Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[vvoland]

/shudder. First time I've posted here for advice.

Alright.

There is this guy I've known since second grade. I know he likes me.

But I absolutely can't stand him. He's immature, perverted, annoying, idiotic, and brainwashed to believe anything in his religion is true. ((i e: gay people will go to hell. )) He is a compulsive liar as well.

I've just been ignoring him completely. When he talks to me, I don't answer.
But he still looks at me and says "That blonde stereo-type is totally not true. The smartest person I know is blonde."

What is an effective way to make this person go away? I don't care about hurting his feelings. At all.

[greysilence]

/shudder. First time I've posted here for advice.

Alright.

There is this guy I've known since second grade. I know he likes me.

But I absolutely can't stand him. He's immature, perverted, annoying, idiotic, and brainwashed to believe anything in his religion is true. ((i e: gay people will go to hell. )) He is a compulsive liar as well.

I've just been ignoring him completely. When he talks to me, I don't answer.
But he still looks at me and says "That blonde stereo-type is totally not true. The smartest person I know is blonde."

What is an effective way to make this person go away? I don't care about hurting his feelings. At all.

Have you flat out told him to leave you alone? Just get your point across very strongly that you don't like him and want him to leave you alone.

[Tossing Spades]

I'd like some advice on how to keep busy. I'm usually very good at this sort of thing, going out with friends and cleaning, playing guitar and what not. My beau is up in the mountains for only five more days, but I can't get my mind off him. I'm so exited for him to come back, this week feels like it's dragging on forever! Any good ways to help not miss him for the last few days he's gone? Thanks guys^^

[greysilence]

I'd like some advice on how to keep busy. I'm usually very good at this sort of thing, going out with friends and cleaning, playing guitar and what not. My beau is up in the mountains for only five more days, but I can't get my mind off him. I'm so exited for him to come back, this week feels like it's dragging on forever! Any good ways to help not miss him for the last few days he's gone? Thanks guys^^

Try reading some books, I've found that they're good for distracting me. :)

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Merp. I can't decide if I wanna post about my....er, sitaution or not. I handled it, but I still wanna get it off my chest. Just, asdfghjkl.

[Lioness626]

exams are nearly over, then I can think about relationships again. will have all summer. I can't wait for the chance to do something, other than revise

[Rated R]

i'm happy. because all the doubts i had earlier have been washed away.
i was afraid he was avoiding me, his texts were shorter.
but then yesterday, he sounded the same.
he's on vacation with his parents, and being an only child he has to 'sneak text' around them.
so my doubts are gone; i was afraid he might have had a change in thought or something [for what reason i would have no clue]
but i'm happy now.
cause i know its just life.

/i hate it when i overthink things because i usually don't. i'm booksmart but not relationship/peoplesmart at all, hahaha/

[Pure Dragon]

Everyone should read this. It's truly amazing.

Lately I've been fascinated with body language. How we can subconsciously say things to others people and how we enterpret it amazes me. When I help people with things concerning how do I tell if he likes me? and how can I drop little hints that I like him without flat out saying it? I say use positive body language. Make eye contact from across the room and smile. Do little things for him that only he will notice at first. Same works for figuring out if a guy likes you.

Last night a read a book called Guys Are Waffles, Girls Are Spaghetti. It describes how girls and guys think differently. Girls think like spaghetti. Trying to follow one noodle is very hard because all the other noodles touch and tangle around each other. This is the way girls see life, everything has something to do with another some way. Guys think like waffles. Everything in life is in neat little boxes that don't overlap. Thats why when girls talk they have a hard time following. Because they have to jump from box to box faster than they usually do. The males brain also has less connections between the left and right side than girls. Typically this is why girls can multitask better than guys, and why their conversations are more like spaghetti.

I'm only on the fifth chapter and I feel like I know so much about girls and guys alike. I can relate to the things it's talking about and it's super cool! If anything was unclear about it, please pm me. It's been really helpful to me and I want it to help you guys out too!!!

That's pretty cool! However, it isn't a catch all. I myself am a guy, and, if you talk to me, my speech is usually very quick and erratic. I jump all over the place. So, while it may be useful, it isn't the rule.

Yes, I know. There are some innacurate things about it. Everyone is different, so you cannot pinpoint it down to one specific category how guys and girls are. It does have some great points! I can honestly say that I don't think I'm much of a "spaghetti" talker. When I'm on one subject I tend to stay on that one. And everything is not all 100% connected in life. But in the general idea it helps you to understand that girls and guys are so alike, and yet so different. It's really hard for me to explain simply.. But your right, this is not foolproof. It's advice that I found very helpful, and I would like to help people with it too[:

(Randomly here because I was stalking my little sister's posts xD)

Cool! I read a book like that once. I didn't get to read the whole thing, but oh well. Another thing you guys can look into is MBTI personality types, that'll really help you understand a person and is insanely accuate in most cases I've seen. Of course there are little things off because we're all unique, but if you combine those types with Ennegram types and with the different brain structers of guys and girls, you can figure out a lot.

[P o m]

Listening to my favorite song.

Wishing so hard I could just sing it to her.

[&& echo;]

Mkay, I could really use help. ;x;
So, my best friend's brother really likes me. I like him too, but the problem is... Hes my best friend's brother.
I don't know what to do! I do not want to compromise my friend's and mine friendship over a guy, especially since hes her brother, but I really like this guy...
I haven't really talked to my friend {K}, about whats going on, mostly because I don't want to make her uncomfortable. (She doesn't really know that we like each-other, as far as I know)
What do I do? I thought about trying to be able to date the guy {N}, and stay friends with K, but she'll probably get weirded out by me dating her brother..
What a mess. xc

[greysilence]

Mkay, I could really use help. ;x;
So, my best friend's brother really likes me. I like him too, but the problem is... Hes my best friend's brother.
I don't know what to do! I do not want to compromise my friend's and mine friendship over a guy, especially since hes her brother, but I really like this guy...
I haven't really talked to my friend {K}, about whats going on, mostly because I don't want to make her uncomfortable. (She doesn't really know that we like each-other, as far as I know)
What do I do? I thought about trying to be able to date the guy {N}, and stay friends with K, but she'll probably get weirded out by me dating her brother..
What a mess. xc

Maybe just hints at what's going on and see what her reaction is. Or maybe just ask, "What would happen if I dated your brother?" If she has a bad reaction, just laugh it off. If she has a good one, then let her know some of the stuff that's been going on. Hope this helps. :)