Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[bubble9001]

Key:
C-My best friend
J-Best friend's cousin

Hello, I am currently in a very hard situation. I'm going to explain as best as I can, but it is kind of hard to explain since I'm not really good with explanations... For starters I have a HUGE crush on my best friend's cousin, J. He's six years older than me and I know that it's a potential problem. J is also a partying/badboy type of guy, well tries to be. Most of the badboy persona is all an act and he really is sweet and funny. I'm going to tell you what happened to me the past couple days.

I was at C's house who is my best friend and we wanted to go on a boat with her family. J, C, C's bf, C's brother, C's brother's gf, C's mom, and C's dad, and I all went on the boat. As J pushed the boat away from the dock he smirked and said: "First we have to tickle *my name's* feet" as he tickled my feet which were hanging out of the boat. That was the first day we hung out. The second day we went on the boat again, but the boat started to break down. So while C's parents went to go get some plugs because that's what they thought the problem was J took us out to lunch. C and her bf wouldn't share their fries so J gave me his fries which made me blush. Then he started to tease me because I was blushing and everyone else were just eating while J and I were teasing each other. The next day at breakfast C's family was all talking about how their family robs the cradle since her dad is older than her mother. C's brother is older than his gf. C's older than her bf and J and I were just casually eating our breakfast since we're both single. At the end of the day C's brother went to his gf's house and C wanted to go to her bf's house. So J turned to me and said: "Guess it's just you and me, *my name*." Then C said: "So..I guess I'm leaving.." J replied with: "Yup, she's my date. By the way, your friend says thanks for ditching her" I couldn't stop blushing and laughing. When C was gone J asked me: "Have you watched World War Z yet?" I told him: "No, but I want to" Then he got up 'cause he was going to take me to watch it at the movies, but then the pizza guy came((Stupid Pizza guy)) Then J forgot about it. When it got later he took me home. I know he most likely was just joking around, but I really like him. The only problem is my parents are worried about him being too old and being a party-type guy. Can I have advice please?

[itsdemonnxoxo]

I have been single for over maybe 6 months now, my ex boyfriend left me for somebody else, because we hardly ever got to see other. I seen him every weekend and he said it wasn't enough. I always get flirted with and ect, but nobody just so happens not to like me. I have a great personality and I just don't want to be singe anymore, it feels depressing. But, I can't find anybody who is interested into me. I get told a lot on a common bases that I'm "beautiful" "gorgeous" "pretty" "cute" and so on. ._. just I'm a single pringle. XD

i know exactly how you feel infinity.
i've been talking to this guy on facebook and he was flirting with me and everything, asking me if I'd give him a chance.
i told him i would since he was really sweet and cute in that awkward way. he used to like my cover photos, pics and my statuses.
then all of the sudden he started hanging out with his friends from his own school, going to a waterpark and writing cute flirty things to girls he hangs out with. and he stops talking to me, doesn't like any of my statuses, and he only liked one of my cover photos.
i sent him a sticker from my ipod, since we had a sticker war a couple days before :3, then he doesn't reply, he sees them but never writes back.
i went away and couldn't go online very much and yesterday when i went on facebook again, it said that he was in a relationship. :c

i don't understand why he did this to me. he was complimenting me, sending me goodmorning messages, then bam he's in a relationship with someone else and won't even talk to me.

...

meanwhile i had a guy who i also really liked but haven't talked to in a year, try to skype me but i didn't know since i wasn't on my computer. i've been trying to get a hold of him on skype messenger but he hasn't replied, its almost been a week. :/

This dude I've been talking to for months, I met him on xbox. ^^ I FaceTime him a lot and we play Black Ops 2 and text quite often. We plan on meeting when we're both about to drive without our parents. XD He lives in OK and I live in TN, not that far away from each other. (:

[iWonder]

*flails* A. And I are going to a movie!!
Not alone of course, with a bunch of random people we don't know at the local Library! Yaaay!
And I can get more books while I am there!!! "yayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayayyay!" (I have Inkheart, snake book, cloud book, botany books, and a PTOE book that I LOVE but A. Hates.)

[swag;]

this post is mostly just for me to let out. however if anyone feels the same shoot me a pm :3

I have had quite the boy drama this year, from a good friend, to a stranger, to another friend, now there is a new guy but for right now we are just pals.
I don't usually like to get attached to a guy, if we are something I'm the one to end it... it's mostly because I'm scared to really like someone, then end up with a broken heart.
The first two boys I said in that list, we never got far, the third, well we have, are? I'm not sure what we are at this point.
I'm not one to make the first move, but with this guy, I feel like that is all i'm doing. I'm snapchatting him first, I'm texting him first... I feel like I'm doing all the work. and that is certainly something I do not do.
so I stopped. completely. and nothing happened.
he didn't do squat.
what am I? nothing to him? we didn't have any means of communications for three days.
then I stupidly snapchatted him and we facetimed for like three hours that night -__-
the problem here is that I actually like this guy. and usually its just the guy who likes me.
I just want to feel like he wants me.

yea.... I just wanted to let that out.

[iWonder]

I think you should tell him. Don't let your self get in the way of your happiness. If He makes you feel grubby, tired, unappreciated, unloved then dump him. That's my philosophy at least...

[Always.]

I'm not sure if this exactly fits in, it's just I need some advice and this thread is where I come for advice usually Ok, so my absolute best friend (yes, he's a guy) for over 2 years called me today and we talked for the first time in about a week. And during that conversation, he told me something and I'm not sure how to handle it or what to do. Ok, here's the story:
(Before we start let me say he's 15) So he was somewhere (he didn't say where) and he saw these guys that he didn't know (at all!) smoking weed. He walked near them and apparently they saw him and said "Don't be shy, if you want some, ask!" Now here's where it gets tricky. He didn't tell someone, or walk away, or say no. His response was "Hell yeah!" And my best friend smoked weed. Now here's the weird thing. He's such a good kid! He's the smartest person I know, he spends almost every waking moment at church, he'd actually just gotten back from church camp when this happened. You can see why I was a bit caught off guard. But the thing that scared me the most about this whole ordeal was that he kept going on about how he loved it, and it was the best feeling in the world, it was the best thing he's ever done, and how I didn't understand. I'm so worried for him! I know that was a one time thing but one time can turn into so much more. I don't want to jeopardise our friendship as he trusted me enough to tell me, but I don't know what I'd do if he got hurt and I know I could have stopped it. Please, please, please if you have any advice to help with this situation please either reply here or send me a PM. Thanks so much!!

[iWonder]

He shouldn't have done it, which is more important to you? His friend ship, or his well being? You need to tell his parents right now so they can stop this. It needs to be done, if you love him enough to betray his trust to help him, and his family then do it. Please I beg you. We can't loose more youth to the stupidity of the modern world.

[cautiousculpeo]

My best friend Dustin tried weed. He had to oppisoite reaction. He said his friends got him to try it, and he got baked out of his mind. He said he went to go the bathroom and fell off his bed and he couldn't remember how to get up. He said if I ever did anything like it he would smack me.
Agreed, tell someone about it. It is not a good thing to be around, If he likes it... He may need help.

[Aloaei]

Sorry for just busting into this but... you see there's this crush. Me and my friend were at a rodeo back in february when my crush asked my friend over text who I was. He kept saying all these things like "she's stunning" and all that sweet talk. So my friend gave him my name and that night he sent me a message on facebook saying he though I was cute. Well, over the next couple months we started getting closer, always hanging out and talking to eachother. Then we went to a few dances together and everything was going great. I mean, we talked about how much we liked each other but he never asked me to be his gf. He just told my friend he was worried that I wouldn't want to get close to him, and that he never would want to hurt me. Just a few weeks ago we hung out again and watched movies and cuddled which, I found it strange I mean..I would've never done that with someone I wasn't "with" if you know what I mean? That night he was all "You're so gorgeous, I loved tonight. Blah blah blah" but then...I mean after everything he's said to me about dating me and how much he likes me, he got a girlfriend yesterday.When I saw it, it killed me....my heart is physically aching right now and I can't stop thinking about him. We talked about it last night and he was like "I didn't mean to hurt you because I like you alot and I always want you to be in my life, I just didn't want to say no to her. I didn't want to reject her." and I mean...it kills me to see him with her. After everything he's said to me and how many opportunities I have had to get some guts and ask him to be my bf..I just wanted to wait and have him ask me.. but thats obviously missed. I just don't really know what to do. I mean, it's hard to give up on him when I know it's everything I want.
(Thanks for listening guys, i just had to tell somebody...)

[Pongo.]

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OMG I lurrrvv hearing about first dates. Tell me more about it, if you don't mind. O.O

Ok, so the guys name is Tristin, we went and saw a movie together (despicable me 2). Tristins friend alex came along as did tristins sister jade. Tristin and i sat next to each other and about halfway through the movie i fell asleep (because when we were planning this i told him how i fell asleep during iron man 3 like 4 times and he said if i fell asleep he would poke me to wake me up but i said don't poke me ill have a spaz attack so he said then ill hug you and say wake up) so i fell asleep for about five minutes and what happens next? Alex is reaching across tristin and poking me xc. so i missed out on a hug D: but we laughed and joked throughout the movie and when it was over we walked arou.d outside a little and right when i was gonna give hin a surprise hug, i saw my parents -.- so i had to leave, so that's how my very first date ever went

Aww, sounds like you had a good time, haha. Too bad you didn't get your hug. Do you parents allow you to have a boyfriend?

my mom doesn't really care, but my dad is over protective since im the baby of the family, even though im in high school my dad says im too young to date, but, he had plenty of dates when he was in high school but my mom wouldn't care, and if my dad met him, my dad would probably love him ha ha

Sorry for just busting into this but... you see there's this crush. Me and my friend were at a rodeo back in february when my crush asked my friend over text who I was. He kept saying all these things like "she's stunning" and all that sweet talk. So my friend gave him my name and that night he sent me a message on facebook saying he though I was cute. Well, over the next couple months we started getting closer, always hanging out and talking to eachother. Then we went to a few dances together and everything was going great. I mean, we talked about how much we liked each other but he never asked me to be his gf. He just told my friend he was worried that I wouldn't want to get close to him, and that he never would want to hurt me. Just a few weeks ago we hung out again and watched movies and cuddled which, I found it strange I mean..I would've never done that with someone I wasn't "with" if you know what I mean? That night he was all "You're so gorgeous, I loved tonight. Blah blah blah" but then...I mean after everything he's said to me about dating me and how much he likes me, he got a girlfriend yesterday.When I saw it, it killed me....my heart is physically aching right now and I can't stop thinking about him. We talked about it last night and he was like "I didn't mean to hurt you because I like you alot and I always want you to be in my life, I just didn't want to say no to her. I didn't want to reject her." and I mean...it kills me to see him with her. After everything he's said to me and how many opportunities I have had to get some guts and ask him to be my bf..I just wanted to wait and have him ask me.. but thats obviously missed. I just don't really know what to do. I mean, it's hard to give up on him when I know it's everything I want.
(Thanks for listening guys, i just had to tell somebody...)

wow, I am soo sorry! I cant say I have ever been in this type of situation, but I know how bad it hurts when the one person you liked the most ends up with someone else, but, I eventually moved on and now, I am reunited with my crush from 7 years ago! I hope you two can end up together if that's what you want, but if its not, I wish you good luck in finding someone else!