Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Refugee]

So there's this guy who last year actually seemed to like me but this year we have no classes together and I have no idea how I should approach him and we weren't that close but I think we both liked each other! What should I do?!

I have the same problem (sorta) this guy is my best guy friend, and we always had classes together. This year? Two: Lunch and history. In lunch he sits with these guys I can't stand, and in history my teacher separated us because we wouldn't shut up. It really sucks but I'm hoping he'll come around and start contacting me other ways. Hopefully.

As for your situation, do you have another year? Maybe wait It out till next year and see if you have classes together. That really helps build a solid friendship, seeing each other daily. I know I'm losing my friends since I don't have any classes with any of them! And on top of that, the man I love is in college now! Miss him so badly I can't stand it!
Sorry to get a little off topic, but as you can see, I have many problems of my own.

Lots of love,
Zelda <3

[clarabow]

My crush is in two of my classes this semester.

I hate him.

[Aaron✦]

So I'd looove some advice from anyone?

I'm a girl; for the first year of High school I've hung around with a group of friends that are girls, but before that I've always had male best friends.

Last year me and my best girl friend started hanging out with a group of boys, not for any other dating reason other than I just feel ten times more comfortable with guys. So, long story short, both of us ended up dating one of them... >.> but I broke up with my boyfriend last night. However now I'm unsure if we hung out with the guys 'cause they put up with us because we were dating one of them, or because they like us... My ex and I are still great friends, and my best girl friend is still with her boyfriend, plus I've still hung out with one of the guys and her boyfriend all summer. I'm just wondering how much anyone thinks it will affect it- do you think we'll still be "allowed" to hang around with them?

*Le sigh* first world problems!

[Me <3]

So I'd looove some advice from anyone?

I'm a girl; for the first year of High school I've hung around with a group of friends that are girls, but before that I've always had male best friends.

Last year me and my best girl friend started hanging out with a group of boys, not for any other dating reason other than I just feel ten times more comfortable with guys. So, long story short, both of us ended up dating one of them... >.> but I broke up with my boyfriend last night. However now I'm unsure if we hung out with the guys 'cause they put up with us because we were dating one of them, or because they like us... My ex and I are still great friends, and my best girl friend is still with her boyfriend, plus I've still hung out with one of the guys and her boyfriend all summer. I'm just wondering how much anyone thinks it will affect it- do you think we'll still be "allowed" to hang around with them?

*Le sigh* first world problems!

Probably I mean this is a bad example because I ended up leaving all of them and they were actually my friends but here we go. I use to be friends with a lot of girls in my GS troop. Then some left and 2 started to stop liking me. They may have been mean but I didn't care I still did girl scout (up to a point) and did activities with them. Sorry if its not helpful but I think they'll be cool with you hanging out with them.

[bubble9001]

...I just give up. I just need to accept the fact that I'm going to be forever alone. :'(

[clarabow]

...I just give up. I just need to accept the fact that I'm going to be forever alone. :'(

Me too.

[greysilence]

Eep. :3

I guess you could say I'm in a really good mood. I haven't posted in a while. Most of you probably don't remember me posting about Jeremy, and I'm going to assume the majority of you don't remember the stuff I posted about him way back on the past thread as well. Oh well. Anyways, long story short, the last time he said "I love you" to me I flipped out and sorta kinda maybe shunned him for five months. However, we made up and have been best friends again for quite a while now, over 7 or 8 months.

I don't know why, but for whatever reason, I've been craving for him to confirm that he still loves me. Whenever we'd talk about stuff, he'd just say like, and it'd make me doubtful. However, he said it finally again today. For the first time in over a year. I don't know why, it just made me all giddy. :3

It was the end of seventh hour, and he stole my headband. I had to keep chasing him around to get it, and he had it under his shirt. He finally took it out from under his shirt and proceeded to shove it in his mouth. After a couple seconds he gave it back to me. I was just like, "Ew." and was barely holding onto it. Then he just grabbed me in a big hug and said, "It's not gross. I love you, and you're my favorite." I wasn't too sure how to respond. I was just like, "I'm your favorite?", and he said, "Yeah." I just replied with, "Then I guess it's okay." and put my headband back on. The bell then rang and we left to go to our lockers.

I know, I'm just so smooth. I'm not awkward at all, right? lolno. I feel kinda bad not saying it back. Those are just really big words for me (yes, I know they're not "I'm in love with you), and he knows that. I think he'll just be happy that my reaction was and won't be the same as the last time. A lot of other things have happened, but this just happened today. I'm not really looking for advice, I just wanted to let mah feels out. :3

[Me <3]

...I just give up. I just need to accept the fact that I'm going to be forever alone. :'(

Me too.

What makes you say that? You both seem awesome and cool. Just because one person doesn't like you doesn't mean everyone feels the same way. Don't give up hope and even if that is true its ok because you have more time for friends or alone so it can be a good thing. When being alone you have time to practice your skills I've heard from multiple people you need like 1000 hours or more to become officially good at it so you would by theory become really good at that talent. So I only want to try and make people happy because I'm like that.

[llamadelrey]

kk guys, facebook messaging my crush, WHAT DO I SAY.

I have already asked him about ROTC and school and omg he just logged out omg

update: I know his mom and we are very close so she know I have a crush on him. She told me the story of what was happening while hr was messaging me...

Well, he isn't socially aware half of the time, because he is autistic. There were some girls from church that i know who also go to my school, and they were hanging out with his mom. They asked who he was talking to, so he told them. They were telling him how pretty I was (lol don't know about that!) and how he should invite me to the movies. He just blushed a lot and told them to stop. HES SO CUTE OMG //ends cap abuse

[vvoland]

...I just give up. I just need to accept the fact that I'm going to be forever alone. :'(

Me too.

What makes you say that? You both seem awesome and cool. Just because one person doesn't like you doesn't mean everyone feels the same way. Don't give up hope and even if that is true its ok because you have more time for friends or alone so it can be a good thing. When being alone you have time to practice your skills I've heard from multiple people you need like 1000 hours or more to become officially good at it so you would by theory become really good at that talent. So I only want to try and make people happy because I'm like that.

the forever alone thing is something I don't have any sympathy for.
if its something that annoys you, not having a "significant other", then do something about it.
go out of your comfort zone.

face the facts. Chances are, you wont be forever alone, unless you just shelter yourself away from everyone.