Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[trolls]

I went on my first date ever yesterday
and I told my brothers girlfriend (cause we are practically sisters) and she goes, WITH WHO?? and I told her, and she said, he is my ex! he is so sweet, and you two would make the cutest couple!

I was like, ahmagawd!

OMG I lurrrvv hearing about first dates. Tell me more about it, if you don't mind. O.O

[cautiousculpeo]

I know I just posted... But I have another problem.
I posted about Dustin right? Well, he does like me I guess... But that's not my problem.

My friend Ryan was flirting with me WAY to much, so being all awkward, I asked my best friend Dustin to help me and nicely talk to Ryan about going easy on the flirting. So he did he gave it straight to him saying I found it awkward and that he wanted to let Ryan know he was making me uncomfortable, and now since Ryan got called out on it he hates Dustin. I keep telling him it was my fault not Dustin's, but he wont listen.

AND he is still flirting with me... -_-

What do I do now!? and Why is he so mad at Dustin!?

[G.L'S]

^ you're going to have to tell Ryan yourself regardless of if you want to or not. Part of the reason Ryan could be upset with him is maybe he thinks its Dustin's way of getting to you first, guys can be competitive. Your best bet is to talk to him yourself, don't let anyone act as your go-between a) it's not fair to them and could put them in an awkward situation and b) things can get lost in translation.

Just a note to anyone wanting to talk to a person about anything, using a person to act as the messenger is usually a bad idea because messages can get mixed up and it usually causes more harm than good. If you want to talk to someone, do it yourself no matter how much courage you need to build.

[Venatici]

Alright.

So I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. He is really sweet and kind, and we really like each other. For summer, he was going away for a few weeks because his parents were making him to go a camp like ever summer.
Before he left, he tried to kiss me; I (of course, being me) rejected the kiss because of not knowing how to kiss.
But that's not the issue; he's been emailing me in camp since he can't text or call, and two days ago he emails me saying that someone has a crush on him, and has been trying to hold his hand and stuff; that she thinks they're in love when in reality I'm his girlfriend and she knows it. He is really nice, and said he asked her to dance at one of the dances, go bowling with her, and watch the forth of July fireworks.
Well, in the ending of the email he said that he was doing it out of the kindness of his heart, but that he wasn't thinking straight and that the email I sent him earlier was a wake up call.

I've been talking to my friends, and they say he is cheating on me with her. I don't know what to believe, this si my first actual relationship but he sounds like he doesn't feel too guilty about it.

I emailed him again after he emailed me, and its been two days since he hasn't replied.
What should I do? ;v;

I'm not sure you should do anything. At least till he gets back from camp. Just wait till he answers the email and go from there.

Alright.
I'm seeing him on Sunday, I'm guessing just ask him about it then?

[ojoku]

^ you're going to have to tell Ryan yourself regardless of if you want to or not. Part of the reason Ryan could be upset with him is maybe he thinks its Dustin's way of getting to you first, guys can be competitive. Your best bet is to talk to him yourself, don't let anyone act as your go-between a) it's not fair to them and could put them in an awkward situation and b) things can get lost in translation.

Just a note to anyone wanting to talk to a person about anything, using a person to act as the messenger is usually a bad idea because messages can get mixed up and it usually causes more harm than good. If you want to talk to someone, do it yourself no matter how much courage you need to build.

Also, messengers get really stressed out. It often leads them to avoid or stop being friends with the ones they were delivering the messages to. At least, that's what happened to me. I was a messenger and I hated it. The two people I used to be close to that I delivered for... we don't talk much anymore. Doing it yourself is the best option for a messenger, the receiver and the sender.

[Pongo.]

I went on my first date ever yesterday
and I told my brothers girlfriend (cause we are practically sisters) and she goes, WITH WHO?? and I told her, and she said, he is my ex! he is so sweet, and you two would make the cutest couple!

I was like, ahmagawd!

OMG I lurrrvv hearing about first dates. Tell me more about it, if you don't mind. O.O

Ok, so the guys name is Tristin, we went and saw a movie together (despicable me 2). Tristins friend alex came along as did tristins sister jade. Tristin and i sat next to each other and about halfway through the movie i fell asleep (because when we were planning this i told him how i fell asleep during iron man 3 like 4 times and he said if i fell asleep he would poke me to wake me up but i said don't poke me ill have a spaz attack so he said then ill hug you and say wake up) so i fell asleep for about five minutes and what happens next? Alex is reaching across tristin and poking me xc. so i missed out on a hug D: but we laughed and joked throughout the movie and when it was over we walked arou.d outside a little and right when i was gonna give hin a surprise hug, i saw my parents -.- so i had to leave, so that's how my very first date ever went

[trolls]

I went on my first date ever yesterday
and I told my brothers girlfriend (cause we are practically sisters) and she goes, WITH WHO?? and I told her, and she said, he is my ex! he is so sweet, and you two would make the cutest couple!

I was like, ahmagawd!

OMG I lurrrvv hearing about first dates. Tell me more about it, if you don't mind. O.O

Ok, so the guys name is Tristin, we went and saw a movie together (despicable me 2). Tristins friend alex came along as did tristins sister jade. Tristin and i sat next to each other and about halfway through the movie i fell asleep (because when we were planning this i told him how i fell asleep during iron man 3 like 4 times and he said if i fell asleep he would poke me to wake me up but i said don't poke me ill have a spaz attack so he said then ill hug you and say wake up) so i fell asleep for about five minutes and what happens next? Alex is reaching across tristin and poking me xc. so i missed out on a hug D: but we laughed and joked throughout the movie and when it was over we walked arou.d outside a little and right when i was gonna give hin a surprise hug, i saw my parents -.- so i had to leave, so that's how my very first date ever went

Aww, sounds like you had a good time, haha. Too bad you didn't get your hug. Do you parents allow you to have a boyfriend?

[northern downpour ;;]

Soooo I reeeeaaaally love this boy, he's very old-fashioned and sweet~ But he's gone camping for 10 days and I already miss him! I asked my friend/brother how long it had been and he said it had only been 3 days >.< Still a week to go... But my love said it might take longer than 10 days, up to 2 weeks! I dunno how to deal with him being gone... I'm gonna get really sad soon... any advice? :c

[cmichb]

Oh my gosh. I think I saw my boyfriend cheating on me today at a fair in town. He said that he wanted to hang out with his friends so I decided I would go to the fair. When I was there and on the ferris wheel alone,
I looked down and thought I saw him kissing another girl. I'm not sure though; I was far up. I have no clue what to tell or ask him. What should I do?

[trolls]

Soooo I reeeeaaaally love this boy, he's very old-fashioned and sweet~ But he's gone camping for 10 days and I already miss him! I asked my friend/brother how long it had been and he said it had only been 3 days >.< Still a week to go... But my love said it might take longer than 10 days, up to 2 weeks! I dunno how to deal with him being gone... I'm gonna get really sad soon... any advice? :c

Aw hun, I've been where you are, haha. You just have to wait. Even though it's getting farther from the last time you've seen each other, you're getting closer to the next time you will. Plus, you're lucky it's only 10 days/two weeks.. I can't see my bb for the whole summer. /.\ He's gone to Texas to visit family.. argh.

Oh my gosh. I think I saw my boyfriend cheating on me today at a fair in town. He said that he wanted to hang out with his friends so I decided I would go to the fair. When I was there and on the ferris wheel alone,
I looked down and thought I saw him kissing another girl. I'm not sure though; I was far up. I have no clue what to tell or ask him. What should I do?

WAIT. Don't assume just yet.. are you absolutely sure it was him? Like clothes, and everything? There's a fact that there's at least several people on Earth that look like you, soo...? I would confront him about it, but don't get too accusing. Just tell him what you saw, and ask him if it was him..? I don't even know, I might be steering you the wrong way. I've never been in that kind of situation...
yet.