Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[- poppeh]

woah i was just looking for a topic like this. xD
so i've known this guy since 5th grade and we became friends instantly. at the end of last year i started to develop a crush on him. at the beginning of summer my best friend asked me who i liked so i told her. {i've told a couple of my other friends now too} and they think that he likes me back. but it also seems like a couple of other boys like me too. i've also got a crush on another guy now. i'm good friends with a couple of his friends so i wanna get to know him better. {i sat with him at lunch today :D} but i've never been asked out/had a boyfriend. also this year, i go to a new school this year, they have these FNO {Friday Night Out} things i think its supposed to be like a thing at school to hang out and play games. but i'm not sure if it will turn into like date/dance thing...

[Keletheryl]

I probably should have added more details xD
One; he doesn't go to High School. He goes to University. Don't worry, he's only 3 years older than me.
Two; He's very good when it comes to er, girls, I guess. He treats me very well and when if he goes to do something and I say "No", he will say "Okay" and not do it. He wouldn't pressure me into doing anything, it's not who he is ^^

He is still trying to figure out your physical boundaries. Sounds like you're not naive - just be cognizant of what exactly you want out of this and respect yourself.

Alright, thaqnk you for the advice

[Lazy9248]

I don't do anything between 5-6 hour at school, so I follow my crush's locker partner and talk to my crush during that little span of time... Today, he got back from lunch as I was walking to English so he walked with me c: I saw one of my friends tho (my friends are tumblr people) and she ran up to me and said, "I ship you two," then ran away. I think he doesn't know what "shipping" is.. I just don't want my friends to scare him away.. Yup...

[FoxerOwl]

Well. To start off, I don't have much experience with those stuff. But me being a shy and nervous person myself, I know how you feel, so I thought I could help out with the things I know. c:

1rst: If a guy likes you, he could do both things. If he is shy himself, he could just sit there, in akward silence. Just like you would; there isn't a huge difference between shy guys and girls. c'x The teasing and flirting will come eventually; it just takes longer if you are both shy. You'll have to start talking and getting comfortable with each other first. c;
2nd: I don't think it freaked him out. c: I mean, it shouldn't becomee a habit of yours, because then it will discourage him. But for now, if it happened only once, I think it's ok. I mean, you really could need to find.. Kolby. c':
General advice: Ok, generally, it'd be best if you could find some courage and actually try to start a conversation or at least give him a hint you like him by looking at him and smiling. He is going to be encouraged. c:

I hope I helped! ;D

He is very shy himself. But the problem is, I've liked him since 1st grade ;A; We actually dated for a while in fifth or sixth grade, but then his mom made up "oh, he's too young! he can date when he's 15" but we're already past that age and she hates my guts.

I try to start a conversation, I really do, but I honestly try to avoid him at all times, because of my shyness and his mother.

I don't know what to doooo ;A; I think he still likes me but he is discouraged by his mother? I don't know v.v

[Simplistic Beauty]

So far i've been totally not focusing on crushes just year and just focusing on my school work. I still feel weird about my old crush though. It's like I don't like him but he still kind of has that one place in my mind and stuff. I mean sometimes I'll look and him and think he's kind of cute but that crush feeling is totally gone now. I know I can't bear to like somebody knowing they don't feel the same, this is the whole reason why I stopped liking him. Usually I get crushes and move to another guy really quickly but not this time it seems..

[.:Jimmy|non|weesly:.]

Met someone this year... And I've liked him ever since now, I try to go near him and stuff and smile and things.
Like for instance he says something funny I laugh and smile.
I sit near him when I can,
I asked him what his subjects for next year that he picked were.(high school)
I try to be good at stuff, so I'm going to try and be more confident since I'm pretty shy
I'm going to try become his friend, how do I be his friend without him feeling awkward or whatever????
I seem to like some of the things he does, like drawing.... And well, I don't know much about him so should I ask about him? And how though? Do I go up to him and say something, do I sit next to him or ask questions??? Please HELP

[runnershigh]

all the feels. i'm gonna explode.
my old crush emailed me today. omg i feel so happy <3

we used to be good friends, until he had to go to boarding school. it made me really sad, not just because i was crushing on him, but because he was a great friend. he always made me smile when i was down, and his jokes were hilarious X3 he was just really fun to be around.

and then i thought we wouldn't be friends because i think he found out that i liked him. but he never acted like anything had changed, and that we were still best mates. but he did start to get a bit closer, and was a bit more open towards me.

and then something awesome happened. it was a school disco at the end of the year and he came up to me, and we hung out for a while. towards the end of the night i caught him looking at me funny, and i thought he was going to ask me out. he said, 'you know, i really like you. and i was wondering-' and then his stupid mother came up, and heard what he was going to say. his mum didn't want him dating so she demanded that he went and sat in the car, so he gave me a hug and then they left. and i think that i was the reason that he had to go to boarding school.

that was the last time we talked.
well, until today.
i hope we can see each other again soon <3

do you think he was actually going to ask me out?

[mitchypoosays]

Met someone this year... And I've liked him ever since now, I try to go near him and stuff and smile and things.
Like for instance he says something funny I laugh and smile.
I sit near him when I can,
I asked him what his subjects for next year that he picked were.(high school)
I try to be good at stuff, so I'm going to try and be more confident since I'm pretty shy
I'm going to try become his friend, how do I be his friend without him feeling awkward or whatever????
I seem to like some of the things he does, like drawing.... And well, I don't know much about him so should I ask about him? And how though? Do I go up to him and say something, do I sit next to him or ask questions??? Please HELP

from my experience, just act natural. like, sit down next to him at lunch and just casually talk to him. you can be his friend by not acting awkward, just act like he's already your friend. i kinda suck at giving advice, sorry.

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hey guys. thanks for all the help. really. it means everything to me. but when i talked to him, he started to find me annoying. and well erm. he broke up with me. whatever, i got my friends and you guys i guess. if he finds just talking to him annoying, then it's not my fault. i tried. it was a pretty jerk move anyway. his loss. so... thanks a bunch for the advice.

[Paranoia]

Ugh. Online I always have this habit of going off and liking someone then growing away from them. Most of the guys I do meet online I get crushes for and a lot of times I easily show it and a lot of them do show some interest in me as well :T
I met someone that lives about two hours away from me about a month or two back and we talked while playing zombies all of the time. I honestly adored the boy and since we actually talked and he lived close I think it made it easier. He clearly liked (likes..?) me but ever since school started I barely get a text out of him a day, if that. We talk on weekends but my weekends end up being more busy than my week days at times so talking to him is going to be extremely limited and I don't want that to happen. It's been nearly a week since I've talked to him properly and the only day I'm open this weekend is going to be Sunday so I desperately hope he's on.
Since this has happened though I've met someone else through my omegle adventures (god that site is horrible xD) One of the few decent people through there and I've met a few people on there that I've stayed friends with for months now and talk to on a regular basis.
But anyways. This guy is 18 (not too much older than me. A couple years) and lives quite a ways away. Still in the same country but he could only get a few states farther away. We haven't talked yet, for we planned to last night but he ended up being busy and I think that's going to completely be the deal breaker for me if we don't hit it off well actually talking because I'm a LOT shyer talking and irl than I am online and if we cant talk for more than 20 minutes that's just going to be horrible.

[bless the vic]

Oh dear.
In school, there is this boy, lets call him J-P.
I keep on saying hi to him just to be friendly but now he has a crush on me.
The other day, he asked me out. I said no but then I realised that I actually have a crush on him to.
I am scared to say that I like him and ask him out, any suggestions on what to do ?