Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Pongo.]

That moment you find out your crush of 7 years lied to your face about ever liking you. it hurts... a lot.. but if things aren't meant to be, you just gotta move on
i just can't believe someone could ever lie about that.

[stinkende]

Well, how do I explain this......
Ok so I'm a certified sadist, but thankfully one of the tamer kinds XD. But when I get mad, I lose it. I'll either bite myself to stop the anger flow, or I'll attack someone. I've been trying to keep it tame around my crush, but I lost it around him for the first time recently. He said something stupid, and since we were playing Tellestrations, I started chucking the book things at him. There were a lot of them, too. And at first he was laughing, but then he started saying, "Ow! Stop! That really hurt!" And I figured that he had gotten a bunch of paper cuts. I ws really glad I stopped then, because ordinarily, I would have probably hit him over the head with a bowling ball or slmething XD
And afterwards he calmed down a bit, but I'm worried that we won't even be friends anymore!!! What do I do to get over this?

Calling yourself a sadist doesn't make you sound cool or intriguing. You need to find a different way to control your anger issues or you will have more burned bridges than hairs on your head. Whether that's through therapy, pills, or a well-earned smack upside your head, find a way. That is not acceptable behavior. What are you going to do when you're working and a customer picks a disagreement? You're setting yourself up for some serious consequences.

[saturday.]

That moment you find out your crush of 7 years lied to your face about ever liking you. it hurts... a lot.. but if things aren't meant to be, you just gotta move on
i just can't believe someone could ever lie about that.

I'm very sorry someone did that to you. you don't deserve them. just move on and find someone else.
if you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here. c:

[vanilla kitten]

i need to know.
can someone tell me if this boy likes me.. or what? he's left me very confused, with his ups-and-downs and oh jeez.
thanks in advance<3

1. while it's true that we do "couple-related things", it's also true that you don't
have to care about someone to do that. we kiss, we cuddle, we hold hands. but
we are not dating and that isn't in our future, as far as i can tell. (not that i
wouldn't like to, i just don't think it's a good idea for us.) usually, he's the one
who initiates it. he'll kiss me, hug me, hold me, cuddle me, etc.

2. we get in fights, a LOT. we bicker like brother and sister, and roughhouse
like it too. but quite often, it's not a cutesy kind of argument. he will call me
names, and freak out and do stupid stuff. at that point, i'll just ignore him.
but whenever i ignore him, he gets really sad and confused and just bugs me
by poking me and doing other things to get my attention and won't stop
and will keep saying sorry.

3. yesterday, we were at his grandma's and we were in the kids' room. we
weren't talking or anything, and he looks over at me, right into my eyes and
says, "you're pupils got big." okok, i told him two years ago about how when
you love someone (or really hate someone c;), your pupils will dilate when you
look at them. this was fishy to me because; 1. we haven't talked about that
for months and months and 2. why would he be looking/thinking of that if
he doesn't like me..?

if you want more details, i can give them, just pm me. but from what i have here, what do ya'll think?

[vvoland]

Quick help please. I am in dire, dire need of friendzoning advice.

There's a guy I've known since 1st grade. Great friend, kinda like a brother. He left a message asking me to the movies two days ago. I got the message a day later and called him today, saying that I just got th message, and I couldn't make it.
But then he suggested Sunday, and as a friend, it's bitchy to say no. I know he likes me, and there is no way in hell i
I'd go out with him. I've known him too long, and don't want anything else.
What is an effective way of friendzoning, without him thinking that I know.?
Thanks.!

[Asia_Grey]

Quick help please. I am in dire, dire need of friendzoning advice.

There's a guy I've known since 1st grade. Great friend, kinda like a brother. He left a message asking me to the movies two days ago. I got the message a day later and called him today, saying that I just got th message, and I couldn't make it.
But then he suggested Sunday, and as a friend, it's bitchy to say no. I know he likes me, and there is no way in hell i
I'd go out with him. I've known him too long, and don't want anything else.
What is an effective way of friendzoning, without him thinking that I know.?
Thanks.!

id say try to invite another friend along, dont see a romantic movie, and sit in a crowded spot in the theater, thats all i got

[vvoland]

Ooh crowded spot. Thanks~

We're both nerdy, so it's Pacific Rim (thank god(

[brindie]

So there are quite a few guys who might like me...but I'm not good with that stuff so I'd like some opinions. Fair warning, this may be a long post.

Guys I don't have feelings for:
1. Conner
He is in a camp/activity thing that I'm doing, and although a bunch of his friends are there, he only talks to me. Today we went somewhere and he sat next to me on the bus. He goes to my school but doesn't really talk to me there because I'm always hanging out with my friends.

2. Zac
When we were still in school, I had study hall with him and he would always try and talk to me, ask what I'm doing and stuff. He also tries to sit by me a lot. I also draw and write a lot in study hall and he would always read/look at what I was working on and would compliment it a lot. He has been trying to contact me a ton this summer.

Guys I sort of like:
3. Mike
He is really smart, and will say random facts a lot. We were in biology together and he would always ask me for help, although he doesn't need it (with anything). He always laughed at my jokes (even if they were terrible) and tried to talk to me. And whenever I did better than him on a test he would comically sigh and talk about how he's a failure (lol).

4. Brandon
He is almost exactly like Mike, and to be honest (since I knew Mike first) Mike was the first person I thought of when I first saw him (they even look the same!). The main differences are that I met him at the camp (the one mentioned with Connor), he is a year older, and he is a pool shark XD. At the camp, if it's too hot out or we are tired of being outside, we will go into this center with a bunch of cool stuff. There's a pool table there and Brandon will always play people (and win). But he often shows me how to play and explains where are good shots. And today, he made a bunch of pool-based bets with me, which of course I failed and he didn't make me pay him.

5. David
David is really funny and always tries to spend time with me (of course, at camp again). I was in a camp with him a couple years ago and he remembered me when we first saw each other here. He played volleyball with me and helped me get the ball out of a tree that it got stuck in. I'm a half a year older than him.

Guys that I like and want the most input on:
6. Christopher
Chris is in my grade and there are a ton of girls that like him, although he is one of those 'nice guys' so he isn't one of those popular 'jocks' or whatever. He is my best guy friend. At the end of this year, his girlfriend moved away, so he's been getting over her (she moved across the country). He's been hanging out with me a lot more now and we were counselors in a camp together.

7. Quint
Quint is Christopher's best friend and used to be my best guy friend. He is also in my grade, and a 'nice guy'. He and I used to text a lot, and he would tell me stories and send me songs he wrote and a bunch of stuff. After he broke up with his girlfriend (who I know for a fact still likes him) who he got over he has not been contacting me as much, and has been kind of ignoring me. This made me kind of upset but I didn't really say anything because I didn't know what had happened.

So, does anyone have any opinions on whether or not they like me? Thanks for the help!

[Simplistic Beauty]

Ok so near the end of school I found out that my crush for that whole school year knew that I liked him and that he didn't like me back. It hurt finding that out, alot. I honestly really liked that guy. I had thought I moved on now but the memory of him still lurks in the back of my mind. My friends still tease me about him sometimes even though I said I'm not sure if I still like him. I saw him at the fair last week and I felt happy seeing him. I think I may still like him but I can't knowing that he doesn't feel the same.

[Doggo Supreme]

Got a new crush now and I think he actually likes me!