Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[kay.]

Since me and Robbie were doing well on the weekend, I was starting to think not to tell him, not now. Although one of my friends (doesn't know about my crush on Robbie) nearly told him something untrue which would ruin any chances with him. Yesteday I felt as if I'd lose him... Now I am pretty sure I need to tell him, I don't wanna lose him. Even though if I tell him it might riun it too, telling him seems the right option for some reason.

[Madison143]

Yeah, I never was good at advice XD Good luck though!

Thanks. It sure helps knowing that there are people on my side--even though I don't know them.

Yeah, at least you know who you like. I am so confused and stuff, it's annoying. I think this one guy might like me, but I'm not sure, and I wouldn't dare say anything, he is so nice.

[Wild.One]

Yeah, I never was good at advice XD Good luck though!

Thanks. It sure helps knowing that there are people on my side--even though I don't know them.

Yeah, at least you know who you like. I am so confused and stuff, it's annoying. I think this one guy might like me, but I'm not sure, and I wouldn't dare say anything, he is so nice.

I am in the same situation fancypants. I'm confused too.

[Madison143]

Thanks. It sure helps knowing that there are people on my side--even though I don't know them.

Yeah, at least you know who you like. I am so confused and stuff, it's annoying. I think this one guy might like me, but I'm not sure, and I wouldn't dare say anything, he is so nice.

I am in the same situation fancypants. I'm confused too.

Yeah. I really love texting him though. What does it mean when a guy tells you want he wants in a relationship?

[stinkende]

I'm not sure if this exactly fits in, it's just I need some advice and this thread is where I come for advice usually Ok, so my absolute best friend (yes, he's a guy) for over 2 years called me today and we talked for the first time in about a week. And during that conversation, he told me something and I'm not sure how to handle it or what to do. Ok, here's the story:
(Before we start let me say he's 15) So he was somewhere (he didn't say where) and he saw these guys that he didn't know (at all!) smoking weed. He walked near them and apparently they saw him and said "Don't be shy, if you want some, ask!" Now here's where it gets tricky. He didn't tell someone, or walk away, or say no. His response was "Hell yeah!" And my best friend smoked weed. Now here's the weird thing. He's such a good kid! He's the smartest person I know, he spends almost every waking moment at church, he'd actually just gotten back from church camp when this happened. You can see why I was a bit caught off guard. But the thing that scared me the most about this whole ordeal was that he kept going on about how he loved it, and it was the best feeling in the world, it was the best thing he's ever done, and how I didn't understand. I'm so worried for him! I know that was a one time thing but one time can turn into so much more. I don't want to jeopardise our friendship as he trusted me enough to tell me, but I don't know what I'd do if he got hurt and I know I could have stopped it. Please, please, please if you have any advice to help with this situation please either reply here or send me a PM. Thanks so much!!

In the long run of things, you're making a mountain out of a molehill. High school to college is where most kids experiment with drugs. He'll make his own choice to keep going with it, or smoke on occasion, or leave it altogether. It's not a big deal unless he gets into hard drugs. There are a lot worse things to be worried about.

If you tell his parents behind your back, I imagine you'll lose the friendship. Tell him yourself how you feel, and let him deal with the problem he created.

[bubble9001]

Key:
C-My best friend
J-Best friend's cousin

Hello, I am currently in a very hard situation. I'm going to explain as best as I can, but it is kind of hard to explain since I'm not really good with explanations... For starters I have a HUGE crush on my best friend's cousin, J. He's six years older than me and I know that it's a potential problem. J is also a partying/badboy type of guy, well tries to be. Most of the badboy persona is all an act and he really is sweet and funny. I'm going to tell you what happened to me the past couple days.

I was at C's house who is my best friend and we wanted to go on a boat with her family. J, C, C's bf, C's brother, C's brother's gf, C's mom, and C's dad, and I all went on the boat. As J pushed the boat away from the dock he smirked and said: "First we have to tickle *my name's* feet" as he tickled my feet which were hanging out of the boat. That was the first day we hung out. The second day we went on the boat again, but the boat started to break down. So while C's parents went to go get some plugs because that's what they thought the problem was J took us out to lunch. C and her bf wouldn't share their fries so J gave me his fries which made me blush. Then he started to tease me because I was blushing and everyone else were just eating while J and I were teasing each other. The next day at breakfast C's family was all talking about how their family robs the cradle since her dad is older than her mother. C's brother is older than his gf. C's older than her bf and J and I were just casually eating our breakfast since we're both single. At the end of the day C's brother went to his gf's house and C wanted to go to her bf's house. So J turned to me and said: "Guess it's just you and me, *my name*." Then C said: "So..I guess I'm leaving.." J replied with: "Yup, she's my date. By the way, your friend says thanks for ditching her" I couldn't stop blushing and laughing. When C was gone J asked me: "Have you watched World War Z yet?" I told him: "No, but I want to" Then he got up 'cause he was going to take me to watch it at the movies, but then the pizza guy came((Stupid Pizza guy)) Then J forgot about it. When it got later he took me home. I know he most likely was just joking around, but I really like him. The only problem is my parents are worried about him being too old and being a party-type guy. Can I have advice please?

[Madison143]

What does it mean when a guy tells you what he wants in a relationship?

[Shima Longtail]

Hi, So I'm having a lot of issues right now. I lost interest in my previous boyfriend but.. I don't know how to tell him... There's another boy I've started dating, and I like him a lot. How do I tell my previous boyfriend how I no longer like him?

[trolls]

Hi, So I'm having a lot of issues right now. I lost interest in my previous boyfriend but.. I don't know how to tell him... There's another boy I've started dating, and I like him a lot. How do I tell my previous boyfriend how I no longer like him?

Woah woah woah.. you didn't break up with him before you started dating the next one? O.O That's.. cheating.

[Proud violent zealot]

Alright. This is my situation, if anyone cares to listen. I've been friends with this guy. (Let's call him P) He's friends with A, who likes me, but not in the normal way. When A likes people, he falls for them hard. He's been obsessed with me for quite a while. When A likes someone, he's willing to throw anyone under the bus (including his friends) and will passionately hate whoever likes the same person as him. I previously asked A what would happen if I end up with a guy, and he described the pain he would be in and the recluse he would become, etc. He promised he wouldn't hate the guy I was with if he made me happy.

Now P and I have been super close for a while now. He's really gentle but strong and he understands me. Once he came over to my house and we made brownies in a mug and watched Star Wars because sad as it is, I'd never watched it before. After that, he took me to his school fair, where I met his old friends and we went on rides together. He'd sometimes come over to my house so we could run together (we're both cross country athletes) and we'd sit on my little swingy bench thing in the backyard and eat ice cream and talk. We used to run together after school and sometimes we would sit and talk until our parents picked us up and I would fall asleep on his leg. He recently started grabbing my hand and squeezing it or holding it. He also did things like brushing my hair out of my eyes and braiding my hair. We always text and once we skyped until 1:30 in the morning. (we only stopped when my mom came in and got mad at me) Yesterday, we told each other that we liked each other. Everything would be perfect if A didn't like me quite so much. We've been keeping kind of quiet about this for now, but I feel like I'm living a lie right now. This is the first real relationship thing I've been in so I'm new to this. He's also a senior this year, so he'll be graduating soon. (he's older than me)