Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[serendipitydaring]

im sorry to interrupt, but i really need some advice


i mentioned previously that the guy i liked who was my ex rejected me when i tried to get him back

I got over him. It took awhile, but i got over him. I even started crushing on someone else. he was no longer on my mind.

BUT THEN LAST NIGHT HE TEXTED ME

and was like, talking about how he was gunna date me when i was sixteen and stuffs and marriage and babies and im like "HOLD UP, HOLD UP. WHAT THE HELL" and hes like well you like me blahblahblah and im like, "NONONONONONONONO, YOU CANT DO THIS. I JUST GOT OVER YOU."

and hes like, "oh ive had this plan for over three years"

"WELL IF YOU TOLD ME OF THIS STUPID 'PLAN' I WOULDVE WAITED FOR YOU"


now im really upset and i dont know what to do

[bawnbawn.]

Wait, he talked about marriage after breaking up with you? That's quite ridiculous if you ask me. You said that you started crushing on someone else... explain that to your ex. Mention that he had/has no rights in making up plans as big as marriage without your consent at all. Say that what you two had is gone and you've moved on. This guy sounds like a douche, no offence. I know it may be hard and you might feel confused, but just stay strong and hold tight, it's bound to blow over sooner or later C:

[thunderofthedrum]

im sorry to interrupt, but i really need some advice

i mentioned previously that the guy i liked who was my ex rejected me when i tried to get him back

I got over him. It took awhile, but i got over him. I even started crushing on someone else. he was no longer on my mind.

BUT THEN LAST NIGHT HE TEXTED ME

and was like, talking about how he was gunna date me when i was sixteen and stuffs and marriage and babies and im like "HOLD UP, HOLD UP. WHAT THE HELL" and hes like well you like me blahblahblah and im like, "NONONONONONONONO, YOU CANT DO THIS. I JUST GOT OVER YOU."

and hes like, "oh ive had this plan for over three years"

"WELL IF YOU TOLD ME OF THIS STUPID 'PLAN' I WOULDVE WAITED FOR YOU"

now im really upset and i dont know what to do

That is RIDICULOUS of him. If you're not even 16 YET, how can he be possibly talking about marriage and kids?And why would he have a plan of waiting until you are sixteen anyway? And he rejected you - he didn't say let's take a break until we're 16, he straight up rejected you. If he really had a plan and cared about you then I don't think he would do this. Who cares how long he has supposedly had this plan? He sounds like he's changing his mind a bunch and if he doesn't even know if he wants to date you, then don't even THINK about marriage and beyond!

Tell him he had his chance, in my opinion. Tell him if he had a plan he should've told you a heck of a lot sooner and NOT spring it out of nowhere just now. Tell him that you're over him. Don't make it easy for him to get you back; it sounds like he already wasted some of your time and is about to waste more of it now. I agree with DJ Aden - to reject you and then be talking about marriage and HIS plans for you guys is ridiculous and sounds like someone not worth your time.

[TailsDovah]

The guy I've been dating for over a year and three months now has picked up a new habit.
Staying all night and most of the day at his friend Ashley's (Yes, it's a girl.) and acting like I don't exist when I want to talk to him.
Then acting like everything is ok when we do hang out.
I don't know what to do, I've told him time and time again that it hurts when he does that,
but it's like he doesn't even care lately.
He spends more time at her house with her and her brother than he does with me lately.
Before anyone suggests that I go hang with all of them,
I'm not allowed to go to her house.
I'm about to explode right now, I'm so angry, frustrated, and hurt.

[audball(:]

Have you tried talking to him about it?

[TailsDovah]

Have you tried talking to him about it?

If you are referring to me,
yes, I have.
He just does it again and doesn't seem to care.
If I mention that I'm hurt though, he just tries to pull the "Well I'm hurt that you think that." card every time.

[audball(:]

Hm....do you know Ashley? Like as a friend? Maybe talk to her..

[TailsDovah]

Hm....do you know Ashley? Like as a friend? Maybe talk to her..

Yes, were friends but I'm not allowed to go to her house anymore.

[audball(:]

Maybe you can try to talk to her. If she really is your friend she wouldnt be flirting or anything with your long term boyfriend. If you have her number or can contact her maybe you should talk to her

[TailsDovah]

Maybe you can try to talk to her. If she really is your friend she wouldnt be flirting or anything with your long term boyfriend. If you have her number or can contact her maybe you should talk to her

I would, but she doesn't have a phone or anything.
I don'tthink the problem is her though, because the last time we talked, she had a boyfriend too.
The problem is that my boyfriend is putting her first..
I don't know, I've been thinking about just breaking up with him because he just doesn't act like I'm important to him anymore..