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[Unashamed]

Okay, I've posted here a few times in the past about me and my crush, but now it's real. For those of you who might not remember me (as I'm sure there are MANY of you who don't ), I met my crush last year at VBS. And, well, I'm going to be going to a camp in less than two weeks, that I've never been to before, and I'm pretty sure he's gonna be there. Along with my cousin who also has a crush on him, and a bunch of girls that I go to VBS with, most of whom know that I like him, and tease me about him behind my back.
The thing is, I really want to tell him that I like him, even though I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way about me. I just want to get it off my chest, and know that I'll have done at least one "brave" thing in my entire life. And I have an idea on how to tell him, but I don't really know how to get the courage up to ask him. I doubt he remembers me, because the last few times I've seen him since VBS we've barely said three words to each other. His younger sister knows me, and we both get along pretty well, which really kinda helps me with feeling a little more comfortable around him. I have one friend (I met her on a Christian website for teen girls), and she says she thinks that by the way he acts around me, he probably likes me, but is just scared to admit it.
Also, about three weeks after I see him at camp, I'll be seeing him once again at VBS, so I don't really know what to do. I'm scared that if I tell him at camp, and he doesn't like me back, that it'll just backfire on me the whole time I'm at VBS. But if I tell him while we're at VBS, then I'll only have to be around him for that period of time, and then since this is my last year for going to VBS, I'll only have to see him at camp. And since there's a lot more kids at camp then there is at VBS, my guess it'll be a little easier for me to keep away from him.
What do you guys think I should do? Thanks for taking the precious time out of your day to read this, and for giving me any advice you might have. I really appreciate it!

[Madison143]

Okay, I've posted here a few times in the past about me and my crush, but now it's real. For those of you who might not remember me (as I'm sure there are MANY of you who don't ), I met my crush last year at VBS. And, well, I'm going to be going to a camp in less than two weeks, that I've never been to before, and I'm pretty sure he's gonna be there. Along with my cousin who also has a crush on him, and a bunch of girls that I go to VBS with, most of whom know that I like him, and tease me about him behind my back.
The thing is, I really want to tell him that I like him, even though I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way about me. I just want to get it off my chest, and know that I'll have done at least one "brave" thing in my entire life. And I have an idea on how to tell him, but I don't really know how to get the courage up to ask him. I doubt he remembers me, because the last few times I've seen him since VBS we've barely said three words to each other. His younger sister knows me, and we both get along pretty well, which really kinda helps me with feeling a little more comfortable around him. I have one friend (I met her on a Christian website for teen girls), and she says she thinks that by the way he acts around me, he probably likes me, but is just scared to admit it.
Also, about three weeks after I see him at camp, I'll be seeing him once again at VBS, so I don't really know what to do. I'm scared that if I tell him at camp, and he doesn't like me back, that it'll just backfire on me the whole time I'm at VBS. But if I tell him while we're at VBS, then I'll only have to be around him for that period of time, and then since this is my last year for going to VBS, I'll only have to see him at camp. And since there's a lot more kids at camp then there is at VBS, my guess it'll be a little easier for me to keep away from him.
What do you guys think I should do? Thanks for taking the precious time out of your day to read this, and for giving me any advice you might have. I really appreciate it!

I think that you should risk telling him at camp, and if it backfires, you can avoid him then and just keep distracted at VBS. It's better to tell him, whether he likes you or not, than not tell him and regret it forever. Trust me, it sucks.

[Unashamed]

Okay, I've posted here a few times in the past about me and my crush, but now it's real. For those of you who might not remember me (as I'm sure there are MANY of you who don't :)), I met my crush last year at VBS. And, well, I'm going to be going to a camp in less than two weeks, that I've never been to before, and I'm pretty sure he's gonna be there. Along with my cousin who also has a crush on him, and a bunch of girls that I go to VBS with, most of whom know that I like him, and tease me about him behind my back.
The thing is, I really want to tell him that I like him, even though I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way about me. I just want to get it off my chest, and know that I'll have done at least one "brave" thing in my entire life. And I have an idea on how to tell him, but I don't really know how to get the courage up to ask him. I doubt he remembers me, because the last few times I've seen him since VBS we've barely said three words to each other. His younger sister knows me, and we both get along pretty well, which really kinda helps me with feeling a little more comfortable around him. I have one friend (I met her on a Christian website for teen girls), and she says she thinks that by the way he acts around me, he probably likes me, but is just scared to admit it.
Also, about three weeks after I see him at camp, I'll be seeing him once again at VBS, so I don't really know what to do. I'm scared that if I tell him at camp, and he doesn't like me back, that it'll just backfire on me the whole time I'm at VBS. But if I tell him while we're at VBS, then I'll only have to be around him for that period of time, and then since this is my last year for going to VBS, I'll only have to see him at camp. And since there's a lot more kids at camp then there is at VBS, my guess it'll be a little easier for me to keep away from him.
What do you guys think I should do? Thanks for taking the precious time out of your day to read this, and for giving me any advice you might have. I really appreciate it!

I think that you should risk telling him at camp, and if it backfires, you can avoid him then and just keep distracted at VBS. It's better to tell him, whether he likes you or not, than not tell him and regret it forever. Trust me, it sucks.

But how do I keep distracted? I don't have any friends, and I have to put up with my cousin rubbing it in my face when we get back to my grandparent's house (I stay with them when I'm at VBS). The worst part is that, she won't get in one lick of trouble for doing it, since she seems to be my grandma's favorite. And if my grandma sees me cry, she'll ask why I'm crying, and if I were to tell her the truth, she'd just put me down for being such a baby. Now if it was my cousin, she'd actually take the time to help her out--but me? No. This is why my love life is completely hopeless, and I never want to have a boyfriend and/or get married.

[Madison143]

Okay, I've posted here a few times in the past about me and my crush, but now it's real. For those of you who might not remember me (as I'm sure there are MANY of you who don't ), I met my crush last year at VBS. And, well, I'm going to be going to a camp in less than two weeks, that I've never been to before, and I'm pretty sure he's gonna be there. Along with my cousin who also has a crush on him, and a bunch of girls that I go to VBS with, most of whom know that I like him, and tease me about him behind my back.
The thing is, I really want to tell him that I like him, even though I'm pretty sure he doesn't feel the same way about me. I just want to get it off my chest, and know that I'll have done at least one "brave" thing in my entire life. And I have an idea on how to tell him, but I don't really know how to get the courage up to ask him. I doubt he remembers me, because the last few times I've seen him since VBS we've barely said three words to each other. His younger sister knows me, and we both get along pretty well, which really kinda helps me with feeling a little more comfortable around him. I have one friend (I met her on a Christian website for teen girls), and she says she thinks that by the way he acts around me, he probably likes me, but is just scared to admit it.
Also, about three weeks after I see him at camp, I'll be seeing him once again at VBS, so I don't really know what to do. I'm scared that if I tell him at camp, and he doesn't like me back, that it'll just backfire on me the whole time I'm at VBS. But if I tell him while we're at VBS, then I'll only have to be around him for that period of time, and then since this is my last year for going to VBS, I'll only have to see him at camp. And since there's a lot more kids at camp then there is at VBS, my guess it'll be a little easier for me to keep away from him.
What do you guys think I should do? Thanks for taking the precious time out of your day to read this, and for giving me any advice you might have. I really appreciate it!

I think that you should risk telling him at camp, and if it backfires, you can avoid him then and just keep distracted at VBS. It's better to tell him, whether he likes you or not, than not tell him and regret it forever. Trust me, it sucks.

But how do I keep distracted? I don't have any friends, and I have to put up with my cousin rubbing it in my face when we get back to my grandparent's house (I stay with them when I'm at VBS). The worst part is that, she won't get in one lick of trouble for doing it, since she seems to be my grandma's favorite. And if my grandma sees me cry, she'll ask why I'm crying, and if I were to tell her the truth, she'd just put me down for being such a baby. Now if it was my cousin, she'd actually take the time to help her out--but me? No. This is why my love life is completely hopeless, and I never want to have a boyfriend and/or get married.

Ohh... Cousins are a pain, aren't they? You could try talking to people, or helping out as much as possible when at VBS, then when you are at your grandparent's you could try reading, or doing CS if you can.

[Unashamed]

Ohh... Cousins are a pain, aren't they? You could try talking to people, or helping out as much as possible when at VBS, then when you are at your grandparent's you could try reading, or doing CS if you can.

Yes, yes, they are. The only real reason we're at all close to each other any more, is because we both like One Direction a lot (only I know a bit more about them, since I do a bit more stalking than she does xD). And I guess I could help out a bit more, and as far as at my grandparents' goes.... Whenever I try reading, she makes sure to talk, and talk, and talk so I can't concentrate on the book. And I don't have any internet while I'm there, so I can't be on CS, plus my grandma doesn't hardly let me on my computer when I'm there (but she lets my cousins on their Ipads and Iphones all they want....).

[Madison143]

Ohh... Cousins are a pain, aren't they? You could try talking to people, or helping out as much as possible when at VBS, then when you are at your grandparent's you could try reading, or doing CS if you can.

Yes, yes, they are. The only real reason we're at all close to each other any more, is because we both like One Direction a lot (only I know a bit more about them, since I do a bit more stalking than she does xD). And I guess I could help out a bit more, and as far as at my grandparents' goes.... Whenever I try reading, she makes sure to talk, and talk, and talk so I can't concentrate on the book. And I don't have any internet while I'm there, so I can't be on CS, plus my grandma doesn't hardly let me on my computer when I'm there (but she lets my cousins on their Ipads and Iphones all they want....).

Ohh....

[Unashamed]

Ohh... Cousins are a pain, aren't they? You could try talking to people, or helping out as much as possible when at VBS, then when you are at your grandparent's you could try reading, or doing CS if you can.

Yes, yes, they are. The only real reason we're at all close to each other any more, is because we both like One Direction a lot (only I know a bit more about them, since I do a bit more stalking than she does xD). And I guess I could help out a bit more, and as far as at my grandparents' goes.... Whenever I try reading, she makes sure to talk, and talk, and talk so I can't concentrate on the book. And I don't have any internet while I'm there, so I can't be on CS, plus my grandma doesn't hardly let me on my computer when I'm there (but she lets my cousins on their Ipads and Iphones all they want....).

Ohh....

I guess I'm kinda putting a bit of a damper on all your advice. Sorry.... I guess I'll just wait and see what happens, and trust that God will keep me from blowing up at times. :) Thanks a lot for your help--it really does mean a lot.

[Madison143]

Yes, yes, they are. The only real reason we're at all close to each other any more, is because we both like One Direction a lot (only I know a bit more about them, since I do a bit more stalking than she does xD). And I guess I could help out a bit more, and as far as at my grandparents' goes.... Whenever I try reading, she makes sure to talk, and talk, and talk so I can't concentrate on the book. And I don't have any internet while I'm there, so I can't be on CS, plus my grandma doesn't hardly let me on my computer when I'm there (but she lets my cousins on their Ipads and Iphones all they want....).

Ohh....

I guess I'm kinda putting a bit of a damper on all your advice. Sorry.... I guess I'll just wait and see what happens, and trust that God will keep me from blowing up at times. Thanks a lot for your help--it really does mean a lot.

Yeah, I never was good at advice XD Good luck though!

[Unashamed]

Yeah, I never was good at advice XD Good luck though!

Thanks. It sure helps knowing that there are people on my side--even though I don't know them.

[iWonder]

Yeah, it does feel great. I am frustrated, endermen keep on destroying my hut! And I am also frustrated that A. Keeps buying me stuff! I don't want him to and I have told him to not do it but he does.