Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Mistress Shadow.]

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❝ Hello... I need some help again.
I really like one of my friends a lot. He's really nice and fun to talk to and I just... I dunno. We've known each other for about a year now, although we haven't talked that much until school started back up this year. I think he may like me back, and is just really shy about it? I have no clue. I'm really bad at judging emotions and reading body language so maybe he thinks I'm really annoying and is just trying to be nice to me? Ugh. I really want him to like me back... I'm thinking of inviting him to the next football game (this Friday) because I'm marching in it, and I think it would be a great way for us to hang out. But... Am I being too clingy/annoying? Is that even a good idea? And, if I do get the courage to ask him to go, how would I even phrase it? He doesn't answer his phone much, and I only see him in the morning, so I have no clue.
Also, my friend mentioned she's liked him for 1-3 years now and although she denies it, I'm not sure if she still likes him. I don't want to be a total jerk to her if she still likes him, you know? And what if he likes her, not me? I'm so confused.
Why must relationships be so complicated, why can't I just date a squirrel instead? ❞

⇨ Shadow

[Lana1171]

can someone pm me about like being the third wheel in a friendship/flirting... I don't know what to call it lol, ThankYou in advanced.

[J-Hope]

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❝ Hello... I need some help again.
I really like one of my friends a lot. He's really nice and fun to talk to and I just... I dunno. We've known each other for about a year now, although we haven't talked that much until school started back up this year. I think he may like me back, and is just really shy about it? I have no clue. I'm really bad at judging emotions and reading body language so maybe he thinks I'm really annoying and is just trying to be nice to me? Ugh. I really want him to like me back... I'm thinking of inviting him to the next football game (this Friday) because I'm marching in it, and I think it would be a great way for us to hang out. But... Am I being too clingy/annoying? Is that even a good idea? And, if I do get the courage to ask him to go, how would I even phrase it? He doesn't answer his phone much, and I only see him in the morning, so I have no clue.
Also, my friend mentioned she's liked him for 1-3 years now and although she denies it, I'm not sure if she still likes him. I don't want to be a total jerk to her if she still likes him, you know? And what if he likes her, not me? I'm so confused.
Why must relationships be so complicated, why can't I just date a squirrel instead? ❞

⇨ Shadow

Well, I think its fine to cling to him ^^
And if you date him, just remember, it's his choice who he dates ^^
And yea, squirrels are fun to date X3

[horsey1111horsey]

okay so i just found out the guy i like is single. but i dunno if he likes me. i thought he liked me before i don't think he does anymore and im kinda like, well what do i do.
also, im getting a bit worried as like everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend/girlfriend and i havent. my mother used to say all these horrible things to me and say i would never get a boyfriend and i was ugly and all this stuff. i used to live by the saying 'there is someone out there for everybody' but now i think it might not be true.

[Me <3]

Okay, I'll try it.
I just get nervous being with him now, I haven't seen him in school for a year. We're finally going to the same one but I'm just a bit anxious right now.

Well there's a nice place at the back of the school, nice and quiet. I always go there during lunch when I can't find him. Should I bring him there with me tomorrow if I find him?

Why not? I mean all you have to do is ask. Just don't force him to go if he doesn't want to.

[Me <3]

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❝ Hello... I need some help again.
I really like one of my friends a lot. He's really nice and fun to talk to and I just... I dunno. We've known each other for about a year now, although we haven't talked that much until school started back up this year. I think he may like me back, and is just really shy about it? I have no clue. I'm really bad at judging emotions and reading body language so maybe he thinks I'm really annoying and is just trying to be nice to me? Ugh. I really want him to like me back... I'm thinking of inviting him to the next football game (this Friday) because I'm marching in it, and I think it would be a great way for us to hang out. But... Am I being too clingy/annoying? Is that even a good idea? And, if I do get the courage to ask him to go, how would I even phrase it? He doesn't answer his phone much, and I only see him in the morning, so I have no clue.
Also, my friend mentioned she's liked him for 1-3 years now and although she denies it, I'm not sure if she still likes him. I don't want to be a total jerk to her if she still likes him, you know? And what if he likes her, not me? I'm so confused.
Why must relationships be so complicated, why can't I just date a squirrel instead? ❞

⇨ Shadow

Go ahead and ask him. You won't be betraying your friend its not like she owns him and you taking him from her. Also if he doesn't want to just shrug it off you had the courage to ask and will act/will have the dignity to walk away almost like you don't care. If he still doesn't like you chanses are another boy might because you just showed some traits that look good in people.

[Me <3]

okay so i just found out the guy i like is single. but i dunno if he likes me. i thought he liked me before i don't think he does anymore and im kinda like, well what do i do.
also, im getting a bit worried as like everybody in my grade has had a boyfriend/girlfriend and i havent. my mother used to say all these horrible things to me and say i would never get a boyfriend and i was ugly and all this stuff. i used to live by the saying 'there is someone out there for everybody' but now i think it might not be true.

Well I'm going to be honest not all people get married not everyone in you grade has a boy/girl friend and your amazing. Even if you do end up single you'll probably live a happy life like my aunt, she doesn't have to pay for big dinners or large portions of food and she has a dog that gets her undivided attention mostly. You'll have so much time studying and doing what you love you'll become very smart and skilled at your talent. And before trying to become this guys boy friend try and be his friend, you learn more about him and see if he's you type before you date. Also if he is he can then learn about you and maybe even start to form a crush on you.

[vanilla kitten]

i go to school and all of a sudden he hates me again.

i don't know what to do about this. i don't think i'm gonna do anything tbch. i don't think i honestly give a fruit anymore.. it just hurts my feelings when he says how much he hates me. or else i probably wouldnt care much.

[lioness99a]

Feeling a bit bummed out right now... Today was the first day back at school and I was looking forwards to being able to get closer to my crush (who's my age) now that his ex (my best friend) has left the school to go to university but he told me today that they're together again... I think this deserves a bit of back story so here goes:

I've known her for 6 years and we're very close. She knew him for a month or so before I did (they worked together) and said that he was very similar to me. He joined our school last September and she was right - he was pretty much a male me! However, he had a crush on her and asked her out in November. They went out for 10 days and then she broke up with him because her childhood crush had asked her out. She told me that it hadn't really been working out between the two of them anyway and it wouldn't have lasted for too much longer then. During that time, my crush on him had developed quite a lot. After that, we started getting closer and were both flirting with each other. I'm not a very forward person so I was trying to find the courage to ask him out. This went on for quite a few months but I was always slightly discouraged by my female friend still sort of flirting with him. She broke up with her boyfriend in May and then it was exams season so I didn't see much of either of them but, whenever I did, they were always flirting with each other. However, the last few weeks of term were much better because she wasn't there (that sounds really bad of me to say but I don't think they will ever last as a couple - they're too different - and I guess I was a little annoyed with her for doing it since she knew I liked him...). We then broke up for summer and I saw him several times. I drove him to meet up with other friends because I've passed my test and he hasn't! We would tease each other and generally flirt, walk really close and quite regularly he would put his face near mine when talking to me... I was getting quietly confident that he liked me, especially when he came to work to see me and asked me if I was free to go see something with him! I was planning on giving it a couple of days to settle back into school and then tell him how I felt and hopefully ask him out. But then today he just casually dropped it into conversation that he was going out with her again. I don't think it's really sunk in yet, probably because I don't know the details behind who asked who and how long it's been going on. The part that confuses me is that she hasn't said anything to me about it (and I told her after they broke up in November that I liked him) and I was talking to a guy who likes her who was saying that he couldn't sleep but he had sworn not to talk about why which makes me think she's trying to keep it from me... I haven't spoken to her in a little while though so she could just want to tell me herself and not have me find out from someone else... And also, he hasn't changed how he behaves towards me at all... He still flirts like he used to do and we 'bicker like an old married couple' (as said by a mutual friend..!) so I'm a little confused. I know I can't act on my feelings (I would never do that to such a close friend) but I can't help but wonder why they're going out if he still clearly likes me...

Sorry that it's really long, I just needed to get all that off my chest and try and sort out my brain... I wouldn't mind a few pointers as to what to do but I think I'm just going to do what I did when they last went out and just be a good friend to them and hopefully he'll get the hint if they ever break up...

[soreii]

So, I'm back from school and I think I may have made some progress :3

I managed to find him today and he went with me there. We talked a bit and he said we would go back there tomorrow because he also likes it there. I guess you could say my face was pretty red the entire time too >.<