Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[alokesti]

Hai. Im new and I have a question.

My crush that I have like for a while now, just started showing signs that I exist to him like he is talking to me and stuff and teasing me in a cute and sweet way. Could that mean he could be starting to like me or at least showing any interest in me at all?

[Darkest Night]

Okay, this may sound like I'm a cheater. But I have a boyfriend, but I like this other boy. >.< But I like my boyfriend and crush! Ergh! I dunno what to do!!! But at the same time I love my boyfriend more... I feel like a totall cheater though!

[serenity QUITTING]

so there's this guy.

and i really, really like him.
but, of course, there are a few issues:
xxxx➤ i don't know if he's single or not.
xxxx➤ he talks to me, but it's usually him doing all the talking. i'm too dang shy!
xxxx➤ i have history with him, and he sits a few desks away. whenever i glance at him, he's either looking at me, or turning his face really fast away from me/ my general area.

so, i need some advice..
xxxx➤ how do i get over my shyness with guys, especially this one?
xxxx➤ how to i interpret his glances? romantic or no? "i like her" or "gosh she's a freak and i can't help but stare"?

[FallenSilent]

Okay, this may sound like I'm a cheater. But I have a boyfriend, but I like this other boy. >.< But I like my boyfriend and crush! Ergh! I dunno what to do!!! But at the same time I love my boyfriend more... I feel like a totall cheater though!

See, my 'big brother' had this same problem. He had a girlfriend, but was crushing on another guy. He did like his girlfriend more, and did feel like a cheater, but you aren't. Okay? Even if you do have a small crush on this other guy, you're not actually cheating because you aren't acting on that crush. Over time, the crush should go away, but if it doesn't.. Maybe you should be with that other guy? Like those random quoter people say, "If you fall in love with two guys, go for the second. If you really liked the first, you wouldn't have fallen for the second."
Yeah... I probably contradicting myself there. Sorry! Hope I helped somewhat..

[Dia.]

Okay, this may sound like I'm a cheater. But I have a boyfriend, but I like this other boy. >.< But I like my boyfriend and crush! Ergh! I dunno what to do!!! But at the same time I love my boyfriend more... I feel like a totall cheater though!

You aren't a cheater unless you talk about it or act on it.

[Mr.Mustache]

Ok, I like this girl, and I'm to embarrassed to talk to her and if I do talk to her, this other girl (that tries to hide that she likes me) would kill me for talking to another girl, andif I don't talk to her some other guy would probably take her away, what do I do!
(Please help)

[Dia.]

Ok, I like this girl, and I'm to embarrassed to talk to her and if I do talk to her, this other girl (that tries to hide that she likes me) would kill me for talking to another girl, andif I don't talk to her some other guy would probably take her away, what do I do!
(Please help)

Who cares that "this other girl that tries to hide that she likes you" wouldn't be happy for talking to the other girl??
Do what makes you happy and don't worry about other people especially if you don't share mutual feelings with them.

[Mr.Mustache]

I'm like scared because she Carrys around a 6 inch pocket knife every here she goes and stalks me.

[Darkest Night]

Okay, thanks for the advice! :3 Just one sad thing is, I don't think my crush likes me. ;-;

[Dia.]

Okay, thanks for the advice! :3 Just one sad thing is, I don't think my crush likes me. ;-;

You said you love your boyfriend. Why is this sad? xD
You were worried about being a cheater and now that you can't be classified as one, you are worrying about this other dude's feelings towards you.
Don't act on it until things are finished with your other boyfriend for good. You don't want to be labeled as a cheater or a player.