relationship I stated earlier and the other I hated because I was forced into it... And in primary school I was asked out by every year 6 when we were in yr 6. Also I was school captain LOL!

Anyway, what would you do?
I really like him,
He's got light/medium brown hair and brown eyes, and he's a little taller them me and flirty with me only. Heh <3 thinking of him makes me happy

If he likes you go for it! You never know if it'll work or not unless you try!

As for myself. I can't fully get over my old crush from last year. Yeah most of my feelings are gone but it's like there's still this tiny part of me that likes him. I know that he doesn't like me cause a friend asked him near the end of school last year. It's just my mind can't fully get over him. After all, he was my first serious crush.

[kelly.]

OMG! My crush likes me <3

Okay guys, here's a little background on what's happened...

First time I met him was after I'd broken up with my bf that I was with for almost 4 years (2009-2013 maybe 2010-2013). Anyway he cheated on me with someone from another school so I told him I hated him and I would never trust him again blah blah blah... Anyway that ended early this year (2013) and I haven't trusted any guy since, until a few months ago when I started liking my older brothers best friends younger brother, who is the same age as me. I thought he liked someone else, to be honest my best friend. But then I'm being told he likes me! And I asked him privately who he liked and he told me to guess, so I did and I guessed every girl in our year apart from me because I guess I was a little scared of that LOL. He said no to all of them, then this is exactly what I replied with: "Okay, um... Is it me?" And guess what!? He said yeah!

So the I've got a heap of pressure to ask him out, and believe me, I honestly would! But the thing is I've
Never actually asked a guy out... Because I've been asked out plenty of times, only twice I said yes. One was to te long relationship I stated earlier and the other I hated because I was forced into it... And in primary school I was asked out by every year 6 when we were in yr 6. Also I was school captain LOL!

Anyway, what would you do?
I really like him,
He's got light/medium brown hair and brown eyes, and he's a little taller them me and flirty with me only. Heh <3 thinking of him makes me happy

congrats!

and honestly i don't think you should ask him out. but hear me over. people at my school don't think it is 'proper' or 'right' for a girl to ask a guy out. i suggest waiting for him to ask you out, unless you are really desperate/want to date him right now.

[frogpaws]

OMG GUYS
I was having a really bad day and my crush asked me out on what I can assume is a date??
I mean aren't dates implied??
She said she was wondering if I wanted to go out to eat, see a movie, or see a play.
I dunno if I should assume it's a date or not.
She said bye to me, I said bye back..but I feel stupid because my greetings always sound sad for some reason.
I seriously can't say hi and bye properly -___-
ugh.
I'm learning.

oh and how do I flirt .___.
anyone have any advice on flirting?
I'm a girl with a crush on a girl, if you don't know, but this is the first girl I've ever gotten close to being in a relationship with.

[jayus]

I guess I'm prettier than I thought or something?
Like 4 different boys admitted in some way (only one of them directly) that they had crushes on me. The last guy asked me out.
I'm in highschool. I have no clue how to flirt. I usually end up playfully arguing with boys.

And I like this one guy, and I think he finally got over a mildly embarrassing incident from junior high (kid took his lunchbox, he wiped out on gravel, I hunted down kids and scraped my ankle pretty badly). I think he felt awkward that I got his lunchbox while he wiped out.
Anyways, we had a non-awkward conversation on Saturday. He was talking about a TV show, we were talking about stuff. It was only about five minutes long, unfortunately, but it wasn't awkward.
He can be talking to other people five feet away from me, but until Saturday, whenever I joined in he became awkward, quiet, and wouldn't make eye contact with me.
I swear I've liked him for 3 years now.
Do you guys think he likes me back at all?

[[x]]

So yesterday I FINALLY talked to my crush Bear and we really get along well. I told my friend today I like Bear and he said that he thinks Bear likes me back but IDK. We have this poking war thing going on and whenever we see each other we have to poke each other. If we sit near each other in school we always draw on our papers and talk and joke.

But he always gets distracted when I try to talk to him. During gym we were running together for a while and I was about to ask him how he likes school so far when he saw his friend catching up to us so he ran off.
Ugh... Boys.

[Noni Gailin Ayrenin~]

Ok, so my current relationship is bound to hit a dead end, and I want to kind of prepare myself for being 'available' again. Of course, even when I was 'available' for my whole life until march 30th of this year, nothing happened, so i probably shouldn't expect much.

Anyway, I don't seem to attract anybody. But, in recent light of a new discovery of mine, I've gotten my hair cut. Short. And I mean flippy emo boy hair short. So far the only people to think it looks good are my teachers. NOT the kind of people I wish to attract.

Part of why I've had my hair cut though, is part of my attempt at attracting the people I seem to be attracted to physically. Yes, I know, looks shouldn't really matter, but it does provide some sort of base to work with.

So yeah, I dig them emo/goth boys~ <3 YUM!!

Of course, the world has to go and hate me even more by making all of the ones in my school either gay, taken, or A-holes in general. This is why we can't have nice things. That being said though, I do believe that a few of them are really nice and sweet. Though one of the ones I'm thinking of now might be gay. Still not sure on that one XD


In all seriousness though, I want to attract guys that suit me both physically (again, YUM) and in personality. I understand that this is a very, very difficult combination, but I do have a few shreds of hope left.

[Keletheryl]

EVERYBODY needs to read this!

Here is a little thing I learned from my guy friends:

Guys ALWAYS know when you like them. I don't know how, but they always figure it out. So if you have liked a guy for three years now, he probably knows. My friend and my boyfriend said that they figure out when a girl likes them at about the third month if not before then. So just keep in mind that unless you like a clueless guy, or a shy guy, he probably already knows you like him.


Also! Don't be afraid to talk with your crush! Or become friends/get a friend who is already friends with him and get them to kind of hook you two up. That's what happened with me. And I also talked to this one guy for a few days, and then I held out my phone and said 'Just do it' (to put his number in) and now we're pretty good friends. This was before my boyfriend so . So don't be afraid to just approach and say Hi, I promise they won't think anything weird of you. If they are good people, if they are worth your time, they will make time for you. If they don't, they aren't worth it! So yea. Don't be afraid to talk, it'll be the best thing you've ever done, it happened with me and I used to be super shy so..! Yea Just do that one thing you are uncomfortable with (as my drama teacher calls it; pushing the comfort bubble) and talk to him. If it has a bad result, he isn't worth it.