Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[&& echo;]

so, my best friend's brother wants to date me. i've agreed to go on a date with him today, under the condition that my best friend {his sister}, and his best friend go too.
he has agreed, and i'm going in a few hours.
problem?
i haven't told my parents. they know he wanted to date me, but they don't know that i finally agreed D:
and to make matters worse i'll seem like a hypocrite because i said i didn't want to date my bestie's bro.
omg help me please!!

[kay.]

I. Am. The. Dumbest. Girl. Eva.

I am. I really am. Today, as my friend was away, instead of flirting with my crush, I was giving him advice and cheering him to ask out his crush >.< Help. I am helping my crush to be my enemies' boyfriend. How stupid of me. I'm kicking myself right now. I did try to discourage him slightly, the girl is mean to all his friends including me, and I know 5 boys asking her out right now. I pointed that out to him, but he shrugged it off.

I am so foolish :'(

Don't be so hard on yourself. We all make mistakes, and he will make one if he goes with her. Just show him what he will be missing, hang out with his best buddies,, make him jealous a bit.

Thanks :3 That shouldn't be that hard, one of his friends is my great friend for 5-6 years now, so I can hang with him. Most of his friends actually like me, so that would be easy. She isn't for him, he's cheerful while she is a plain diva, she'll ignore him 24/7, most of her bfs broke up with her because of that.

[Lioness626]

Okay. So this is new to me. I'm not one to share, but I'm in rough shape right now and I just need some advice. I'm a girl, a 'differnt,' 'wierd' girl with quite a few quirks and some serious mental issues that hinder my social life. But I've got a heart that continues to play sick tricks on me. I really liked a guy, still do, but today found out that he likes another girl who I know well and yeah. I live far from town, and they both see eachother more than I see him. But I mean, I just felt like something was differnt. I've been in two relationships, which may not seem like alot, but have learned a great deal from both. I just never seem to say the right thing, I'm alwyas tripping over myself and end up siting alone just so frustrated wth myself. I don't know what I'm looking for, just some advice and help perhaps. <3 Thank you all for taking the time to listen.

Same, one day you will find someone you click with, who you can either say the right things to, or will understand and stay. You are young, plenty of time to settle into relationships, and to begin to know what to say. Don't worry Leafy <3 ever need to talk I'm here

[bast,]

so, my best friend's brother wants to date me. i've agreed to go on a date with him today, under the condition that my best friend {his sister}, and his best friend go too.
he has agreed, and i'm going in a few hours.
problem?
i haven't told my parents. they know he wanted to date me, but they don't know that i finally agreed D:
and to make matters worse i'll seem like a hypocrite because i said i didn't want to date my bestie's bro.
omg help me please!!

Nobody seems to be replying to this, so I thought I should help you out. c:
Since you posted that about an hour ago, I'll assume you haven't left yet.

Go on the date, but don't call it that. Just call it an outing with friends, and insist that it's nothing more than that. If people call you a hypocrite, tell them that you're not interested in your best friends brother romantically, but you thought it would be fun to go out with a few friends for dinner, the movies, or whatever you're doing. If you do end up developing feelings for him, and somebody calls you out on it, tell them that people change. You may not have liked him before, or not wanted to like him before, but you couldn't help developing feelings for him. c:

Just go have fun tonight, and don't stress out. ^-^

[SeddieDeer]

Today I feel very special.
My prom is in a few weeks, and for it I am going in a dress that's been made to look just like "Belle" from disney's beauty and the beast.
I am in love with my best male friend. I have been for so many years, I'm so, SO afraid to tell him and lose what I have with him. Whenever i'm upset, hes always there for me. All the time. Today we was having a picnic in the park near my house because it was weather for it. All our friends gathered and we just had an amazing time. I was explaining to him that I want to dance like a Princess on the night. An actual waltz like the disney Princesses do. He said that I was a princess and that he will dance with me on that night.
He didn't know how to dance the waltz so I tried to show him and we danced in the park we was in and I wanted to dance forever ;_;
Oh brownies. You will never know how I see you far more then my best friend.
I love him so much its unbelievable. I'm so afraid to lose him as not only my friend, but my best friend and my big brother. I'm like a little sister to him.
I'm such a coward but I really don't know what to do. Why can't I just tell him? I try so hard.
On the phone.
Over facebook.
Over kik.
Face to face.
Whenever im with him.
And when I attempt to? My mind just goes blank as if I don''t know english. Gosh dash it.

[Vampyrum Spectrum]

I'd say you should totally tell him. If you're this in love with him, it's definitely worth the risk. ^^ The risk, if you think about it, isn't all that large. If he doesn't feel the same way, I have little doubt from what you said that he would change or not want to be as close to you. Plan when and how to tell him. If you're afraid, tell him first that you don't want what you have to say to him to change anything. In person is the most heartfelt and confident way to do it but it may be easier and betterly articulated if you did it on a social networking site. But the most important thing is to plan first what to say so you could maybe more easily say it. Just don't worry (as impossible as that seems) and take the risk! Think only positively about every outcome and you'll do fine.

[coriander.]

The boy that took me on a date last night is coming over and bringing me ice cream and is going to listen to me play piano now! eeeeeeee C:

[Sharpie ™]

I've got a problem. I really like this guy, Spencer, but he's my best friends older brother. My best friend, Isaac, found out and he nearly had a heart attack. He says it "bothers him" still that I like his brother even though he has known for two weeks. I don't know what I'm suppose to do. I love Isaac to pieces, but he shouldn't have a say in who I like. Right?

I need some advice.
Isaac has told "most of the guys he hangs out with" about me liking his brother. And he almost told Spencer. He says it's bothering him and that he needs to talk it out with friends. He's been kinda mean to me and he said that he's fine, but with him, that means he's not fine. I don't know what is up with him and he's avoiding talking to me. Any advice?

[SeddieDeer]

I've got a problem. I really like this guy, Spencer, but he's my best friends older brother. My best friend, Isaac, found out and he nearly had a heart attack. He says it "bothers him" still that I like his brother even though he has known for two weeks. I don't know what I'm suppose to do. I love Isaac to pieces, but he shouldn't have a say in who I like. Right?

I need some advice.
Isaac has told "most of the guys he hangs out with" about me liking his brother. And he almost told Spencer. He says it's bothering him and that he needs to talk it out with friends. He's been kinda mean to me and he said that he's fine, but with him, that means he's not fine. I don't know what is up with him and he's avoiding talking to me. Any advice?

Have you asked him whats going on? Have you asked him if he, himself likes you?
Hes your best friend. I have a male best friend too. I know how it feels to not want anything to make things awkward. TRUST ME I absolutely do. But chances are, he might like you.
People usually fall in love with their best friend. As I know how it feels- They are your best friend!
They are always there for you.
Always beside you. Always there in a flash..
Sometimes its hard for them to accept you like someone else, even if they don't see you in that way.
Sometimes they won't want you to be taken from them either way. Afraid they shall be cast aside.
Do you think their is a chance your best friend likes you? Think about it maybe? ^^

I'd say you should totally tell him. If you're this in love with him, it's definitely worth the risk. ^^ The risk, if you think about it, isn't all that large. If he doesn't feel the same way, I have little doubt from what you said that he would change or not want to be as close to you. Plan when and how to tell him. If you're afraid, tell him first that you don't want what you have to say to him to change anything. In person is the most heartfelt and confident way to do it but it may be easier and betterly articulated if you did it on a social networking site. But the most important thing is to plan first what to say so you could maybe more easily say it. Just don't worry (as impossible as that seems) and take the risk! Think only positively about every outcome and you'll do fine.

I am. I have liked him since when we first started Highschool. He became my best friend in the first year. In england, that's about five years now.
I have watched his heart get broken my a girl he used to be in love with, and try my very best to pick up all the pieces for him. He hasnt been with her now for a year and a half. But I just want to make him smile. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, I love him. I want him to smile and find someone who makes him smile as much as he makes me smile, you know?

I'm going to try and tell him face to face. My prom is soon. Maybe I'll get up all my strength and try and tell him then.

[iWonder]

Way to go Seddie!!

My problem is: So A. And I have crushed on Eachother for about four years now. He and I are not yet 16 and well some times when feelings get too strong between us we take a sort of "break" where we just spend a few weeks or a month not liking Eachother in a crush sense. I was thinking I should take a break but I don't know, could doing so hurt our friendship? If you want to know more about him and help me further with him please PM me.