Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[QUITTING--]

Srry to interrupt but i am in need of some advice, ok so ive never had a "real" boyfriend... Ive had a few long distance relationships though but ok his ex gf just broke up wit him (after a 6 month relationship, she said he was getting clingy) and a week later he asked me out so we have been goin out for 3 days and we hold hands at school and hug but am i just a rebound? I mean he said he was gonna break up wit her soon anyway.. Oh and one of his good friends was like i think he really likes u and she didnt know we were dating so i guess he really does like me?

[Me <3]

I'm done.
My crush told me he liked me.
So I told him I liked him.

But then he laughed in my face and told me he lied.
I'm dying inside.

vnv

Hmf boys never learn do they I recommend being a little rude to him now. I'm a mean person though so what should I know. Just saying if some one did that to me (which they did in 5th grade, except to top it off they tricked me to say I love them) I would glare at them instead of a nice soft glance and in the halls if you see him don't say hi or look at him. I hate jerks who do that. I wish you good luck on the road to recovery.

My friend gave him my number a week after and we began texting each other. I told him who I was and such and everything was fine. However... it did change unexpectedly. I literally couldn't text him because I was afraid I would mess everything up. It came to the point where I had to show my friend the text I wanted to send him to see if it was alright or ask her what I should say, and if not seeking her help, I would hesitate and spend minutes upon minutes thinking of what to reply to a simple question... Our conversations gradually became awkward and it has been driving me insane. I don't know what to do anymore, and I like him much. Is there anything I could do to break free from my fear of conversing with him? Any advice on how I can start a friendship with him at least...? We aren't exactly friends considering we don't talk to each other... though every once in a while he may randomly ask for a hug of course.

Sad well I'm pals with I guy I use to be shy of. What I did was send him an e-mail (or a text for you) complementing him and asked a few questions surrounding it. He replied and that went on for almost an entire year (was made of different e-mails). Also I would just say hi to him every time I saw him. Now we have I like to believe a strong friendship just by e-mails and small conversations. Also its ok to ask a friend is this weird to send to a guy. Like I was watching one of my fav YouTube's and he had a video on the friendship zone. I was curios on what my guy friend thought so I almost sent a e-mail to him that was talking about the friendship zone and how I've read about it here. Right before I hit send though I was like wait is this to weird to send to my friend I don't want to ruin of friendship (As in he would get it and be like I don't like you then stop talking to me completely). So I sent it to my friend instead and asked here if she thought it was to weird to send to a guy. I also made sure she did not send it to anyone else. She said it was ok but It was weird for a bit when he sort of implied I loved him so I never e-mail him about his thoughts on that stuff again. Also don't deny hugs, hugs are like the universal cure for sadness and stuff.

Hopes this helps yal sorry if it doesn't

[Dia.]

I'm done.
My crush told me he liked me.
So I told him I liked him.

But then he laughed in my face and told me he lied.
I'm dying inside.

vnv

Hmf boys never learn do they I recommend being a little rude to him now. I'm a mean person though so what should I know. Just saying if some one did that to me (which they did in 5th grade, except to top it off they tricked me to say I love them) I would glare at them instead of a nice soft glance and in the halls if you see him don't say hi or look at him. I hate jerks who do that. I wish you good luck on the road to recovery.

No... don't be rude to him.
I'm not saying you have to be best pals with him or even speak to him.
But being rude or mean is not the way to go in any situation.
Just be mature about it and go on with your life. Something that someone did in 5th grade isn't exactly the best thing to do... since it's 5th grade.. And we grow up a lot from then.

I have a few things to worry about, really. Ever since this one guy came to my school, everything was fine. I guess you could say that his appearance has changed my life in some way. As days went by, I realized it was very difficult for me to step outside my comfort zone to speak to him... mostly because I liked him much and didn't exactly know what to do at the time.

My friend helped me speak to him and it was just a casual two-phrased conversation of your everyday "How are you?" statement. I thought after that everything would be fine and I'd be able to finally go up to him by myself... I was wrong and I ended up giving him the impression that I was a shy and somewhat clueless person. I regretted ever going up to him that second time because I felt completely awkward when I approached and left without a word.

My friend gave him my number a week after and we began texting each other. I told him who I was and such and everything was fine. However... it did change unexpectedly. I literally couldn't text him because I was afraid I would mess everything up. It came to the point where I had to show my friend the text I wanted to send him to see if it was alright or ask her what I should say, and if not seeking her help, I would hesitate and spend minutes upon minutes thinking of what to reply to a simple question... Our conversations gradually became awkward and it has been driving me insane. I don't know what to do anymore, and I like him much. Is there anything I could do to break free from my fear of conversing with him? Any advice on how I can start a friendship with him at least...? We aren't exactly friends considering we don't talk to each other... though every once in a while he may randomly ask for a hug of course.

Don't ask your friend to proof read your replies and just try to feel confident. Don't read into things too much. Be yourself(just not the self you are when it is only your friends and you in your basement at 2am acting like an idiot xD) It'll get easier for you. Trust me.
Don't force conversations either. And to become friends? Start hanging out and talking to him. It's really the only way to be a friend with someone. ^^

[vanilla kitten]

♥

i think the worst thing in the world, is when you look into somebody's
eyes, and see everything you've ever wanted reflecting back at you
through them and knowing that you can never have it.
and i know that this isn't just a crush anymore. it's been something
more for a long, long time. and i know that somewhere, he feels it
too, but i know that he was taught (so his mother says) by his dad
not to show what he's truly feeling. which can be hard. but i figure
that my returning how he treats me---rudely, to say the least---isn't
how this is going to work out.
that said, i've come to the conclusion that if i want things to work,
i can't hide my feelings either. i can't hide that i like him anymore.
and what's the worst that can happen? he already treats me like crap
in school. i can't make this worse, but i can try to make it better.
sorry everyone. i just needed to vent.

➹ kitty.

[soreii]

Asdf.
My friend that I really like is coming over soon, how should I feel about this?

[Dia.]

Asdf.
My friend that I really like is coming over soon, how should I feel about this?

Can I suggest... happy? xD
Before we started dating, my boyfriend would come over to my house and we'd just hang out. ^^ I liked him a ton... so I was a bit nervous, but also really happy. xD

[soreii]

Asdf.
My friend that I really like is coming over soon, how should I feel about this?

Can I suggest... happy? xD
Before we started dating, my boyfriend would come over to my house and we'd just hang out. ^^ I liked him a ton... so I was a bit nervous, but also really happy. xD

Okay X3

I was just nervous today for some reason, at least he can see our new hamster <3

[christine,]

I've heard rumors that if you crack a pathetic/over-used joke that no one thinks is funny anymore, and your crush laughs, is it true they like you?
idek know where I got that, but that's what people say to me.

[harlical]

I've heard rumors that if you crack a pathetic/over-used joke that no one thinks is funny anymore, and your crush laughs, is it true they like you?
idek know where I got that, but that's what people say to me.

it kind of depends on their personality ; u ;
my crush [ who likes me back ] used the "time to get a watch" joke when i asked what time it was, i just kind of scoffed, idk xD
you could try it though, if that's what you wanted to know, because it seems possible :D


aaaaa my god so much stress right now > n >
my crush [ lets call him Z i guess lol ] likes me back and he even kissed me yesterday at the movies ; A ;
the problem is, he's moving out of state in the near future [ they dont know when ] and it seems like he doesn't want to get too attached or anything...
but now he wants to meet up again today and idk im just a nervous wreck because i cant tell if he wants to get together but is afraid to or if he just wants to kiss me but not start anything ....
we've been texting all day and stuff and just aaaaaa
idk what to do ; A ; should i push the whole 'going out' thing or should i just wait and see what happens ? ; - ;

[bless the vic]

I've heard rumors that if you crack a pathetic/over-used joke that no one thinks is funny anymore, and your crush laughs, is it true they like you?
idek know where I got that, but that's what people say to me.

it kind of depends on their personality ; u ;
my crush [ who likes me back ] used the "time to get a watch" joke when i asked what time it was, i just kind of scoffed, idk xD
you could try it though, if that's what you wanted to know, because it seems possible


aaaaa my god so much stress right now > n >
my crush [ lets call him Z i guess lol ] likes me back and he even kissed me yesterday at the movies ; A ;
the problem is, he's moving out of state in the near future [ they dont know when ] and it seems like he doesn't want to get too attached or anything...
but now he wants to meet up again today and idk im just a nervous wreck because i cant tell if he wants to get together but is afraid to or if he just wants to kiss me but not start anything ....
we've been texting all day and stuff and just aaaaaa
idk what to do ; A ; should i push the whole 'going out' thing or should i just wait and see what happens ? ; - ;

I know I want advise but here is some advise.

Well, if you have his number, it's not like you can't arrange to meet up ?
Idk, anyway, if he is moving, he has a 99.9 chance he is going to crush on some one from his new school, so on, so I suggest just to go for it and If he dosent like the ideas, there are plenty of people in the world, even if no one is like him, you will probably find some one even better
Sorry if this dosent go we'll for you.
Fingers crossed !!