Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[8catpaws]

I need a little help. My best guy friend/ boyfriend (he told everyone including my mom that we were dating, but he didnt tell me) are now going to seperate high schools. I still text and email him, but I don't know how to cope with the fact that I will no longer be seeing him everyday. I am worried that he might start liking someone else but he is like as sweet as can be and has never done that before. I think I am over reacting since he never does that ever in his life. Any ideas for how to keep my mind at ease?

[cobalt.]

@Kitra;
ask him to go out on a date where you two can just hang out together and strengthen your relationship.
and remember to have faith in him, if he isn't the type who'd fall for another girl then trust him.
there's no point in making yourself worry for no reason c:
-hope this helps :)

[strawbaerry]

I told a guy I liked him and he said I was 'a bro' and he just wanted to stay friends. I think I've been brozoned.

[slowtown]

Okay, so there's this kid, let's call him I.

I don't like him at all. Not one bit. But I'm pretty sure he likes me, and that's a problem. PLUS, my friends keep on telling him that I like him, and it's only pushing him closer to me. AND. I saw him in my neighborhood the other day! I think he's following me .-.

[christine,]

I told a guy I liked him and he said I was 'a bro' and he just wanted to stay friends. I think I've been brozoned.

Ouch, I'm sorry.
I know what it's like to be friend zoned, it hurts like heck. It took me a whole to get over the guy, but I think I did it.
The best thing to do is to try not to let things get awkward. Don't being up anything close to relationships until everything had settled down a little ^^

[Zeee]

hey guys
anyone remember me?
probs not

anyways

so.. i'm starting to like b a little less
which is a good thing a guess C:

but then i figured out he considers us best friends like i do
and i'm one of the only people he trusts.

like... i was starting to get worried that he was starting to hate me
and that i was losing him as a best friend
but yeah here's a convo of ours:

me: if you're still awake, can i ask you something?
b: yeah sure
me: so... i just want to know... are you truly friends with me?
and if you are, just... why?
b: yeah we are friends. idk i don't really know why we just are
i guess i can trust you and i'm surprised you are even friends with me
because all i do is telling you all the -bleep- i'm sick of and stuff
but idk i just feel like i can trust you and i just find your personality
different from everybody else and that is a good thing
me: okay. idc if you tell me all of that btw; everyone else does.
so it's not like people telling me their problems is new to me :P
b: lol
me: and, like always, i'm a little worried that i'm already losing
one of my best friends.... i feel like despite what they say,
they're already starting to hate me
b: who?
me: just... someone. it shouldn't be too hard to figure out
b: ohh i see i think i know
me: it's not -insert other best friend's name here- though

-- and then he started to guess; he said like everyone that was in our class

after a bit of guessing... --

b: well who?
me: a person. i'm surprised you haven't figured it out.

-- more guessing... --

b: did they go to -insert school name here-?
me: yup and they were in our class

-- and even more guessing... --

b: omg who i'm not going to let it go
me: i seriously can't believe you didn't figure it out by now. guess once more

-- he guesses a few more times... --

me: wanna know who it is?
b: YESSSS plz
me: you
b: what ????? a what ?????
me: yeah
b: no. don't worry about that
me: i am though. you don't seem like the type of person
to be friends with someone like... me
b: we are the best around and nothing is going to bring us down
me: sigh...
b: hannah. i will be your friend even if we get picked on or
i get picked on i will always be your friend, and that's a fact jack
me: okay...
b: unless you make me really angry or start with drugs
then will be the only time i'm not your friend. remember, we're team mates


so... yeah...
idk what i really feel anymore
it's off and on
i like him like that but i don't
but then again i do

it's just
... confusing
grr

[ShaniaAker]

I have a crush on my best friends ex she doesnt know, no one does. I really like him but am really scared to tell her and him.

[Pongo.]

I'm so confused v.v
the guy I like (who likes me back) we have been talking A LOT lately, but he hasn't said I word to me since last night >.<

[thunderofthedrum]

I'm so confused v.v
the guy I like (who likes me back) we have been talking A LOT lately, but he hasn't said I word to me since last night >.<

Er... heaven forbid he's been busy?


This is directed to people in general - don't freak out so easily. It's so silly to be thinking of reasons like "omg did he meet someone prettier" and "what if he changed his mind" and "what if he's bored of me" when it's only been a few days. I mean, COME ON. Maybe the guy's been busy, grounded, distracted, out of town, working, etc. Heaven forbid he have a life outside of talking to you!

My boyfriend has texted me like once today and it was only to answer MY text. So? He's probably been busy, whether working or playing video games. He's allowed to do that; he's allowed to decide for himself when he will respond to a text. If I hadn't texted him first, he might've gone all day without texting me. And that's okay. It's healthy to be your own person. Heck, maybe he's been totally available all day, just hasn't felt like talking. There is always tomorrow. So RELAX, people. I see so many of you guys worrying and stressing when it's been only a few days, one day, even a few hours! People can't be glued to their phones 100% of the time - I personally wouldn't want to date someone who couldn't put their phone down; that's very dependent on electronics/technology, boring, even rude, and just plain unattractive. Neither would I want to be a needy, clingy person who starts texting "OMG R U OK" after one hour of silence.

So just.. whenever you guys feel like freaking out, BREATHE and be reasonable. Stress is not healthy, especially for such silly reasons.

[clarabow]

I don't have a real problem, I've never been in any sort of relationship to have one. I do have a crush on the one boy I've ever had a crush on, but we never talk and he's out of my league and there's no chance whatsoever for me to even be his friend, so that wouldn't be considered a problem either.

My real problem is loneliness. I'm an unattractive, boring loser with no friends and nothing to do but live in front of the computer. And I've lived my whole life being exactly that. For the first time ever, I want to have a boyfriend, not because it's the in thing or because all my friends have been in a relationship. By because for the first time in my life I want to know what it's like to be seen by someone else -anyone else- the way I want to be seen. Not the way everyone's interpreted me as being in the past every year of my life. I don't want to be the girl who only two guys have ever called pretty in five years, the girl who only is called pretty by her whole two friends and her family. I want to be the girl that a guy actually wants to get to know and hang around, not the girl he'll say looks like a dog or opens her eyes too wide. I want to be wanted, for the first time in my life, wanted by someone who actually isn't family. I wonder if that's just too much to ask because I'm no where near having this dream become a reality. People just don't like me.