Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[FoxerOwl]

Okay, three questions here. First let's start off with a basic explanation, PLEASE read this as it'll help with your answers!

Okay, let's call my ex-boyfriend T. I met T in first grade and liked him ever since. That "crush" grew into "boyfriend" in junior high, 6th grade. I was young, but I did nothing wrong. We hadn't even kissed yet (although we thought about it, teehee...)! When... his mom found out. I was actually surprised he hadn't told his mother in the first place, as he told me she was cool with whoever he dated. Obviously he was so wrong. A few months after dating his mother sent me a text on his phone, and told me we had to break up, to stop texting her son, etc. I was devastated. I met him the next day and he was as horrified as I was. Apparently he was grounded, and we couldn't date anymore. I was so desperate and in love with him, I suggested maybe we should date secretly, but he said no. He didn't want to lie to his mom, and I understood that, perfectly. We decided to keep it as friends, although we still liked each other. Months passed before we even spoke to each other. A couple years, no problem.

But now... he won't even look at me. I love him so, so, so, so, so much! You have no idea. I may be a little obsessive when I say this, but I dream about him, my heart aches for him, I long for his kisses (although we never kissed). I wanted him to be my boyfriend, although, even now, his mother still hates me. I did nothing wrong, didn't dress wrong, wasn't rude to her other children, nothing. She hated me right off the bat. I don't even know if T likes me anymore! Now here are the questions...

How can you tell a boy likes you? Do they look at you often, or completely avoid you? Do they talk to you, or do they not say a word? Please, I really like him and I want to ask him out again, whatever the cost dealing with his mother...

How do you get a boy to notice you? I don't want to dress in the most fashionable clothes (I have my own style, but I'm not ugly. I may curl my hair like the crowd, or something, but I won't dress like them.), I don't want to make him jealous (there's one other guy I like, but that's NOT a road I want to go down!), and I don't want to talk to him too much (okay, that's my problem. I'm terribly shy around guys I like and I'd only make a fool out of myself.)

Aaaaaaaand how do you make friends with his mom? ;n; I'm telling you, she hates my guts, but I want to try to make friends with her! I don't hate her, and if I did something it wasn't intentional and I have no idea what I did. Whenever I see her she gives me.. the death look. I'm not joking. And she's a mother! -sigh- Anyways, I can't bake cookies or anything as I have no idea what she likes (Me and T weren't dating long enough for me to know her, as we were in junior high and we weren't in the "let's go over to your house and meet your parents!" phase yet.) and I don't see her that often, only casual glimpses.

Please help me, I need drastic help <3

Also, he just got glasses and oh my flippin gosh. He is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much cuter, you wouldn't believe it unless you saw. Just. Oh my. I like him so much more now. Help oh my gosh I love him. I've never felt this way about anyone else before.

[horsey1111horsey]

I'll call him b
So yesterday we were going to science and b was messing with the zipper on my bag. It was really weird and after he looked at me really weirdly and went and got a seat directly infront me. He kept turning around in class and starring and then I looked up and he looked away. Well I think this had gone on for a bit now. This morning I found a picture of a racing in my bag and I think it m have been him. Well now he keeps looking at me and can't talk to me for some reason. I'm confused because we are best mates. Any ideas? please pm me

[Pongo.]

He keeps crying over his ex... he has done this quite a few times in the past four months. one minute he's all into me and the next minute he wants nothing to do with me or anyone one else, i don't know what to do xc

[nio]

So, I really really like this girl.
A few years ago (4 to be exact), a new girl came to my school. She was so pretty and I thought she was awesome. We became friends really quickly and enjoyed each other's company very much. We used to read and lunchtime, talk about books together. She always commented on my art and admired my skills. We were always in the highest reading and maths groups, so we spent even more time with each other. She was always in my cabin at camp. We'd go in the library together on rainy days and read. She introduced to me a website I'm now addicted to, and found many friends on. My life would be so different without this site. It's ChickenSmoothie. When we did maths together, she's help me if I got confused, or taught me how to do specific things. I have a friendship necklace from her. It's a pig and says 'best' on it.
She told me all about her childhood, and the reason she moved to my school. A bush fire had burned her house, town and school down. She was safe though, thank god. She told me about her pets, her cat Tweety and her golden retriever dogs.
Then we graduated primary school and happily found out we were going to the same high school.
In year seven, she was in my class. For some reason that I've forgotten, we had a fight and she was being mean to me. We didn't talk for a few months. Then we started talking again, having forgotten about the fight. Then I realised I had a crush on her. I always sat next to her in science and we'd talk about anything and everything. She'd show me pretty pictures on her phone, and we'd talk about big cats, specifically snow leopards and white tigers (her favourite). She'd fight with my other friends trying to sit next to me in English. She'd tell me all about the stories she was writing. Every time I drew something in my workbook, she'd write a little note saying something along the lines of 'you're ahhhmazing, love you. <3'.
When we did foodtech (cooking) she told me that we're going to be partners all year. I was happy about that. I was so happy, cooking yummy foods with her each week. One day, my other friend wiped bubbles on my shoulder, and then she grinned, said 'com'ere' and wiped it off with a cloth. In that moment, I felt so happy. Those times of cooking with here are some of my best memories.
One day, she apologised greatly for being mean to me, and called me babe. We went to the zoo for school, and her and I walked around together looking at the tigers and snow leopards and big cats. Then she dragged me off to the butterfly house. We stayed in there for such a long time. She stole the butterfly I had off my hand. It was amazing. By the end of the year, I decided I didn't have a crush on her anymore. Then we got told our new classes for next year (this year) and I found out that we weren't in the same class. I was distraught. Right near Christmas, my town had a Christmas carols, and when I went down there, she was there! She hugged me tightly and then I went to by a glowstick (which I still have). It ended up not working, but I didn't mind. It was dark by then, and she was sitting next to me, with her head on my shoulder. With the nice music in the background, our light chatter and her head on my shoulder, I really felt absolutely content. I felt safe, right, like I was finally complete. I wondered, "is this what love feels like?" We talked about how much we'd miss each other since we weren't in the same class.
When we left, we hugged twice and didn't really wanna leave. My stepdad was talking to her dad.
Then... year eight came and she stopped talking to me. I was invited to a party in which she was also at. (NOTE: she found new friends at high school, so she probably left me for them, because honestly, who'd want me?) When I got there, the first thing I heard was "-my name-!" And then nearly got knocked over by none other than her. She hugged me so tightly and dragged me off to the bouncy castle (my friend who's party it was is amazing okay) and jumped on it with me. Then her friends came, and she didn't talk to me after that. When I got home, a thought flashed through my head. I really, really love her.
She is really good friends with my friend and talks to her all the time and tells her everything. Now overtime she'd had a few boyfriends. Three I think. The first one, was my old dude friend. They shared their first kiss, and at the time (I was 11) that made me feel a bit unhappy and I wasn't sure why. Anyway, she talks to my friend about everything.
Everyday I walk past her at the locker bay and it hurts. It hurts bad. She doesn't look at me, talk to me, or even acknowledge my presence. She ignores me completely. Why? I have no idea.
Then one day, she had this cute little smile on her face and hugged my friend, whispered in her ear and walked away.
My friend then said, "why is everyone going out with people and I'm just all alone!" But... No. NO. NONONONONO. Oh my god please no. I felt like I was thrown into ice cold water.
I told my friend that I was so slow with the news about all that stuff and asked who was going out.
My friend told me that my crush and this dude were going out. The dude also started going out with my old crush a few months before.
But, the thing is... she has a boyfriend. She's not single, she's taken. She. Has. A. Boyfriend. I tried so hard not to cry, but...
What if they kiss and do coupley things together? No... I can't word my pain.
But then a little while after, I found out that they broke up. That makes me happy. It was her that dumped him. He was using her as a rebound from his ex-girlfriend. I hate that dude.
Every now and then (and by that I mean pretty much once a month, or less) she talks to me. Only when my other friend is around, and she mostly ignores me. She hugged me once, as well. Though it was a group hug, with my other friend.
Today she spoke to me again. She also spoke to me the other day. It feels so good to talk to her.
I really love her, man. I love E... I love her so damn much and it hurts.

I don't need any help, I just wanted to get this off my chest. Please don't comment anything like "you should tell her you like her!" Anything else is fine. c:

[Clifford95]

Ok...So a few weeks ago I went to a summer camp. I met this guy (lets call him B) and I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. We did archery at the camp and he always commented on how good I was for a beginner. He also smiled at me a lot and helped me put away the walking sticks and archery stuff at the end of the day. I am a year younger then him. We went to camp together all week and on the last day my friend got his number for me because I was to afraid to ask. I haven't seen my friend since summer camp and I really want to talk to B. Should I call him on my friend's phone and tell him that I like him? What should I do?

[Clifford95]

Okay, three questions here. First let's start off with a basic explanation, PLEASE read this as it'll help with your answers!

Okay, let's call my ex-boyfriend T. I met T in first grade and liked him ever since. That "crush" grew into "boyfriend" in junior high, 6th grade. I was young, but I did nothing wrong. We hadn't even kissed yet (although we thought about it, teehee...)! When... his mom found out. I was actually surprised he hadn't told his mother in the first place, as he told me she was cool with whoever he dated. Obviously he was so wrong. A few months after dating his mother sent me a text on his phone, and told me we had to break up, to stop texting her son, etc. I was devastated. I met him the next day and he was as horrified as I was. Apparently he was grounded, and we couldn't date anymore. I was so desperate and in love with him, I suggested maybe we should date secretly, but he said no. He didn't want to lie to his mom, and I understood that, perfectly. We decided to keep it as friends, although we still liked each other. Months passed before we even spoke to each other. A couple years, no problem.

But now... he won't even look at me. I love him so, so, so, so, so much! You have no idea. I may be a little obsessive when I say this, but I dream about him, my heart aches for him, I long for his kisses (although we never kissed). I wanted him to be my boyfriend, although, even now, his mother still hates me. I did nothing wrong, didn't dress wrong, wasn't rude to her other children, nothing. She hated me right off the bat. I don't even know if T likes me anymore! Now here are the questions...

How can you tell a boy likes you? Do they look at you often, or completely avoid you? Do they talk to you, or do they not say a word? Please, I really like him and I want to ask him out again, whatever the cost dealing with his mother...

How do you get a boy to notice you? I don't want to dress in the most fashionable clothes (I have my own style, but I'm not ugly. I may curl my hair like the crowd, or something, but I won't dress like them.), I don't want to make him jealous (there's one other guy I like, but that's NOT a road I want to go down!), and I don't want to talk to him too much (okay, that's my problem. I'm terribly shy around guys I like and I'd only make a fool out of myself.)

Aaaaaaaand how do you make friends with his mom? ;n; I'm telling you, she hates my guts, but I want to try to make friends with her! I don't hate her, and if I did something it wasn't intentional and I have no idea what I did. Whenever I see her she gives me.. the death look. I'm not joking. And she's a mother! -sigh- Anyways, I can't bake cookies or anything as I have no idea what she likes (Me and T weren't dating long enough for me to know her, as we were in junior high and we weren't in the "let's go over to your house and meet your parents!" phase yet.) and I don't see her that often, only casual glimpses.

Please help me, I need drastic help <3

Also, he just got glasses and oh my flippin gosh. He is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much cuter, you wouldn't believe it unless you saw. Just. Oh my. I like him so much more now. Help oh my gosh I love him. I've never felt this way about anyone else before.

I'm not sure if this will help you but I was in a kind of similar situation.
I was once in a similar situation with my crushes mom. She didn't necessarily hate me but she wouldn't let us date. He liked me and I liked him...I later found out from his sister he had a girlfriend. Anyways...to answer question number one...whenever I was around my crush even if I wasn't talking to him he would kind of avoid me. If I got near him he would go to the other side of the room and he hardly ever talked to me (he didn't have a girlfriend at the time. I found out from his mom that he liked me.) To answer you second question...I am the same way around guys...shy...usually when I was going over to his house I would just wear what I would wear any day except I would wear a nicer shirt and sometimes a necklace (when I found out he had a girlfriend I stopped caring.) and to answer your last question....I guess just try to be nice I don't really know what else to tell you.

[brindie]

So there are quite a few guys who might like me...but I'm not good with that stuff so I'd like some opinions. Fair warning, this may be a long post.

Guys I don't have feelings for:
1. Conner
He is in a camp/activity thing that I'm doing, and although a bunch of his friends are there, he only talks to me. Today we went somewhere and he sat next to me on the bus. He goes to my school but doesn't really talk to me there because I'm always hanging out with my friends.

2. Zac
When we were still in school, I had study hall with him and he would always try and talk to me, ask what I'm doing and stuff. He also tries to sit by me a lot. I also draw and write a lot in study hall and he would always read/look at what I was working on and would compliment it a lot. He has been trying to contact me a ton this summer.

Guys I sort of like:
3. Mike
He is really smart, and will say random facts a lot. We were in biology together and he would always ask me for help, although he doesn't need it (with anything). He always laughed at my jokes (even if they were terrible) and tried to talk to me. And whenever I did better than him on a test he would comically sigh and talk about how he's a failure (lol).

4. Brandon
He is almost exactly like Mike, and to be honest (since I knew Mike first) Mike was the first person I thought of when I first saw him (they even look the same!). The main differences are that I met him at the camp (the one mentioned with Connor), he is a year older, and he is a pool shark XD. At the camp, if it's too hot out or we are tired of being outside, we will go into this center with a bunch of cool stuff. There's a pool table there and Brandon will always play people (and win). But he often shows me how to play and explains where are good shots. And today, he made a bunch of pool-based bets with me, which of course I failed and he didn't make me pay him.

5. David
David is really funny and always tries to spend time with me (of course, at camp again). I was in a camp with him a couple years ago and he remembered me when we first saw each other here. He played volleyball with me and helped me get the ball out of a tree that it got stuck in. I'm a half a year older than him.

Guys that I like and want the most input on:
6. Christopher
Chris is in my grade and there are a ton of girls that like him, although he is one of those 'nice guys' so he isn't one of those popular 'jocks' or whatever. He is my best guy friend. At the end of this year, his girlfriend moved away, so he's been getting over her (she moved across the country). He's been hanging out with me a lot more now and we were counselors in a camp together.

7. Quint
Quint is Christopher's best friend and used to be my best guy friend. He is also in my grade, and a 'nice guy'. He and I used to text a lot, and he would tell me stories and send me songs he wrote and a bunch of stuff. After he broke up with his girlfriend (who I know for a fact still likes him) who he got over he has not been contacting me as much, and has been kind of ignoring me. This made me kind of upset but I didn't really say anything because I didn't know what had happened.

So, does anyone have any opinions? Thanks for the help!

[Simplistic Beauty]

Ok so I saw my most recent crush yesterday at the fair and I felt really happy afterwards and wanted to go back to the area he was in but my bff wouldn't let me. I guess I never really did get over him this summer like I thought I did. Only problem is he knows I like him and doesn't like me break. This is why I tried to stop liking him and I thought it worked but it kinda didn't. I don't want to have a crush on somebody knowing it's one-sided but I can't seem to stop myself and move on at this point...

[Medusa72]

Okay, three questions here. First let's start off with a basic explanation, PLEASE read this as it'll help with your answers!

Okay, let's call my ex-boyfriend T. I met T in first grade and liked him ever since. That "crush" grew into "boyfriend" in junior high, 6th grade. I was young, but I did nothing wrong. We hadn't even kissed yet (although we thought about it, teehee...)! When... his mom found out. I was actually surprised he hadn't told his mother in the first place, as he told me she was cool with whoever he dated. Obviously he was so wrong. A few months after dating his mother sent me a text on his phone, and told me we had to break up, to stop texting her son, etc. I was devastated. I met him the next day and he was as horrified as I was. Apparently he was grounded, and we couldn't date anymore. I was so desperate and in love with him, I suggested maybe we should date secretly, but he said no. He didn't want to lie to his mom, and I understood that, perfectly. We decided to keep it as friends, although we still liked each other. Months passed before we even spoke to each other. A couple years, no problem.

But now... he won't even look at me. I love him so, so, so, so, so much! You have no idea. I may be a little obsessive when I say this, but I dream about him, my heart aches for him, I long for his kisses (although we never kissed). I wanted him to be my boyfriend, although, even now, his mother still hates me. I did nothing wrong, didn't dress wrong, wasn't rude to her other children, nothing. She hated me right off the bat. I don't even know if T likes me anymore! Now here are the questions...

How can you tell a boy likes you? Do they look at you often, or completely avoid you? Do they talk to you, or do they not say a word? Please, I really like him and I want to ask him out again, whatever the cost dealing with his mother...

How do you get a boy to notice you? I don't want to dress in the most fashionable clothes (I have my own style, but I'm not ugly. I may curl my hair like the crowd, or something, but I won't dress like them.), I don't want to make him jealous (there's one other guy I like, but that's NOT a road I want to go down!), and I don't want to talk to him too much (okay, that's my problem. I'm terribly shy around guys I like and I'd only make a fool out of myself.)

Aaaaaaaand how do you make friends with his mom? ;n; I'm telling you, she hates my guts, but I want to try to make friends with her! I don't hate her, and if I did something it wasn't intentional and I have no idea what I did. Whenever I see her she gives me.. the death look. I'm not joking. And she's a mother! -sigh- Anyways, I can't bake cookies or anything as I have no idea what she likes (Me and T weren't dating long enough for me to know her, as we were in junior high and we weren't in the "let's go over to your house and meet your parents!" phase yet.) and I don't see her that often, only casual glimpses.

Please help me, I need drastic help <3

Also, he just got glasses and oh my flippin gosh. He is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much cuter, you wouldn't believe it unless you saw. Just. Oh my. I like him so much more now. Help oh my gosh I love him. I've never felt this way about anyone else before.

I'm not sure if this will help you but I was in a kind of similar situation.
I was once in a similar situation with my crushes mom. She didn't necessarily hate me but she wouldn't let us date. He liked me and I liked him...I later found out from his sister he had a girlfriend. Anyways...to answer question number one...whenever I was around my crush even if I wasn't talking to him he would kind of avoid me. If I got near him he would go to the other side of the room and he hardly ever talked to me (he didn't have a girlfriend at the time. I found out from his mom that he liked me.) To answer you second question...I am the same way around guys...shy...usually when I was going over to his house I would just wear what I would wear any day except I would wear a nicer shirt and sometimes a necklace (when I found out he had a girlfriend I stopped caring.) and to answer your last question....I guess just try to be nice I don't really know what else to tell you.

I agree with NatureGal, you just have to be nice to him! If you are like SUPER nice a guy will usually notice, especially if he likes you back. As for the mother situation... That can be really tough. All you can do is be extra nice and respectful to her and hope for the best.

[Medusa72]

Can y'all tell me if this guy likes me?
We shall call him M.
I've known M for maybe six years.
Since the moment we've first met we've gotten along very well. (But he's just really nice so he gets along with everybody pretty well.) Because of this I thought we were just friends when people kept on teasing me that he was my boyfriend while I insisted that we were just friends because I didn't like him like that back then.
We got along so well that when I was around 11 me and him were playing outside and my mom came out and asked if I wanted to stay or go home. I was having so much fun that I didn't want it to end so I said I wanted to stay. I ended up staying the night and just considered him a best friend from then on.
Then when I was maybe 12 me and my older siblings stayed the night at his house because his parents needed someone to watch him and his younger siblings. Well I only went along to help with the littlest but we ended up playing together a bit and he ended up not brushing his teeth when my older sister told him to because he had mentioned before that he had a telescope and told me I could use it if I wanted to. Anyways he didn't brush his teeth because instead he was setting up the telescope. (Also ended up going to bed late.)
He was going to our church group and that was how I was seeing him up until I was 13. His family stopped coming and I didn't see him for a while.
A year later I saw him at a church camp and I notice he kept on stealing glances at me and we kept on running into each other... Quite literally... It kind of hurt. At night we and a couple of other teenagers were in the game room and all the girls there who kept on chasing after him had gone to bed he asked me if I wanted to play a game and we went away from the other teenagers to our own table and were looking at different games to play. Well then his mom came in and told him to take a shower so we didn't play a game and I went to bed soon afterwards...
Also, after a little pacing he decided to sit next to me at lunch the next day and he noticed that I had braces... This is about how our convorsation went...
M: When did you get braces?
Me: Like a year ago.
M: Whaa?
Me: Yeah, we haven't seen each other in like a year.
M: Hmm... You look really different.
He said this very seriously and while looking me strait in the eye. I found this confusing because he is usually cracking jokes every five seconds so it was a little unusual that he was so serious.
Anyways a little while later (after camp) he got a facebook and I said hello and he said... "Ho Hey"
Ho Hey is the name of his favorite song which so happens to be a love song.
But then I later saw a picture of him dance with this girl. And they both were always sitting with each other at camp and it looked like they were together... I know they hang out alot so I think they like each other...
Anyway that and the fact that our last conversation (which was on facebook) ended in him saying "Go Away" Makes me think that he might not like me. Also everytime I've seen him since he seems to avoid me a little. I'm kinda bummed.
Help?
Sorry this is so long!

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