Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[itsdemonnxoxo]

I have been single for over maybe 6 months now, my ex boyfriend left me for somebody else, because we hardly ever got to see other. I seen him every weekend and he said it wasn't enough. I always get flirted with and ect, but nobody just so happens not to like me. I have a great personality and I just don't want to be singe anymore, it feels depressing. But, I can't find anybody who is interested into me. I get told a lot on a common bases that I'm "beautiful" "gorgeous" "pretty" "cute" and so on. ._. just I'm a single pringle. XD

[Madison143]

so, my best friend's brother wants to date me. i've agreed to go on a date with him today, under the condition that my best friend {his sister}, and his best friend go too.
he has agreed, and i'm going in a few hours.
problem?
i haven't told my parents. they know he wanted to date me, but they don't know that i finally agreed D:
and to make matters worse i'll seem like a hypocrite because i said i didn't want to date my bestie's bro.
omg help me please!!

Nobody seems to be replying to this, so I thought I should help you out. c:
Since you posted that about an hour ago, I'll assume you haven't left yet.

Go on the date, but don't call it that. Just call it an outing with friends, and insist that it's nothing more than that. If people call you a hypocrite, tell them that you're not interested in your best friends brother romantically, but you thought it would be fun to go out with a few friends for dinner, the movies, or whatever you're doing. If you do end up developing feelings for him, and somebody calls you out on it, tell them that people change. You may not have liked him before, or not wanted to like him before, but you couldn't help developing feelings for him. c:

Just go have fun tonight, and don't stress out. ^-^

thank you. <3
i did go, and it was okay. i was in the movies, but he tried to hold my hand and made me feel really uncomfortable. i kind of told him that it wasn't going to work for us to date, and he seemed okayish. :u
thing is... i feel so icky. ew. ew. ew.
unu;
and thing is, i went back and fourth with my feelings an awful lot in a short amount of time. i liked him for a bit, and kind of led him on, then i realized that i didn't like him when he started to try and KISS ME IN FRONT OF HIS SISTER - MY BESTIE ;A;
so then i didn't know what to tell him ... he asked if it would be weird if i kissed him when his sister wasn't there and i acted like it wouldn't be and like it would be okay {i dont know what the hell i was thinking- i think i was nervous and tired ;a;}
then i didn't want to hold his hand and he brought that up and i just dont know. ;u;
halp me please

If you don't like what he is doing, you should let him know that what he is doing isn't ok. IFf that doesn't work, maybe ask his sister for help explaining

[cobalt.]

I have been single for over maybe 6 months now, my ex boyfriend left me for somebody else, because we hardly ever got to see other. I seen him every weekend and he said it wasn't enough. I always get flirted with and ect, but nobody just so happens not to like me. I have a great personality and I just don't want to be singe anymore, it feels depressing. But, I can't find anybody who is interested into me. I get told a lot on a common bases that I'm "beautiful" "gorgeous" "pretty" "cute" and so on. ._. just I'm a single pringle. XD

i know exactly how you feel infinity.
i've been talking to this guy on facebook and he was flirting with me and everything, asking me if I'd give him a chance.
i told him i would since he was really sweet and cute in that awkward way. he used to like my cover photos, pics and my statuses.
then all of the sudden he started hanging out with his friends from his own school, going to a waterpark and writing cute flirty things to girls he hangs out with. and he stops talking to me, doesn't like any of my statuses, and he only liked one of my cover photos.
i sent him a sticker from my ipod, since we had a sticker war a couple days before :3, then he doesn't reply, he sees them but never writes back.
i went away and couldn't go online very much and yesterday when i went on facebook again, it said that he was in a relationship. :c

i don't understand why he did this to me. he was complimenting me, sending me goodmorning messages, then bam he's in a relationship with someone else and won't even talk to me.

...

meanwhile i had a guy who i also really liked but haven't talked to in a year, try to skype me but i didn't know since i wasn't on my computer. i've been trying to get a hold of him on skype messenger but he hasn't replied, its almost been a week. :/

[Rated R]

i suddenly don't think my crush likes me
;_;
why don't i attract anyone

[fiddlesticks.]

{ Oh my lord noooo.

I hate being a lesbian. I just hate relationship issues. I should just remain Forever Alone.

I've liked this girl for a while now. She's just the cutest thing ever. { Let's just call her C. }

But the thing is, there's this other girl. { Let's call her D. } She's 12 almost 13, and I'm 15 almost 16. Well, we kissed yesterday and we're now dating.

Now C is straight, and has a boyfriend. I could respect that, and she has no idea that I liked her. Once I started dating D, C didn't even cross my mind. She truly does make me happy. I thought I was over C.

But then, the song that reminds me of C came on and all of a sudden, I got that familiar feeling in the pit of my stomach. And I was just like 'Noooooo.' Whywhywhywhywhy does this happen. ;n;

I just want to be happy with D, but we're keeping the relationship secret- not only because of the age difference, but because her father doesn't like gays. Though I personally don't care, it's her I'm worried about. I refuse to have anything happen to her because of my stupid mistakes.

But what do I do with C? She's a great friend, but I don't know how to get over her. Yesterday, I was even wondering to myself if I even wanted to get over her. I just want to be happy with D..

Hhhhhnnnnnrrrrrggggggg.~ .-. *Curls up in the corner and listens to Mayday Parade and BFMV* }

[christine,]

{urrrggg

I just went on vacation and met the sweetest, cutest guy. He asked me out after spending a few days together, but I had to turn him down because, well, we live four states away. And I wouldn't be able to keep that long-distance relationship going.

And he hasn't stopped texting me for like, three days. I swear, he's so cute X3 Last night, he asked me the difference between salted and unsalted butter.

I feel bad, because I broke his heart, and he keeps coming back... I don't know what to do. I think I need a hug ;n;

[FallenSilent]

{ Oh my lord noooo.

I hate being a lesbian. I just hate relationship issues. I should just remain Forever Alone.

I've liked this girl for a while now. She's just the cutest thing ever. { Let's just call her C. }

But the thing is, there's this other girl. { Let's call her D. } She's 12 almost 13, and I'm 15 almost 16. Well, we kissed yesterday and we're now dating.

Now C is straight, and has a boyfriend. I could respect that, and she has no idea that I liked her. Once I started dating D, C didn't even cross my mind. She truly does make me happy. I thought I was over C.

But then, the song that reminds me of C came on and all of a sudden, I got that familiar feeling in the pit of my stomach. And I was just like 'Noooooo.' Whywhywhywhywhy does this happen. ;n;

I just want to be happy with D, but we're keeping the relationship secret- not only because of the age difference, but because her father doesn't like gays. Though I personally don't care, it's her I'm worried about. I refuse to have anything happen to her because of my stupid mistakes.

But what do I do with C? She's a great friend, but I don't know how to get over her. Yesterday, I was even wondering to myself if I even wanted to get over her. I just want to be happy with D..

Hhhhhnnnnnrrrrrggggggg.~ .-. *Curls up in the corner and listens to Mayday Parade and BFMV* }

This makes me want to hug you so badly.. >.< I get the relationship issues, I have 'em too. Horrid, correct? Ugh!

My suggestion is to kind of ignore it, have an open mind about it. C is probably really great, I can get that, but she's straight and has a boyfriend. Try to support that, and hang out with D a lot more. You deserve a good relationship, with your friend, and your girlfriend. It'll work out, I promise.

I'm really sorry if it doesn't make sense.. I'm slightly pressed for time. >.< I'll try to add later!

[fiddlesticks.]

{ @FallenSilent;; I know what you mean..

The thing is, D lives in a totally different town. C lives in the same town as me. So it's much more likely I'll see C, than D.

Also, D just went on a vacation and isn't coming back 'til August. :c

I hate everything.~ eue

}

[misty onyx;]

i suddenly don't think my crush likes me
;_;
why don't i attract anyone

>> Don't worry, no one likes me...
I have not even dated a single person and all my friends have :c <<

[thunderofthedrum]

i suddenly don't think my crush likes me
;_;
why don't i attract anyone

>> Don't worry, no one likes me...
I have not even dated a single person and all my friends have :c <<

I only even started to dabble in dating in college.
Didn't make out and such until 21.
Dude.
You people are so young, you have no idea.
You have your whole LIFE ahead of you and you are not defined by how many people you've dated or kissed.
I was the most 'behind' of all my friends and now I'm 'ahead' of many of them, as I'm semi-living with my boyfriend. Even so, I've had VERY FEW relationships. Like.. practically none, haha.
And holy cow were they just oozing with interest to hear all about it when I first told them. xD