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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Refugee » Tue Sep 03, 2013 10:21 am

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ZeldaFreak621 wrote:Guys help. On FB my crush/best guy friend only has lunch with me this year. And I know he's not gonna sit with me 'cause he doesn't like my best friends.

We used to flirt in classes together all the time... I'm going to miss that so much! :cry: :cry: Advice?


Well I know this can sound horrible but you could sit with him and not your friends. Then you could talk get to know his pals and stuff. That's what I have to say rater then make plans to hang out somewhere with him after school.


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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Squirrelflight1234 » Tue Sep 03, 2013 10:45 am

Squirrelflight1234 wrote:MKaY so I'd really like some help. Well.... I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about five and a half months. The thing is, I'm not really sure if he loves me. I know it sounds stupid, but when we were friends he didn't act that much different towards me now that we are together. I know relation ships aren't all about mushy-mushy kiss kiss stuff but still... Also, it's hard to really have a normal conversation without him saying something dirtyminded. I'm just not really sure I love him as much as I used to. Stupid typical teenage love running out... I'm not sure what I should do because I don't want to break his heart or be too mean, but I do want to do SOMETHING. Please give advice -- thanks.


And to add to this, I'm feeling extremely indecisive as well. One minute I'm in love, and the next I'm having doubts.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby pandas<3green » Tue Sep 03, 2013 11:24 am

So there's this guy who last year actually seemed to like me but this year we have no classes together and I have no idea how I should approach him and we weren't that close but I think we both liked each other! What should I do?!
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby pandas<3green » Tue Sep 03, 2013 11:26 am

Squirrelflight1234 wrote:
Squirrelflight1234 wrote:MKaY so I'd really like some help. Well.... I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about five and a half months. The thing is, I'm not really sure if he loves me. I know it sounds stupid, but when we were friends he didn't act that much different towards me now that we are together. I know relation ships aren't all about mushy-mushy kiss kiss stuff but still... Also, it's hard to really have a normal conversation without him saying something dirtyminded. I'm just not really sure I love him as much as I used to. Stupid typical teenage love running out... I'm not sure what I should do because I don't want to break his heart or be too mean, but I do want to do SOMETHING. Please give advice -- thanks.


And to add to this, I'm feeling extremely indecisive as well. One minute I'm in love, and the next I'm having doubts.

Maybe you could ask to put ur relationship on a time out, not saying it will work but it could give u time to figure things out
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Ruined Veggie » Tue Sep 03, 2013 11:48 am

There is this guy that I like, but I recently found out that he has a crush on my best friend. Plus, he say that I am his best friend in the whole school, so I am basically friend-zoned, too. Should I just give up and stay friends?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Anuran » Tue Sep 03, 2013 12:02 pm

Epicwolfpuppy wrote:There is this guy that I like, but I recently found out that he has a crush on my best friend. Plus, he say that I am his best friend in the whole school, so I am basically friend-zoned, too. Should I just give up and stay friends?


I have to say yes; I was in the same boat all last year. c:

I absolutely loved my best friend ever, but then the night I had decided I was going to tell him how I felt, he asked if he could tell me something, because he didn't know who else to go to. And, KABOOM, he has a mega-crush on my best friend. (The three of us were inseperable.)

So, all I could do was tell myself that, hey, being best friends is better than going out. Once I thought about it, IF we had become something more, our friendship would be mega-weird once we broke up. I convinced myself it would be like dating a brother... gross.

Sometimes just staying friends is better, because then you have more time to build up your trust in eachother and such. c:

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Squirrelflight1234 » Tue Sep 03, 2013 12:10 pm

pandas<3green wrote:
Squirrelflight1234 wrote:
Squirrelflight1234 wrote:MKaY so I'd really like some help. Well.... I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about five and a half months. The thing is, I'm not really sure if he loves me. I know it sounds stupid, but when we were friends he didn't act that much different towards me now that we are together. I know relation ships aren't all about mushy-mushy kiss kiss stuff but still... Also, it's hard to really have a normal conversation without him saying something dirtyminded. I'm just not really sure I love him as much as I used to. Stupid typical teenage love running out... I'm not sure what I should do because I don't want to break his heart or be too mean, but I do want to do SOMETHING. Please give advice -- thanks.


And to add to this, I'm feeling extremely indecisive as well. One minute I'm in love, and the next I'm having doubts.

Maybe you could ask to put ur relationship on a time out, not saying it will work but it could give u time to figure things out



Thanks so much, but I've already been thinking about things. Even if I would say something, I have no idea how to say it!
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby soreii » Tue Sep 03, 2013 1:05 pm

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Well, I have a friend I've known for a very long time. He helped me out when I first moved here and we are still good friends.
We go to each other's houses, play and trade Pokemon with each other and all kinds of stuff.

I'm starting think I like him though, like really like him. I don't know if he feels the same way as me though.

Though i'm not sure if he would find someone like me to be a good girlfriend. I'm tomboyish, really freaking short, I play Pokemon and watch anime all the time, and i'm just really shy. I almost talk to no one but him.

Any advice on how I could probably calm down or get him to tell me if he likes me too?
I don't know how to deal with things like this >.<


May I get help please?
I don't know what I'll do when I run into him at school tomorrow.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby Squirrelflight1234 » Tue Sep 03, 2013 1:10 pm

KyuranKitsune wrote:
KyuranKitsune wrote:
Well, I have a friend I've known for a very long time. He helped me out when I first moved here and we are still good friends.
We go to each other's houses, play and trade Pokemon with each other and all kinds of stuff.

I'm starting think I like him though, like really like him. I don't know if he feels the same way as me though.

Though i'm not sure if he would find someone like me to be a good girlfriend. I'm tomboyish, really freaking short, I play Pokemon and watch anime all the time, and i'm just really shy. I almost talk to no one but him.

Any advice on how I could probably calm down or get him to tell me if he likes me too?
I don't know how to deal with things like this >.<


May I get help please?
I don't know what I'll do when I run into him at school tomorrow.


Nothing wrong with being who you are! Just be yourself and try not to worry to much. Maybe if you just keep talking to him it'll help. Also, you never know -- he might like your type.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

Postby soreii » Tue Sep 03, 2013 2:09 pm

Okay, I'll try it.
I just get nervous being with him now, I haven't seen him in school for a year. We're finally going to the same one but I'm just a bit anxious right now.

Well there's a nice place at the back of the school, nice and quiet. I always go there during lunch when I can't find him. Should I bring him there with me tomorrow if I find him?
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