Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Keletheryl]

So basically, I've been hooking up with this guy.

Well, I think it's safe to say that we kiss. Who doesn't? And now I'm asking; before he would never really get totally into it, just kind of you know, kiss and stuff. But today he was actually really into it (I think? This is what I need your help on lol) and was like kissing really hard and fast and stuff. Does this mean anything, or is it just another kiss?

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Ermahgerd >o<
I was going back to my desk from a group assignment and Bear's group was by my desk and they were playing rock paper scissors and so I asked them why and Bear surprised me. HE TALKED AND DIDN'T FREAKIN WHISPER AND THAT WAS THE FIRST TIME!! /endcapabuse

K so, I heard him talk and let me just say, it's not Morgan Freeman good but it's pretty up there. Like, it's so deep and rich and thick and I think my eyes melted out of their sockets just then XDD

[d.va]

I met someone back in March. We became friends. Within a few weeks, I knew I liked this person. But the thing is, I told him right away. I never do that. We are in a relationship currently, but I'm just wondering: Is that fact that I somehow gathered the courage to tell him how much I liked him right away special? Does it mean anything? I was just wondering this, because my typical schoolgirl crushes were always kept silent and secret, and they wore off after a month..

[SilverBlade]

Ohmygod before I continue I get nervous easily cx

So I was hanging out with my friend Sam at lunch when we went to the other side of the school, where my crush was sitting with a girl (who has a crush on him... //sobs softly) and the girl, Lindsay, if Sam's cousin. So she sits next to Lindsay, both on the left side of the hall with Tanner (crush) on the other side. So I sat across from Sam, about two feet away from my crush. I FREAKED OUT.

Anyways, they talked for like 30 seconds and then I jumped up and said "Imma go find... Kolby yeah bye!" I ran away, with my mind racing omg ;A;

So my question is, will a guy, if he likes you, normally sit there and not say a word, or tease and flirt with you?

Also, do you think me running away so suddenly freaked him out or discouraged him?

Thanks <3

Well. To start off, I don't have much experience with those stuff. But me being a shy and nervous person myself, I know how you feel, so I thought I could help out with the things I know. c:

1rst: If a guy likes you, he could do both things. If he is shy himself, he could just sit there, in akward silence. Just like you would; there isn't a huge difference between shy guys and girls. c'x The teasing and flirting will come eventually; it just takes longer if you are both shy. You'll have to start talking and getting comfortable with each other first. c;
2nd: I don't think it freaked him out. c: I mean, it shouldn't becomee a habit of yours, because then it will discourage him. But for now, if it happened only once, I think it's ok. I mean, you really could need to find.. Kolby. c':
General advice: Ok, generally, it'd be best if you could find some courage and actually try to start a conversation or at least give him a hint you like him by looking at him and smiling. He is going to be encouraged. c:

I hope I helped! ;D

[erythristicbones]

I've had a crush on this guy since last school year,but was to shy to really talk to him until the end of the year. He never anwsered his phone when I texted him,so I didn't speak or hear from him at all over the summer. So,this school year I have a class with him and I see him alot around campus,so I've been talking to him alot more and we're friends. Some his friends and my friends aswell have all told him I like him,and they said when they did that he "just stood there and smiled like an idiot". They think that he likes me,but he's just really shy and awkward like I am so he hasn't said anything,but I'm not sure if they're right. I've never had to deal with this kind of thing,so I don't know DX

Also,today one of my other friends said she liked the same guy I do. I'm not sure if she knows that I defenitely like him(since I never told her),but I can almost feel the tension when I'm talking with him and she comes up. I don't want her to hate me,but I really like this guy,and I've been trying to work up the courage to tell him personally since last school year whereas she's just now liking him. I'm not sure if I should still like this guy or if I should give up because I don't want my friend to hate me.

I've never had to deal with anything crush/relationship wise before,so if anyone has any advice/comments about either of those things I'd be really grateful.

[stinkende]

So basically, I've been hooking up with this guy.

Well, I think it's safe to say that we kiss. Who doesn't? And now I'm asking; before he would never really get totally into it, just kind of you know, kiss and stuff. But today he was actually really into it (I think? This is what I need your help on lol) and was like kissing really hard and fast and stuff. Does this mean anything, or is it just another kiss?

Careful. He's pushing your boundaries to see how far you're willing to go physically. I'm assuming you are not in a relationship with him so you may not be the only one he's doing this with, and he is not likely to respect you a whole helluva lot if you're willing to go far without commitment. Also keep in mind that in a school situation, news gets around FAST - especially when it involves willing girls and teenage boys looking for bragging rights.

It's your call, just be aware of the possible negative consequences if you continue on with him. Don't be afraid to push things back if it's going in a direction you're not comfortable with.. and if he pressures or tries to guilt-trip you, split.

[Wild.One]

I've got to spill out all my emotions out before I explode. XD

So, there is this guy. His name is beachball. My and him started to be friends last school year. Mainly at the end. We were pretty close till my stupid sister ruined EVERYTHING! Long story short, she really embarrassed me in front of him. So new school year. I'm about completely over it but for some strange reason, he wasn't. But days went by and as he realized I was over it, he started to somewhat talk to me. It's only like 2nd or so week of school. And now we kinda talk. Here's the weird thing, we are together in everything. Not kidding. He is in my class, advisory, math class, even assigned seats. He sits next to me in math, English, even a squad thing in gym. It's like all the teachers know what happened. It's kinda creepy. The only thing he's not in with me is study hall. The only time we really talk though is math. Now here's what happened today.
We were in math. My advisor teacher comes in and says to my friend B:
Teacher: "Do you know who I was talking about in advisory?"
B: "No..."
Teacher: "Do you?" (Looking at me)
Me: "Yes..."
Then he left.
Me and My friend were really confused so where started mouthing words to each other. Come to find out that I thought here asked if we understood but he asked if we know who it was about. Then I got really worried. I thought I might get in trouble some how? The I realized that he only asked me and her. Not beachball cause he's in our advisory too. Then I asked him and we were whispering to each other and we were really close. It nice to talk to him like that again. But I really started blushing in the beginning of class. Here's what happened.
He was acting like the little thing that you ripe of or the side of notebook paper was a whip saying "Chow!" I knew what he was doing because it was from our favorite show, Duck dynasty. So I was looking at him and he looked up and I smiled. He knew why. Then he smiled then stopped and looked down. I could feel my face turning red.
Thing is, my friend C thinks he likes me. That's why I couldn't tell her this and had to write it here. She's obsessed over how she thinks me and him should be together. But I just want him as a friend. I don't really want a boyfriend right now. I don't think he likes me. She says he has heard him say my name more than only in study halls. But truth is, I get a bit jealous when he talks to other girls. And I'm not the kind to be jealous at all. Sorry for this being so long. I just can't tell any of my friends. Any advise? Keep in mind, I'm kinda shy...

[Keletheryl]

So basically, I've been hooking up with this guy.

Well, I think it's safe to say that we kiss. Who doesn't? And now I'm asking; before he would never really get totally into it, just kind of you know, kiss and stuff. But today he was actually really into it (I think? This is what I need your help on lol) and was like kissing really hard and fast and stuff. Does this mean anything, or is it just another kiss?

Careful. He's pushing your boundaries to see how far you're willing to go physically. I'm assuming you are not in a relationship with him so you may not be the only one he's doing this with, and he is not likely to respect you a whole helluva lot if you're willing to go far without commitment. Also keep in mind that in a school situation, news gets around FAST - especially when it involves willing girls and teenage boys looking for bragging rights.

It's your call, just be aware of the possible negative consequences if you continue on with him. Don't be afraid to push things back if it's going in a direction you're not comfortable with.. and if he pressures or tries to guilt-trip you, split.

I probably should have added more details xD
One; he doesn't go to High School. He goes to University. Don't worry, he's only 3 years older than me.
Two; He's very good when it comes to er, girls, I guess. He treats me very well and when if he goes to do something and I say "No", he will say "Okay" and not do it. He wouldn't pressure me into doing anything, it's not who he is ^^

[pepperminty]

Im in 8th grade and i have never had a boyfriend or have ever been asked out. So im rather clueless.I asked this guy last year to a dance, and he said yes. Well we mostly avoided each other during it cause we were both nervous. He appologized for not having enough guts to ask me to dance... Well school ended, and then 8th grade started. And yet again, i have a crush on this same guy. He was posting alot of stuff on instagram about love and how difficult it is, and how easy it is to dissapoint some one. Im really confused. How can i know if he likes me? And what he is posting about sounds alot like what happened last year. Does it mean anything..?

[stinkende]

I probably should have added more details xD
One; he doesn't go to High School. He goes to University. Don't worry, he's only 3 years older than me.
Two; He's very good when it comes to er, girls, I guess. He treats me very well and when if he goes to do something and I say "No", he will say "Okay" and not do it. He wouldn't pressure me into doing anything, it's not who he is ^^

He is still trying to figure out your physical boundaries. Sounds like you're not naive - just be cognizant of what exactly you want out of this and respect yourself.