Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[&& echo;]

i am bisexual.
i can't tell anyone about it. { besides internet friends }
it hurts. i am really attracted to women, but i have to keep it secret.
sometimes men really ick me out, but i have to suck it up, and pretend i just don't like them individually.
help me. ;u; helphelphelphelphelpppp mee.

[bola11]

All the boys I attract are really icky... It's always either the kids who get in trouble all the time or the kids who still pick their nose and eat their boogers x3 one guy licked his glasses (to clean them) while he was asking me out.
Hehe, my life is really funny.

[Lucid Dreamer]

I have a little problem...
One of my beasties, Callem, asked me to prom a year in advance, I didn't really get time to reply ((thank goodness!)) as it was in the middle of History class. And then this guy that I kinda like, Finn, has a major crush on me ((stalker like crush)) and he and Callem have not really being seeing eye to eye since they found out that each of them liked me. It has caused so many jealous arguments between them. And it is REALLY awkward for me, as EVERYONE is telling me to go out with Finn, he is popular, LOADS of girls like him, etc....but every time I hang out with Callem, he get REALLY jealous, and I just do not know what to do at the moment...
I don't like Callem in that way, at all...so yeah, please help!

[christine,]

{urrrggg

I just went on vacation and met the sweetest, cutest guy. He asked me out after spending a few days together, but I had to turn him down because, well, we live four states away. And I wouldn't be able to keep that long-distance relationship going.

And he hasn't stopped texting me for like, three days. I swear, he's so cute X3 Last night, he asked me the difference between salted and unsalted butter.

I feel bad, because I broke his heart, and he keeps coming back... I don't know what to do. I think I need a hug ;n;

[Vampyrum Spectrum]

*Hug*

I think you should just be his friend and keep talking to him. You're right in saying that a long distance relationship is probably not a good idea, but a long distance friendship can be great. My best friend lives a lot farther than 4 states away. X3

[LuvFinnick123]

omg gais..
my crush and i are going on the same crusie <3
haha i didnt even know!
im so excited...

Cruises are da bomb man. XD Maybe ask him if he wants to go see one of the shows they usually have after dinner? Or they usually have these amazing teen places with tons of fun trivia games, scavenger hunts, and a bunch of super cool stuff. It's soooooo much fun! What ship/cruise line are you going on?

haha thanks <3 i might just ask him <3
and im in the pacific dawn

Oooo!!! Have fun!!!

[Rated R]

i suddenly don't think my crush likes me
;_;
why don't i attract anyone

>> Don't worry, no one likes me...
I have not even dated a single person and all my friends have :c <<

I only even started to dabble in dating in college.
Didn't make out and such until 21.
Dude.
You people are so young, you have no idea.
You have your whole LIFE ahead of you and you are not defined by how many people you've dated or kissed.
I was the most 'behind' of all my friends and now I'm 'ahead' of many of them, as I'm semi-living with my boyfriend. Even so, I've had VERY FEW relationships. Like.. practically none, haha.
And holy cow were they just oozing with interest to hear all about it when I first told them. xD

i know, i just...hate myself for feeling this way
because i've always prided myself in being the different one;
not hopping on every boy that comes my way, not kissing, saving myself for someone
but like now, it's like secret jealousy and i honestly hate myself for thinking this.
i think all my positive energy to pull me through is like draining,
and i know i have college too, and i would like to wait till then,
but everything and everyone and society is catching up to me ;_;

[christine,]

*Hug*

I think you should just be his friend and keep talking to him. You're right in saying that a long distance relationship is probably not a good idea, but a long distance friendship can be great. My best friend lives a lot farther than 4 states away. X3

Thanks.
It's just hard D:

[~Dea~]

I have a little problem...
One of my beasties, Callem, asked me to prom a year in advance, I didn't really get time to reply ((thank goodness!)) as it was in the middle of History class. And then this guy that I kinda like, Finn, has a major crush on me ((stalker like crush)) and he and Callem have not really being seeing eye to eye since they found out that each of them liked me. It has caused so many jealous arguments between them. And it is REALLY awkward for me, as EVERYONE is telling me to go out with Finn, he is popular, LOADS of girls like him, etc....but every time I hang out with Callem, he get REALLY jealous, and I just do not know what to do at the moment...
I don't like Callem in that way, at all...so yeah, please help!

Girl, you need to go with what YOUR heart says! Don't go out with a guy if you don't have real feelings for him, it will only make your relationship miserable. And DEFINATELY don't go out with a guy JUST because he is 'popular', it will only end badly.

Do you really have feelings for Finn?

[fiddlesticks.]

{ Oh my lord noooo.

I hate being a lesbian. I just hate relationship issues. I should just remain Forever Alone.

I've liked this girl for a while now. She's just the cutest thing ever. { Let's just call her C. }

But the thing is, there's this other girl. { Let's call her D. } She's 12 almost 13, and I'm 15 almost 16. Well, we kissed yesterday and we're now dating.

Now C is straight, and has a boyfriend. I could respect that, and she has no idea that I liked her. Once I started dating D, C didn't even cross my mind. She truly does make me happy. I thought I was over C.

But then, the song that reminds me of C came on and all of a sudden, I got that familiar feeling in the pit of my stomach. And I was just like 'Noooooo.' Whywhywhywhywhy does this happen. ;n;

I just want to be happy with D, but we're keeping the relationship secret- not only because of the age difference, but because her father doesn't like gays. Though I personally don't care, it's her I'm worried about. I refuse to have anything happen to her because of my stupid mistakes.

But what do I do with C? She's a great friend, but I don't know how to get over her. Yesterday, I was even wondering to myself if I even wanted to get over her. I just want to be happy with D..

Hhhhhnnnnnrrrrrggggggg.~ .-. *Curls up in the corner and listens to Mayday Parade and BFMV* }