Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Sweetart]

I would like to ask everyone what they think is the appropriate age to date.Personally, I think it's 14 or 15. :3

[Tiger;]

I would like to ask everyone what they think is the appropriate age to date.Personally, I think it's 14 or 15. :3

Personally, I have to agree with you there.

[bola11]

Yes, I agree.

[thє dσctσr]

Omg guys. So I dont know any of you, but I'm for real about to to dump my problems on you. I'm going to apologize ahead of time, because this is seriously going to be so long and I'm probably going to cry while I'm typing this, but I really need to get this out. its just as much for me as it is for you. So read if you want, but I wont be offended if you dont. Feedback or comments would be appreciated, and don't worry. I can take anything you have to say, so please tell me what you really think. Don't just be like "I'm so sorry, youre completely the victim, blah blah blah." I really need honesty right now <3

-Snip-

Now,
We had a really big fall out, and I hate this. I really do, and I never wish this on anyone. It is literally the worst feeling anyone can ever have. The part that hurts me the most though, is that he still cares for me. I know he does, and theres always going to be a little part of me hanging on to that hoping he'll turn around and come back to me. I would love to reject him if that ever did happen, but I dont know what I would do. It would hurt to much to send him away again, but I feel like I'll never be able to trust him ever again. About anything really, and Its going to take a lot to build my trust up again. Maybe if he tries that hard I'll see he really likes me, but I dont know right now. All I know is that I hope its hurting him atleast half as much as its hurting me to see me going on with my life and trying to move on. Because yes, I'm sad and i probably will be for a few more weeks, but I'm trying. I'm strong, and I'm never going to let him break me. I have decided that I'm going to be super nice to him. Act like I'm his best friend, and just try to make him and TJ uncomfortable. I'm probably just being vengeful, but honestly I miss being his friend and if I over compensate about being friends then maybe we actually will start hanging out and being friends again. I just dont want to have to wait a long time for us to be friends again because of Tj's stupid rules, because I KNOW that I'm part of them. I'm really impatient and its hard, but we'll see how things go.

Edit;; We're going Paintballing this saturday, and I'm really excited about it! I decided that I'm going to follow him around and shoot the crap outta him! Make him feel what I felt! GIRL POWAH!

This sounds like the problem I had with my best friend Jourdan and his girlfriend Ari.

Let me say this first, I was friends with Jourdan before he dated Ari, so this is why it makes mad. I was also in love with the boy, but never had the guts to tell him. We cuddled once or twice, but that's it besides best friend stuff.

So mainly Ari thought I was competition, but I was one of her friends, and never would do that. So, right away, she made a point that he was hers.

Month later, they are still together. Now, here are the rules.
- No hugging.
- No touching.
- No talking without her around.
- No comforting.
- No hanging out.

Well, what the heck. He's my bestfriend, so of course he came over behind her back. We skyped. A lot.

Lets just say they have been together since February, and I don't talk to him anymore. I miss him, but I knew if I kept holding on, I was going to be disappointed in the end.

[greysilence]

I would like to ask everyone what they think is the appropriate age to date.Personally, I think it's 14 or 15. :3

I, personally, would have to agree, as those are my thoughts as well. However, everyone has different opinions, and certain people feel ready to date at different ages. It just depends on who you are and what your maturity level is I suppose.

[jayus]

I think too many guys like me. Or I'm just totally stoopid.

- 1 guy admitted to my friend that he likes me (she told me)
- Another keeps trying to keep all of my attention on him
- My brother keeps hinting that this other guy likes me
- This one kid keeps asking me to take my glasses off so that he can check my eye colour (my eyes change colour. Apparently they were more green today, and blue with brown tints yesterday.)
- Another guy actually asked me out.

I only like this one guy though, and he's in England right now. I'm not even sure if he likes me back.

How do I deal with the other guys that are chasing after me?
((I'm not even allowed to date yet. Not until at least 15.))

[button.]

This sounds like the problem I had with my best friend Jourdan and his girlfriend Ari.

Let me say this first, I was friends with Jourdan before he dated Ari, so this is why it makes mad. I was also in love with the boy, but never had the guts to tell him. We cuddled once or twice, but that's it besides best friend stuff.

So mainly Ari thought I was competition, but I was one of her friends, and never would do that. So, right away, she made a point that he was hers.

Month later, they are still together. Now, here are the rules.
- No hugging.
- No touching.
- No talking without her around.
- No comforting.
- No hanging out.

Well, what the heck. He's my bestfriend, so of course he came over behind her back. We skyped. A lot.

Lets just say they have been together since February, and I don't talk to him anymore. :/ I miss him, but I knew if I kept holding on, I was going to be disappointed in the end.

I'm sorry about that :/ I don't understand why girls try to give their boyfriend "Rules", because a relationship with that much lack of trust isn't going to work out in the end. It might be too late, but telling him how you feel might turn things around. I mean, it might also make things worse with the whole jealous girlfriend thing, but it seems to me like thats your last hope unless theyre going to break up or something

[thє dσctσr]

I'm sorry about that I don't understand why girls try to give their boyfriend "Rules", because a relationship with that much lack of trust isn't going to work out in the end. It might be too late, but telling him how you feel might turn things around. I mean, it might also make things worse with the whole jealous girlfriend thing, but it seems to me like thats your last hope unless theyre going to break up or something

Nahh, I have a girlfriend now. She's all I could ever ask for ♥

[.yuanfen]

I would like to ask everyone what they think is the appropriate age to date.Personally, I think it's 14 or 15. :3

I, personally, would have to agree, as those are my thoughts as well. However, everyone has different opinions, and certain people feel ready to date at different ages. It just depends on who you are and what your maturity level is I suppose.

Agreed; however, I feel like 15 or 16 would be more adequate. The age I personally don't agree with is dating in middle school or elementary school...

[Tainted~Wings]

Ugh my biggest crush is asking me out and i don't know what to say. DX! I feel horrible cause his bro is a total weiner! So i told him i would tell him later. But what should i do?