Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[bast,]

My boyfriend broke up with his ex on June 6th. She didn't stop texting him however, and the other day she texting him a picture of the chest down showing him her outfit, along with a text that said "lol, these pants barely cover my ass!" I made him delete the photo, cause I thought it was creepy for him to have it. I texted her, telling her that she can't send those photos anymore { I would post the message here, but i can't...too many choice words }, cause he's in another relationship now. She stopped texting him, for now, but today she posted an unsettling status on facebook... :L

"I hate fer him to know this but he has to. He doesn't know that I still think about right before I go to sleep sometimes even cry about him still and I just really miss him all of y'all might think it's stupid and that I should be over him, he isn't worth my time but I think those 5 words { this is me, the words are "i'm breaking up with you", just in case you can't figure that out. ^-^;; } hurt me the most he was my everything and now I have nothing Trenton I'm not trying to guilt u into dating me again then you'd be miserable and you don't deserve that I just want u and everyone else to know that I still like u"

It's starting to creep me out a little bit, her obsession with my boyfriend... The other day she liked one of my photos from april, meaning that she was going through my page. She wouldn't have any reason to, since we're not friends really, other than to try and look for him. Is there anything I should do about it?

[cobalt.]

ok, so i met this guy about a year ago {online might I add}. and we were talking and everything.
he had a girlfriend at the time, but since we had been talking for a month or so he broke up with her, because he liked me.
stupidly i gave him my home phone number, and he called my house and left a message. i didn't want to talk to him, and so i deleted him on facebook and blocked him, plus my mom was freaking out thinking he was a creepy old dude and made me block him, but who could blame her?
. a couple months went by and since he didn't call my house again or anything, i decided to unblock him. cue the other guy, he was from a town not far away from me, where the other guy lives in a different state but is 2 hours away. he had already told me that he liked me and had asked me if i would give him a chance. i said i would, and we talked for a while on facebook, and he would try to send me pictures of himself shirtless, which was a bit awkward for me but i never told him. well slowly he stopped talking to me, and was going to a local waterpark with his friends from his school, which i didn't make a big deal out of since they were his friends. well shortly after that he ended up in a relationship with someone else! i was really hurt, since he never said that he liked me. this was about the same time that the first guy, messaged me on skype and tried to call me when i was offline. stupidly i decided to talk to him out of desperation because of the second guy. well, now i've finally come to my senses and i've realized that i don't like him. but the problem is that he told me that he LOVED ME, and he writes it ILoveYou because there's no room for any other girls. i told him that i loved him too! he still has feelings for me and sends me hearts and those wink & kiss emojis. he calls me baby, sweetie, the works and i feel so bad since i don't feel the same way. he talks about how he wants to come up and watch me show horses this summer and go out to see a movie then eat. i don't want him to!

how do i first of all tell him that i'm not interested in him anymore without hurting his feelings, and also tell him that i don't want to talk to him, or have him come up to see me? i'm in deep crud here. :S

[jayus]

*squishes in sideways*
Um... So I like this one guy, Nathan. He may like me back, I'm not sure.
We talk, laugh, totally relaxed and happy around each other. Obviously that's not the problem.
The problems is that there are other males in the world.
And 4 of them like me, making it an awkward love... Heptagon?
Two guys told people I know that they had crushes on me. I have a way of prying things out of people.
One asked me out.
Another tries to impress me every single time I talk to him.
So they're all crushing on me and then I'm over here mooning after this one guy that I don't even know if he likes me back.
Advice?...

[centuries]

Help?

Okay, so my mom got dumped by her boyfriend a while ago. He has a son who is almost 2 years older than me. Before they broke up, my mom and I had slept over at their house on a few occasions. So me and her ex's son hung out a lot. One night, at nearly 3 in the morning, we were watching a movie (everyone else in the house was asleep) and out of nowhere he gets kind of nervous and says he has something 'random' to ask me. Confused, I just say "what?". Then he asks me out. Remember, our parents were still dating at the time. And we had only known each other for barely 2 weeks. Very surprised, I just told him "um.. it's kind of weird since our parents are going out...". And after that he just said he was sorry and that it was a stupid question. So then it was really awkward and I just told him goodnight and left the room. Eventually the awkwardness went away and everything was fine. Then, a week later, our parents broke up. So now I have his number and we sometimes text. But the thing is.... I'm beginning to think that I actually like him. His birthday is in a few days and my friend says I should ask him out then. But I'm not sure. I mean, he's really nice and funny and everything. But I guess I'm just nervous because I've never had a boyfriend before and he's older than me? Or that our parents will find out and get mad at us or something? What should I do?

[cobalt.]

@alys23;
if you still think that you like him, try texting him and see if you want to hang out together. sort of like a date, but without any pressure. basically just test out the waters to see if you really are interested in him as a bf or not. hope this helps. c:

[centuries]

@alys23;
if you still think that you like him, try texting him and see if you want to hang out together. sort of like a date, but without any pressure. basically just test out the waters to see if you really are interested in him as a bf or not. hope this helps. c:

I would, but our parents kind of hate each other now. And I think I really do like him. We both like a lot of the same things. And like I said, he's really funny and nice.

That would be cool though if we could hang out. But I don't think his dad wouldn't be very happy about it. Though, I know my mom would be fine with it. As long as she doesn't have to see her ex. ><'

[cobalt.]

hmm, even if it was just as friends they wouldn't let you two hang out?

[centuries]

Maybe. But I don't even know if his dad knows we still talk. My mom recently found out (and surprisingly, she actually wants us to go out) and she said something about going to the movies or something with him. But I don't know how serious she was about it.

[thє dσctσr]

He won't text me back. We were supposed to be going to the movies. Now, hours after the movie, no text. Thanks babe. Thanks.

[jayus]

*squishes in sideways*
Um... So I like this one guy, Nathan. He may like me back, I'm not sure.
We talk, laugh, totally relaxed and happy around each other. Obviously that's not the problem.
The problems is that there are other males in the world.
And 4 of them like me, making it an awkward love... Heptagon?
Two guys told people I know that they had crushes on me. I have a way of prying things out of people.
One asked me out.
Another tries to impress me every single time I talk to him.
So they're all crushing on me and then I'm over here mooning after this one guy that I don't even know if he likes me back.
Advice?... What do I do about the other guys?

Why do I always seem to get ignored?...