Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Ninja Jedi]

LOL I made my boyfriend watch it.
He pulled out Willow for us to watch (neither of us had seen it) and didn't mind it so I figured The Princess Bride would be fine too.
I think he enjoyed it; he appreciates things that are ironic, witty, good storytelling, etc.

Didn't really do much for his birthday, and I felt terrible about it. He never really celebrated his birthday much but I did make cupcakes for him. It was a Sunday evening and I wasn't able to stay the night, I was stressed about my classes, and I was physically in quite discomfort due to cramps that day so I wasn't much fun I'm afraid.

For mine, he took me out to eat and then took me to Target (love Target) and insisted on me picking out a few things (clothes) for him to pay for, which was incredibly sweet.

I just made Outlander watch Willow.
(he liked it)

[christine,]

I'm blushing so hard right now it's not even funny.
My best friend and I sit next to my crush that we call Coconut in third hour (it's a long story...), and me and him were talking for a little while. And hen after we are done talking, the worst thing happened. My best friend starting humming. I'm sure he didn't hear it, tht god, because she was humming 'He loves you, yah, yeah, yeah' by the Beatles. God help me XD

[Midna Kidwell]

Ok, I play this game called Horse Academy (Best game ever!) and I let a guy train my horse. Let's call him..Fred He's been nice to me for a long time, so I trust him.
So I went to "Fred's" facebook profile to message him and ask him how my horse is, and DAY-UM!! He is cute as heck lol xD
I think for a few minutes about how nice he's been to me, and then how cute he is, and suddenly he's all I can think about..
I told a couple of my friends and one of them keeps calling me Mrs.-insert fred's last name here- in chat, and now a lot of people now I like "Fred", and I'm scared he'll find out by someone telling him other than me, but I have no clue how to say it, I mean, we know each other mainly on a game, we don't know each other in real life, and I don't think he knows too much about me...
But..um. Yeah..If you have any advice or anything, please PM me or post here

[Outlander]

Ok, I play this game called Horse Academy (Best game ever!) and I let a guy train my horse. Let's call him..Fred He's been nice to me for a long time, so I trust him.
So I went to "Fred's" facebook profile to message him and ask him how my horse is, and DAY-UM!! He is cute as heck lol xD
I think for a few minutes about how nice he's been to me, and then how cute he is, and suddenly he's all I can think about..
I told a couple of my friends and one of them keeps calling me Mrs.-insert fred's last name here- in chat, and now a lot of people now I like "Fred", and I'm scared he'll find out by someone telling him other than me, but I have no clue how to say it, I mean, we know each other mainly on a game, we don't know each other in real life, and I don't think he knows too much about me...
But..um. Yeah..If you have any advice or anything, please PM me or post here

If you intend to attempt to enter a relationship with Fred, i'd be cautious. You shouldn't enter into an online relationship lightly. However, if you really like him, you should start talking outside of games, ext. Establish more communication other than horses.

[greysilence]

Ok, I play this game called Horse Academy (Best game ever!) and I let a guy train my horse. Let's call him..Fred He's been nice to me for a long time, so I trust him.
So I went to "Fred's" facebook profile to message him and ask him how my horse is, and DAY-UM!! He is cute as heck lol xD
I think for a few minutes about how nice he's been to me, and then how cute he is, and suddenly he's all I can think about..
I told a couple of my friends and one of them keeps calling me Mrs.-insert fred's last name here- in chat, and now a lot of people now I like "Fred", and I'm scared he'll find out by someone telling him other than me, but I have no clue how to say it, I mean, we know each other mainly on a game, we don't know each other in real life, and I don't think he knows too much about me...
But..um. Yeah..If you have any advice or anything, please PM me or post here

If you intend to attempt to enter a relationship with Fred, i'd be cautious. You shouldn't enter into an online relationship lightly. However, if you really like him, you should start talking outside of games, ext. Establish more communication other than horses.

I agree with Outlander. You also need to make sure you communicate safely if you decide to take it out of the horse game. You don't know him in real life, and he could be some 60-year-old woman. Just make sure you're very careful and cautious.

[Midna Kidwell]

My friend that was making fun of me for it, did it in front of "Fred", and now I think he thinks I'm a weird creep :/
He likes the "friend" that was making fun of me, and now I think he likes her more for it .-.
My life has been turned upside down, everyone hates me. Thanks for the help

[Gloomiie]

I was actually trying not to post in this thread. But I need some help. My situation is odd. So, I've known this girl for 5 years. Though I've known her for a long time, I haven't actually gotten to know her until this year. I liked her my sophomore year (I just graduated this year) and she was a freshman. I'm really awkward, and when I went to ask her out, I wasn't ready and scared her off. Last year, my junior year, we didn't talk, or anything. But since her friends and my friends left the school, we naturally hung out. We started talking and things were getting better. I made stuff for her on her birthday, and by valentines day this year I was ready to ask her out again. When I went to do so, she said she was busy with school, and just didn't have time for a bf. So I waited. I waited until Prom. This is when I asked her out again. It had been a few months since I had asked last, and school was winding down. This time she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. She had been in a bad relationship in 8th grade, just before freshman year, where her bf cheated on her. I text her at least once or twice a week, and we're still friends, but I am staying awake in bed until, some nights, 3:00AM thinking about her. A lot of people have said to just forget her, that she obviously doesn't want anything to do with me, But I want to hear it from her. I would like to ask her what she feels and if she believes there is a chance, or whats stopping her from saying yes, but I'm not sure thats the best approach. Any advice?

[Lady Sabine]

I was actually trying not to post in this thread. But I need some help. My situation is odd. So, I've known this girl for 5 years. Though I've known her for a long time, I haven't actually gotten to know her until this year. I liked her my sophomore year (I just graduated this year) and she was a freshman. I'm really awkward, and when I went to ask her out, I wasn't ready and scared her off. Last year, my junior year, we didn't talk, or anything. But since her friends and my friends left the school, we naturally hung out. We started talking and things were getting better. I made stuff for her on her birthday, and by valentines day this year I was ready to ask her out again. When I went to do so, she said she was busy with school, and just didn't have time for a bf. So I waited. I waited until Prom. This is when I asked her out again. It had been a few months since I had asked last, and school was winding down. This time she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. She had been in a bad relationship in 8th grade, just before freshman year, where her bf cheated on her. I text her at least once or twice a week, and we're still friends, but I am staying awake in bed until, some nights, 3:00AM thinking about her. A lot of people have said to just forget her, that she obviously doesn't want anything to do with me, But I want to hear it from her. I would like to ask her what she feels and if she believes there is a chance, or whats stopping her from saying yes, but I'm not sure thats the best approach. Any advice?

If she says she's not ready, she's probably right.
There's also a good chance you've been friendzoned (don't be mad; you've datingzoned her which is just as bad). You might want to accept her as a good friend and let any romantic feelings develop mutually instead of pressuring her into a relationship immediately. Chances are if she does have any interest, the more you push the more likely it is you'll break something between you two.

[Gloomiie]

I was actually trying not to post in this thread. But I need some help. My situation is odd. So, I've known this girl for 5 years. Though I've known her for a long time, I haven't actually gotten to know her until this year. I liked her my sophomore year (I just graduated this year) and she was a freshman. I'm really awkward, and when I went to ask her out, I wasn't ready and scared her off. Last year, my junior year, we didn't talk, or anything. But since her friends and my friends left the school, we naturally hung out. We started talking and things were getting better. I made stuff for her on her birthday, and by valentines day this year I was ready to ask her out again. When I went to do so, she said she was busy with school, and just didn't have time for a bf. So I waited. I waited until Prom. This is when I asked her out again. It had been a few months since I had asked last, and school was winding down. This time she said she wasn't ready for a relationship. She had been in a bad relationship in 8th grade, just before freshman year, where her bf cheated on her. I text her at least once or twice a week, and we're still friends, but I am staying awake in bed until, some nights, 3:00AM thinking about her. A lot of people have said to just forget her, that she obviously doesn't want anything to do with me, But I want to hear it from her. I would like to ask her what she feels and if she believes there is a chance, or whats stopping her from saying yes, but I'm not sure thats the best approach. Any advice?

If she says she's not ready, she's probably right.
There's also a good chance you've been friendzoned (don't be mad; you've datingzoned her which is just as bad). You might want to accept her as a good friend and let any romantic feelings develop mutually instead of pressuring her into a relationship immediately. Chances are if she does have any interest, the more you push the more likely it is you'll break something between you two.

thank you! that helps a lot.

[Kisiel]

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My relationship is falling apart.

We're falling apart

We've been together for so long, we've been through so much. I love him. I don't want to lose him. I can't lose him. He's my best friend, my boyfriend and my life. He's as close to perfect as you can get-- I'll do anything to make him stay, but I just don't know what to do. I'm seeing him in about an hour and I'm absolutely terrified of what's gonna happen...

I would appreciate some advice. What can I do to fix everything...?