Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Anuran]

So, there's a lot going on.

Firstly...
the guy I really like and I have been texting for a few weeks, and he makes it rather obvious that he likes me, or did, until yesterday. He texts me, but not in the way he used to, y'know? And now, today, he just doesn't seem... interested.
I had this problem last week, though it went away in a day's time.
Now it's back.
Am I just being paranoid? He seems... distant... at school, like he hangs around and hugs me but isn't as spunky and funny like he had been.
Maybe I'm just being an attention-hog?
I've no idea.

Secondly...
I text my ex for the first time since December.
It was brutal.
I tried to go to the guy I like ^ about it.
Let's see how that goes.
Thing is, reason me and my ex are fighting again is because my ex got mad when I told him about the guy I've been hanging around with.
If my crush asks why him and I are fighting, this could be my chance to officially tell him how I feel about him.
Or maybe I'll chicken out and make up some blubbering excuse so I don't have to worry about rejection.
Meh.
I'm super emotional for some crazy reason as well, so yeah, this doesn't help.
Oh well.
I just hope things start getting better for me and my crush. My ex can get lost. >.<
Much love;
Warpaint

[Dia.]

Warpaint - Guys are weird texters. xD I went through the same thing with my boyfriend before we started dating and even still it happens sometimes. Although now, I don't think anything of it.
Try not to worry too much, since worrying will just make everything so much worse.
And if you and your ex can't act civil to one another, just don't bother with him. It's not worth fighting and you probably shouldn't text an ex boyfriend about a potential new boyfriend unless you guys are back on best friend terms.
I'm sorry I can't really offer much help, but good luck. ^^

[Halogens]

Hey everybody! So there's this guy in my class, and I have a huge crush on him.. He's good looking, and super funny and nice to me the only problem is, no one else likes him. He's kinda like the tough guy, but I guess people think he's not nice enough to them... I don't k is what do, since I still really like him... Also, Im afraid if I ever would date me, that things would go to gast, he has had a girlfriend which, I think he's gone pretty far with, and Us want to take things slow.. What do you guys think? Should I try to forget about him? It just keep citrus hung on him in quiet? Thanks

[zenz]

I don't think it matters what the vast majority thinks of him.
What matters is, is that he's genuine to you, listens to you and respects you.
If you feel you know him well and utterly love him for it, by all mean make a move!
But the 'tough guy' reputation, if that's you type- okay. But if he abuses people, behaves malevolently and is dangerously rebellious, I'd recomend you steer clear of him. Just don't do anything you may regret. Think things through, don't be impulsive.

[Aaron✦]

So I did post the other day but I need some more advice.. *sigh*

We were on summer break and I made the decision to break up with my boyfriend. For a myriad of reasons; mainly being that he was just very depressing to be around a lot of the time, and I always feel guilty around him but I don't know why.

So anyway, one day back at school and we've exchanged a few glances already. I asked him about them, he just said I glanced back, but I told him that I was just looking up as I'm alert because I'm a hugely jumpy person. Doesn't sound plausible but it is true!
But I don't know. This is my first real relationship, and he said the glances felt like they were ten minutes long. I guess I just miss him, but I feel like I miss him more than I should. I don't know if I made the right decision at all. How should I really be feeling? Like I miss him a little? We're still good friends though. I don't understand myself ;w;

[sirius32201]

I have a crush on a boy I plan to tell him thursday

[panhead]

So.....there's this boy, right. And I love him. :D
We talk, usually stupid conversations like "WHY ARE YOU EATING THE SCIENCE EXPIREMENT?!" Or, "no, your imaginary friend doesn't hold your awesomeness". Basically we never talk real conversations.
Well, my suppporter, J, told me she was gonna talk to him for me....a little....but I'm still shaking with fear. Because, if he says no, like no period, then I might as well stop liking boys. 0_o instead I shall like wolves.
But we used to be good friends. He would talk to me. Now, I'm mentioned as someone who likes school. Or someone who has an imaginary friend, or someone who eats spaghetti raw 0_x

I don't know what to do. I try to talk to him. I really really do. I'm just CONFUSED 0_O

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[[x]]

-_- Just call me worlds most nervous idiot...
Whenever I get the chance to talk to Bear I get too nervous that he'll think I'm an idiot and whenever I'm ready to talk to him he's hanging out with friends.
He's just so cute!
Out of curiosity I looked up what shy guys do when they like a girl and he's done a lot of things it's said. Like looking at me a lot, being near me but at a slight distance, being more confident and rowdy with friends when I'm near, and when he's alone and I'm close he sometimes closes his arms in and looks down at his feet.

Me being a shy girl, I often do the same things. How can I get more confident to talk to him when he's alone!

[soreii]

So I was invited to a little party and we're both going. Though should I go?
On the invitation it says that there's a special event... I'm scared of it because it says "7 minutes in Heaven".

I've heard if this before and I'm really freaking out now. I really want to go because I have nothing to do on Friday night and I can go with him. But I'm socially awkward. Really awkward.

[panhead]

-_- Just call me worlds most nervous idiot...
Whenever I get the chance to talk to Bear I get too nervous that he'll think I'm an idiot and whenever I'm ready to talk to him he's hanging out with friends.
He's just so cute!
Out of curiosity I looked up what shy guys do when they like a girl and he's done a lot of things it's said. Like looking at me a lot, being near me but at a slight distance, being more confident and rowdy with friends when I'm near, and when he's alone and I'm close he sometimes closes his arms in and looks down at his feet.

Me being a shy girl, I often do the same things. How can I get more confident to talk to him when he's alone!

(Yeah, I know I just posted *.*)

I have sort of the same problem, I'm super shy and kind of go into shut down mode. My friend was helping me, and she said find something that he recently did (like won a contest, went to the beach, ect.) or something that he is good at (in my case drawing, soccer, and intelligence 0.0) compliment him on something, and It may start a conversation.
Or...you could do what I do! Just say something super random like OOOMMMGGGG ARE YOU A NINJA?!

But I don't suggest that. It doesn't always turn out the way you think it might....but hey, it's better than sitting in awkward silence.

So I was invited to a little party and we're both going. Though should I go?
On the invitation it says that there's a special event... I'm scared of it because it says "7 minutes in Heaven".

I've heard if this before and I'm really freaking out now. I really want to go because I have nothing to do on Friday night and I can go with him. But I'm socially awkward. Really awkward.

If you would really like to go, you can excuse yourself while they play It or simply say that you do not feel comfortable. If they say "no, you've got to play", I would not think of them as anyone to hang around anymore.