Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[iWonder]

Hi, So I'm having a lot of issues right now. I lost interest in my previous boyfriend but.. I don't know how to tell him... There's another boy I've started dating, and I like him a lot. How do I tell my previous boyfriend how I no longer like him?

Uhm, first course of action
1. Break up with both of them
2. Find somebody else who you won't cheat on. Or with.
3. Live free of guilt.
4. Tell the first guy what happened, same with second.

[ViiciousVee]

I have a few things to talk about:

The first thing:
I'm my Ex's Re-Bound Girl His name is Isaac.. Today he messaged me of FB and said''Text me when you get a chance'' I texted him''What do you want?'' He replied''I don't want anything.'' I knew he only texts me when he wants something, We've dated 3 times and ALL three times he's dumped me for reasons like ''Just Because'' or ''I want to be with someone else''. After awhile of talking he said well what's the chance of us being together. -_- Are you serious? I told him no, I'm not his re-bound girl nor will i ever be a re-bound girl to Anyone.

The second thing:
My friend Justen was hangin out with Sean and a few other guys, I of course was so freaking shy. I wouldn't say anything without blushing.. One day i got a text from Sean it said''Hey Its Sean.'' Thanks to Justen i fell for my best guy friend who still is! I seriously do believe he's the reason none of my past relationships have worked out.. We have known each-other for almost 4 years now <3 Well we both still like each-other. He's the close thing i have to a Best friend, Everyone always thinks we are dating He seems to not mind, But he won't make the first move I give him hints, I steal his hat just so he will chase after me. We always end up on the ground laughing and smiling.. But he likes other people. He started liking my best friend Cassie after i introduced them, He is always talking about her smiling with that gleam in his eyes, He use to talk about me that way.. I guess i'm just a memory..... I pretend i'm okay..:/

The third thing:
Can someone Message me about this one? I don't wanna share this with Everyone

[slowtown]

Hey everyone. I have a bit of a problem. Firstly, J and C are two people that like me ^^

Okay, now I just want to say, we only know each other online and are all friends. We have calls on Skype, so no one is a fake/catfisher or whatever c:

So, here it is. I used to like C, but then I met J. C and I were /never/ in a relationship, but we teased each other and told each other about how our days went. We were born in the same place, but C now lives somewhere else and I never got to see him in my life. I'm not sure if I like C anymore. But C still likes me, and I've told him I have a crush on J.

And J. J is so cuuuuute. I mean, I like his voice and personality, I've never actually seen him, but I like to say that we're closer. When we can't call each other on Skype (family over, people sleeping, etc) we just type '<3' back and forth cx. But I wouldn't say we are in a relationship. Besides, I don't even /know/ if he really likes me.

So, I guess my problem is having both in my life, and only liking one. I really don't wanna hurt C. He always sounds so sad when I call him :c

[briny]

Hi, So I'm having a lot of issues right now. I lost interest in my previous boyfriend but.. I don't know how to tell him... There's another boy I've started dating, and I like him a lot. How do I tell my previous boyfriend how I no longer like him?

First off, it's not cheating if you are only going out with both of them and you are not in a serious relationship with them. I call it, testing your waters, seeing what you like in guys and what not, but it isn't cheating unless you have a serious relationship with both of them. But, how you do this, is you just tell your previous boyfriend that you have lost feelings for him and tell him it's not working out, simple as that

[Madison143]

What does it mean when a guy tells you what he wants in a relationship?

[mekaiser]

What does it mean when a guy tells you what he wants in a relationship?

It could be nothing....it coild be everything...it depends how he said it

[cautiousculpeo]

Alrighty now.
Awkward... My mom just told me that Dustin and I should date... Awkward...

Anyways. Dustin messages me every morning 'Yo good morning' on facebook. I thought it was nothing at first, him just being nice to ms and such, but now... He's flirting again. And idk what to do. I usealy ignore it or act like I don't take notice. Cuz I really don't want to date at the moment.

Dustin told me some really personal things from his past relationship, his old girlfriend is what some may say a 'female dog' I will say worse if I got the chance...
She is idk, really rude and arrogant. She called ms names and a lot of other stuff when she was dating Dustin, an she called me worse when I wasent.
Bacisly she wanted 'serious' which in her mind is sleeping with him and getting so wasted that they couldn't do anything.
Dustin isint like that, I don't care what people say, he is not. People told me he has 'done it' with some girls at a party. Bu he himself told me that he has never done anything with a girl but kiss her because he dosent feel ready yet. (I mean, he shouldn't feel ready... He's 16... And a year older than me...)

So we always have personal conversations, and he comes to my house sometimes. He just picked up his car today so we didn't hang out but he said when I got my new iPod he would come over and help me set it up.

And he gives me... Those flirty eyes. Idk how else to say it. And he started tickling me just because. Like really?! Not again! I don't want to hurt him... But I want to be friends still.

[iWonder]

Maybe you should let Dustin know that you are not ready for a relationship yet... ( give him something of a when you would be ready.. Like your 16th B-day?) but don't take my word for it. Psh I'm only 14. What do I know about relationships?

[thunderofthedrum]

Alrighty now.
Awkward... My mom just told me that Dustin and I should date... Awkward...

Anyways. Dustin messages me every morning 'Yo good morning' on facebook. I thought it was nothing at first, him just being nice to ms and such, but now... He's flirting again. And idk what to do. I usealy ignore it or act like I don't take notice. Cuz I really don't want to date at the moment.

Dustin told me some really personal things from his past relationship, his old girlfriend is what some may say a 'female dog' I will say worse if I got the chance...
She is idk, really rude and arrogant. She called ms names and a lot of other stuff when she was dating Dustin, an she called me worse when I wasent.
Bacisly she wanted 'serious' which in her mind is sleeping with him and getting so wasted that they couldn't do anything.
Dustin isint like that, I don't care what people say, he is not. People told me he has 'done it' with some girls at a party. Bu he himself told me that he has never done anything with a girl but kiss her because he dosent feel ready yet. (I mean, he shouldn't feel ready... He's 16... And a year older than me...)

So we always have personal conversations, and he comes to my house sometimes. He just picked up his car today so we didn't hang out but he said when I got my new iPod he would come over and help me set it up.

And he gives me... Those flirty eyes. Idk how else to say it. And he started tickling me just because. Like really?! Not again! I don't want to hurt him... But I want to be friends still.

Well you have made it very clear in your posts that Dustin likes you.
You want advice yet all you continue to do is - nothing.
You need to make it clear to him that you only see him as a friend.
By not communicating this to him you might be leading him on, which is unfair to him.

If you feel you are not ready, say so. If you just don't feel that way, say so.
But you need to say SOMETHING or else this will continue. It sounds like it's stressing you out and it's definitely wasting his time and getting his hopes up.

[cautiousculpeo]

Ok that's a good idea. I think If he asks me to date him. (which he hasent yet. This time...) I will tell him once I'm 16.