Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Anza]

So, there's this guy. He seems nice and stuff but he won't talk to me. He watches me do events in track and does some with me and will come sit and watch me. We make eye contact and stuff. I just want him to talk to me. I go to a different school than him. I do track with a team half an hour from where I live though. I'm shy though. I can't jut go up and talk to him. Ugh.

Well if you cant just walk up to him you should drop coments and questions Like if you are interested in the same sport your can say "Wow! That was really good" or "How did you do that? I want to try doing that"
you can try having a simple conversation and you can figure out if he likes you!

[northern downpour ;;]

Right, so I'm in a bit of a problem.

There's this guy, we'll call him C.
We kinda grew up together because our mothers are really close friends and all, so generally when we come to visit we'll all just hang out.
He usually sleeps over because my brother and him are best friends (kind of) and he sleeps on the couch. Around three years ago I was sitting on the couch, with my legs crossed and he just walked in, lay down with his head on my leg and we were holding hands.
So the years passed and we kept doing that and last year I began to think about it and I got feels.
MANY FEELS.
So now when I came to visit at first he was a little distant, but then he just poofed and when my mom asked me to give a book back to the neighbour he came with, and gave me his jacket because it was windy.
Later on whilst we were coming back he just randomly put his arm around me (we were walking beside each other) and pulled my really close. He did that a lot but never before.
When we came back we were all playing Uno, and he decided to sit next to me. VERYCLOSEFEELS
And then he left and another day he came back and we were playing Uno again and I had the biggest ball of Mentos in my mout and I could barely talk, let alone swallow back my saliva without choking, and a little bit just fell out off my mouth and he teased me about it. That was two weeks ago and he's still teasing me about it.
Onwards, we were at his house, because my dad was leaving and he wanted to say goodbye, but a few minutes before it was time to go I was busy with their dog. (we'll call him bby) He just walks out of the house whilst I'm stumbling up because bby is jumping on me and C throws his arms around me in a hug, and when he lets go he looks between me and bby, and says,

"He's going to remember you, and when you come back he'll bounce on you and make you drool." (referring to the mentos incident.)

And when we were standing outside the car he kept on bugging me by fiddling with my ear. So we went and then a few days later he came back to sleep over but my brother had gone with my dad, so it was just me and him sometimes. He had his arm around my neck most of the time and it was really sweet and all because yes and then he saw my beanie thingy and he like, "That's an awesome beanie can I have it?" and I told him yes, but for 25 reais. (brazil currency. we're in brazil.)

So we went together to the bank to get money and he hugged me really hard when we were about to take the bus back home because he was travelling south for the holidays and he went a few days ago, but we're friends on facebook, and he started poking me, so I poked him back.
and he's poking me nonstop now.

But here's the problem.
He's five years older than me.

I'monlythirteen

5 years...? Wait a minute. ... I see. To be honest, if you like him, and he likes you, it shouldn't matter much. It isn't that bad, I wouldn't mind dating someone 5 years older than me if I like him.

[jayus]

Could somebody PM me? I need to vomit out all of these lovely feels onto somebody, but I feel bad blabbing about it to my friend cuz she had problems with her guy ;n;
But I promise I have happy feels.

Hehe, like six people PMed me xD

[Anza]

I like this one guy. But of I tell him I do I ether die or live. What do I do?!?

[Pongo.]

I'm getting mixed messages From tristin , one minute he is all flirty and the next he is all about his ex and just wants to be friends and I'm really confused

[vanilla kitten]

<3 he likes me...

[Wild.One]

So today i was driving back from the beach and I though, I don't think I want a boyfriend. I just want to focus on track and school. I just wonder how long me thinking like this will last... I just, I started to think like this when "somebody" came and watched all my events. I'm like "I'm not gonna let him watching me bother my events."

[Me <3]

I like this one guy. But of I tell him I do I ether die or live. What do I do?!?

Ok let me get this stright. You like a guy but you don't know if he'll like you back? If so then I'll answer with a few quotes from BBT first 'Well time to put your big girl pants on' next 'If I were you I would hit the trail like horse turds. But I'm not you and you ain't horse turds.' this last on is a bit mean but if he says no then 'just try and keep a happy face no body likes a whiner' What I'm saying is if you truly think you like him tell him. Or at lest go half way. The way I think of love is hanging out with one of your best friends, doing things that wouldn't be as fun without them.

[amethyst,]

okay, so i have this magic eight ball thing that you ask a question, turn it upside down, shake it, and then it gives you an answer. i've been dating this guy for a little while, and he is like so sweet and perfect and i couldn't ask for more.

anyway, i asked the magic eight ball if he loved me. and it answered, "without a doubt." and the thing is, even though this is stupid, i believe it. and it really seems like he does love me, but i'm not sure how i can tell, and it's not like i'm just gonna randomly ask him. so i don't know how to find out..

also, i prefer not to say "i love you" first. i don't know why, it's just one if my weird quirks.

so.. any advice?

[Julia]

I'd love to hear your personal opinion on this.

I consider him to be a friend so it is not 100% the right place for this.

He stood me up a good few times, but I was always stupid enough to forgive him without he being sorry for it.
Last Saturday we went eating some ice cream and talking (we had no contact for 2 months, but I started a conversation and so we decided to meet), it was a nice and sweet day, but he came one whole hour to late. On Sunday he told me he has to clean his flat and would like to meet me in the afternoon. He didn't write me a message, and I kept waiting 'til evening. One day later he said "Oh I fell asleep", without a sorry or anything.

In that moment I realized that I'm not even half as important to him as he is to me.
I told him that he could have sent me a short message, at least. He said that wasn't necessary, since we didn't plan anything. I said if he thinks it is like that, then I can't see a reason why we should talk anymore. He sent me a few messages that day, I didn't answer them.

Today he sent me a message, telling me he's really sorry and all that rubbish stuff.

Should I forgive him, talk to him? I'm not looking for revenge, well, I considered him to be a good friend, up to that point. But I think he probably can see now, how it feels to be stood up, waiting for hours, without just a short text message.

We are both adult, even though still young adults, but I don't know how to react, or if I should react at all.