Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[vvoland]

So I like this guy a LOT. Problem is, he either likes me back or I'm in the friendzone so deep I'm in China, and I don't know which one it is.

Same here...well, I guess, just give it some time to see how it plays out. At least, that's what I'm doing.

Ooh, what's happening with that meci?

[Julia]

It's been 2 months since we stopped talking to eachother.
He stood me up several times, acted like the last ... and my father found a perfect job for him (after he wanted me to ask my father, they're both doing the same job) but he just ignored it.

Had to send him a message yesterday because it was just..eating me up from the inside.
I don't know whether it was a good idea or not.

He's not worth my attention, but he stopped talking to me the day he started a relationship with that girl, (well they're not together anymore).

Iunno if he's a crush for me, or just a friend. I guess I'd consider him to be a friend.
And loosing him was just... terrible for my soul, and heart.

I guess it doesn't really fit in here, but I just want to let the feeling of guilt go. I shouldn't have written him, I have enough friends and other guys who are nice, but he just doesn't want to leave my dreams, my mind.ene

[samm.]

My almost girlfriend, and I say almost because she is still unsure, hasn't texted me in two days and i'm starting to worry. Maybe shes having doubts, maybe she doesn't want to take it one step further and turn our friendship into a relationship, and maybe she just needs some time to think and i'm being paranoid. Should I text her? Or should I wait for her to text me? .-.

[Venatici]

Alright.

So I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. He is really sweet and kind, and we really like each other. For summer, he was going away for a few weeks because his parents were making him to go a camp like ever summer.
Before he left, he tried to kiss me; I (of course, being me) rejected the kiss because of not knowing how to kiss.
But that's not the issue; he's been emailing me in camp since he can't text or call, and two days ago he emails me saying that someone has a crush on him, and has been trying to hold his hand and stuff; that she thinks they're in love when in reality I'm his girlfriend and she knows it. He is really nice, and said he asked her to dance at one of the dances, go bowling with her, and watch the forth of July fireworks.
Well, in the ending of the email he said that he was doing it out of the kindness of his heart, but that he wasn't thinking straight and that the email I sent him earlier was a wake up call.

I've been talking to my friends, and they say he is cheating on me with her. I don't know what to believe, this si my first actual relationship but he sounds like he doesn't feel too guilty about it.

I emailed him again after he emailed me, and its been two days since he hasn't replied.
What should I do? ;v;

[Exia]

My almost girlfriend, and I say almost because she is still unsure, hasn't texted me in two days and i'm starting to worry. Maybe shes having doubts, maybe she doesn't want to take it one step further and turn our friendship into a relationship, and maybe she just needs some time to think and i'm being paranoid. Should I text her? Or should I wait for her to text me? .-.

She may have a reason for not texting you, her phone died, she lost the charger, some family stuff going on, and the list can go on and on; but if you're getting paranoid about it, and you really want to go with texting (I think it's a bit impersonal, but that's me), you can just start up a conversation. It's only been two days after all xD

[samm.]

She may have a reason for not texting you, her phone died, she lost the charger, some family stuff going on, and the list can go on and on; but if you're getting paranoid about it, and you really want to go with texting (I think it's a bit impersonal, but that's me), you can just start up a conversation. It's only been two days after all xD

True, we text everyday though, sometimes for hours, others just a couple minutes a couple times a day, so you can see why two days worries me. Two days ago she confessed she liked me in a crush way, and I confessed that I had liked her in a crush way for awhile, so that's also why i'm worrying. I would call, but my phone was stepped on and cracked, something inside messed up so the calling is all messed up, and since my parents both have cells, they didn't see a need for a home phone, so we don't have one .-.

[Outlander]

Alright.

So I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. He is really sweet and kind, and we really like each other. For summer, he was going away for a few weeks because his parents were making him to go a camp like ever summer.
Before he left, he tried to kiss me; I (of course, being me) rejected the kiss because of not knowing how to kiss.
But that's not the issue; he's been emailing me in camp since he can't text or call, and two days ago he emails me saying that someone has a crush on him, and has been trying to hold his hand and stuff; that she thinks they're in love when in reality I'm his girlfriend and she knows it. He is really nice, and said he asked her to dance at one of the dances, go bowling with her, and watch the forth of July fireworks.
Well, in the ending of the email he said that he was doing it out of the kindness of his heart, but that he wasn't thinking straight and that the email I sent him earlier was a wake up call.

I've been talking to my friends, and they say he is cheating on me with her. I don't know what to believe, this si my first actual relationship but he sounds like he doesn't feel too guilty about it.

I emailed him again after he emailed me, and its been two days since he hasn't replied.
What should I do? ;v;

I'm not sure you should do anything. At least till he gets back from camp. Just wait till he answers the email and go from there.

[cautiousculpeo]

Guys I need help...

My best friends Nitsud and Nodnard came over to my house for my birthday party last night. We were all chilling and hanging out and Nodnarb kept looking at Nitsud and like nodding and smiling, or giving him the thumbs up. Or winking when Nitsud would sit next to me.
Nitsud gave me my birthday present, which was a singing card and 20 bucks, I said thanks and Nodnarb was like. "What was that!? Your supost to hug him!" So I was like awkward but I hugged Nitsud because he's my best friend.

I don't speak dude, but Im getting the hint that someone is trying to hook me and Nitsud up.... What do I do?

[thunderofthedrum]

Guys I need help...

My best friends Nitsud and Nodnard came over to my house for my birthday party last night. We were all chilling and hanging out and Nodnarb kept looking at Nitsud and like nodding and smiling, or giving him the thumbs up. Or winking when Nitsud would sit next to me.
Nitsud gave me my birthday present, which was a singing card and 20 bucks, I said thanks and Nodnarb was like. "What was that!? Your supost to hug him!" So I was like awkward but I hugged Nitsud because he's my best friend.

I don't speak dude, but Im getting the hint that someone is trying to hook me and Nitsud up.... What do I do?

For the love of Merlin just say Dustin and Brandon, it's driving me nuts to see gibberish.

It seems pretty obvious that one is encouraging the other to make a move with you. As hints go, this seems less like a tiny nudge and more like a blatant push.

How should we know what you should do? The question is do you LIKE Dustin, would you be open to maybe dating him.
If so, then next time Brandon is like "hug him!" you just.. do it.

If you are NOT interested, find a way to communicate that to them. That you prefer to stay just friends, or whatever your feelings are.

[garnet.]

Is it possible for someone who doesn't like hugs to not massively to hug someone they have a crush on, but they will do it sometimes anyway?