Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[horsey1111horsey]

Our school has a thing where you run away from your boyfriend/girlfriend. Is this normal? (I'm talking about a highschool by the way)

[tennisbutt]

Oh how would you know if a guy likes you? Or does it differ between each guy? Because I feel like I'm falling hard and fast for this guy and it's kind of insane at times ahahah It's been like this for a while sigh but I wasn't too sure how you'd tell?

[FoxerOwl]

Oh how would you know if a guy likes you? Or does it differ between each guy? Because I feel like I'm falling hard and fast for this guy and it's kind of insane at times ahahah It's been like this for a while sigh but I wasn't too sure how you'd tell?

This is what I was wondering on the previous page, although I don't think I was answered. Does a guy completely avoid you? Talk to you all the time?

I think it differs.

Well, for a quiet, shy guy, do you think he would avoid you or tease you? Because yesterday, in my last period, (that's the ONLY class I have with my crush, by the way.) he and his buddy, Jacob, sat across the room. We had about ten minutes and were just talking when they stared whispering my name "sara....!" It was annoying, but I think I might of turned him away accidentally... I turned around and said, "Shut up!" Only because it was a bad day and I was tired... Is that bad or does it drive the boy more to get closer to you? :x

[Dia.]

Our school has a thing where you run away from your boyfriend/girlfriend. Is this normal? (I'm talking about a highschool by the way)

What? xD What do you mean?

Oh how would you know if a guy likes you? Or does it differ between each guy? Because I feel like I'm falling hard and fast for this guy and it's kind of insane at times ahahah It's been like this for a while sigh but I wasn't too sure how you'd tell?

It definitely differs between each guy. :/ There is a section on this in the FAQ on the first page...
But yeah... it differs. My boyfriend never did (and never would do) the things that the more outgoing guys did when they liked a girl.
I think that the universal thing is that they want to be around you or talking to you a lot. It's an animal thing I guess. xD see a potential mate --> get her attention in any way possible. Like for some birds, it's doing a stupid dance. And for fish it's irritating the crap out of them. For humans it seems to be a strange combination of those things. xD

Oh how would you know if a guy likes you? Or does it differ between each guy? Because I feel like I'm falling hard and fast for this guy and it's kind of insane at times ahahah It's been like this for a while sigh but I wasn't too sure how you'd tell?

This is what I was wondering on the previous page, although I don't think I was answered. Does a guy completely avoid you? Talk to you all the time?

I think it differs.

Well, for a quiet, shy guy, do you think he would avoid you or tease you? Because yesterday, in my last period, (that's the ONLY class I have with my crush, by the way.) he and his buddy, Jacob, sat across the room. We had about ten minutes and were just talking when they stared whispering my name "sara....!" It was annoying, but I think I might of turned him away accidentally... I turned around and said, "Shut up!" Only because it was a bad day and I was tired... Is that bad or does it drive the boy more to get closer to you? :x

A shy guy would avoid you and do things that would seem to be more of a friendly thing than a flirty thing from what I've seen.
For a shy person(any gender really) I kind of think that this might discourage them since they are already shy. A more outgoing person would probably just try harder.
But if you are worried you pushed him away, I think the best thing for you to do is to go up to him and apologize for yelling at him. ^^ It's a good conversation starter anyway.

[tennisbutt]

Well he doesn't avoid me I don't think, he doesn't go to the same school as me, I met him at tennis camp around 2 years ago and I think I gradually started to fall for him. But at first he didn't really take notice of me but recently I feel like we've gotten slightly closer but not really that much. It was a bit awkward because the first time I thought I liked him I told my friend and she immediately added him on Facebook and told him but back then he said 'sorry I'm in a relationship'. But 2 years have past and I went to tennis again and my mom got fed up of having to pay for lessons so she tried to find someone for me to play with and I don't know whether it was coincidence or something else, but she asked the first person she saw who she thought was good enough. She ended up asking him, the guy I liked. But for some reason he said yes? He could've declined but I don't even know why he agreed. So I played with him and at the end he told me if I 'wanted to do this again' I should talk to him on Facebook. [I was actually pinching myself at this moment I didn't know if it was real hahaha]
But anyway when we went back to camp we kept exchanging glances at each other and sometimes we'd have a small conversation, but they were tiny. For some reason he's never really been himself around me, I sense he's always a bit more subdued and quieter [maybe even shyer?] around me, like I am with him. But this makes me doubt whether he likes me back anslajdbdbaaannaj;a ;;

@FoxerOwl; I think I agree with Dia. cx It depends on the guy I'd imagine, as if he was shy that might drive him away but if he was confident than it would spur him on to try and win you over? I'm not to sure but that's what I would think c:

Oh I just realised how long this post is I'm sorry qq

[FoxerOwl]

This is what I was wondering on the previous page, although I don't think I was answered. Does a guy completely avoid you? Talk to you all the time?

I think it differs.

Well, for a quiet, shy guy, do you think he would avoid you or tease you? Because yesterday, in my last period, (that's the ONLY class I have with my crush, by the way.) he and his buddy, Jacob, sat across the room. We had about ten minutes and were just talking when they stared whispering my name "sara....!" It was annoying, but I think I might of turned him away accidentally... I turned around and said, "Shut up!" Only because it was a bad day and I was tired... Is that bad or does it drive the boy more to get closer to you? :x

A shy guy would avoid you and do things that would seem to be more of a friendly thing than a flirty thing from what I've seen.
For a shy person(any gender really) I kind of think that this might discourage them since they are already shy. A more outgoing person would probably just try harder.
But if you are worried you pushed him away, I think the best thing for you to do is to go up to him and apologize for yelling at him. ^^ It's a good conversation starter anyway.

Gah, I do think that I pushed him away D: The thing is that I never see him, as his classes are always on the opposite of the building from mine. Like I said, the only time I see him is lunch (actually, barely see him then ._.) and my sixth period. Plus, I have choir, drama, and softball practice most of the week. Besides my insane schedule, I am incredibly shy, but only around my crush(es). When I'm around friends I laugh, joke around, and have a good time. My crush walks by? I am silent and I stare at my feet.

//shameface

[Dia.]

tennisbutt - He might be worried about how you think of him if he gets more subdued. Play moar tennis with the dude. <3

FoxerOwl - and you can't talk to him in sixth period? xD

[FoxerOwl]

tennisbutt - He might be worried about how you think of him if he gets more subdued. Play moar tennis with the dude. <3

FoxerOwl - and you can't talk to him in sixth period? xD

-gasp- Yeeeeeeaaa---- no. The teacher freaks even if I stand up before the bell rings .__. But, that's my problem. I'll make time!

[another eternity]

How do you come out as pansexual to your mum? {this is considered on topic, right?}

[s y n]

I really need some help here. Anyways, so there's this guy, let's call him M. I've talked about him on previous threads before, I think. So me and M have both really liked each other for like a year, and we both know that we like each other. We've been flirting for like a year, always saying we wanted to be together and all, but he'd never ask me out, and now I recently figured out why - because he's on the same football team as my ex, the one who's still really into me, and he didn't want to screw up the friendships and everything, since my ex and I are still friends and he's good friends with him. Something about the bro-code, I guess.

About a day ago, we were texting each other and M asked me if I could sneak out and come see him. He lives on a farm out of town, and he rarely gets to come into town so I haven't seen him in like eight months and he was only in town for that night since he was staying at his cousins', so of course I went for it. At 3:30 AM, I snuck out and met him at this park near the both of us. The two of us just talked and cuddled and flirted and teased each other until 8 AM, when my mom insisted I be home (I'd texted her and told her I left, since she tends to be less mad about me leaving late if I tell her) About half an hour before I went home, M said, "Okay, I don't care what [insert my ex's name here] thinks, I really care about you and I really want to be with you." and he asked me out. I playfully said no and said that he should be more romantic about, and he literally took like half a second to look around and then somehow found me a whole bunch of flowers in like a matter of two seconds and got down on one knee and asked me to, and I quote, "do him the honor of being his girlfriend". It was really adorable and dorky and of course, I said yes.

So later that day, at like 1 PM, we hung out again, but sadly only for an hour since his parents would be coming to pick him up at 2. Well, he ended staying with me until 3 PM because he didn't want to leave me. So we finally both went home, and we were texting each other and stuff, and then the next day (AKA today, or technically yesterday 'cause it's 3 AM right now XD) it pretty much all came crashing down. One of his cousin's neighbours saw him sneak out and told his mom, and his mom asked him who he was with and he said his girlfriend, and she told him not to be around me because I'm a "bad influence" on him. He told her that it was his idea to sneak out in the first place, and she said, "Well, then you shouldn't be around her if she makes you want to do these things for her".

Basically, his mom has pretty much forced us to break up. I'm pretty upset about it, seeing as we've wanted to be together for so long but there's always been something keeping us apart, and when we finally get past all that stuff and get together and finally become happy together, it only lasts a day before something else has to come and wreck it.

I just don't know what to do. After that, he said, "I gotta go for a bit. I'm gonna try and change her mind, but for now... We gotta break up :C" and then he hasn't texted me since then. I texted him a while ago and asked how it went, but he's probably asleep so no answer yet, and I'm really scared that he's gonna text me back and tell me that his mom is standing her ground and won't let us be together. I haven't been able to really connect to a guy ever since my ex cheated on me and sort of broke my heart and all, and with M, everything just feels so natural and he makes me get all nervous and fluttery and that doesn't usually happen to me. He's the first guy I've been able to actually be myself around and everything about my ex (not the one that's still into me, a different one. I called him A last time I talked about him) and that means a lot to me, and now we can't be together.

*sigh*.

I don't know what to do :c