Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Rated R]

thanks for that;
i just don't want to ruin a friendship, that's all,
so that'd probably be the one thing stopping me.

and also, he lives a couple hours away. he's admitted (on an ask.fm) that he wouldn't mind a long distance relationship and he lives in a city i visit often: only about 6 minutes away from my cousins. we'll be going there in the summer, and i am debating telling him over text/skype or waiting until i see him to tell him. i feel like face to face would be better, but it could be a month or two before we go and therefore i don't want to be put in the "friend zone" because i waited too long.
i'm just nervous of rejection. the only other time i asked someone i was rejected and our friendship just died.
i don't want that to happen.

[greysilence]

thanks for that;
i just don't want to ruin a friendship, that's all,
so that'd probably be the one thing stopping me.

and also, he lives a couple hours away. he's admitted (on an ask.fm) that he wouldn't mind a long distance relationship and he lives in a city i visit often: only about 6 minutes away from my cousins. we'll be going there in the summer, and i am debating telling him over text/skype or waiting until i see him to tell him. i feel like face to face would be better, but it could be a month or two before we go and therefore i don't want to be put in the "friend zone" because i waited too long.
i'm just nervous of rejection. the only other time i asked someone i was rejected and our friendship just died.
i don't want that to happen.

Face to face would be better. If it was over text, then he might doubt it. He might think you're kidding or that a friend took your phone. If you do it in person, then he'll be able to see and hear you and know you're serious. Just let him know that you wanted to tell him sooner, but you wanted to do it in person.

[provolone]

Everyone should read this. It's truly amazing.

Lately I've been fascinated with body language. How we can subconsciously say things to others people and how we enterpret it amazes me. When I help people with things concerning how do I tell if he likes me? and how can I drop little hints that I like him without flat out saying it? I say use positive body language. Make eye contact from across the room and smile. Do little things for him that only he will notice at first. Same works for figuring out if a guy likes you.

Last night a read a book called Guys Are Waffles, Girls Are Spaghetti. It describes how girls and guys think differently. Girls think like spaghetti. Trying to follow one noodle is very hard because all the other noodles touch and tangle around each other. This is the way girls see life, everything has something to do with another some way. Guys think like waffles. Everything in life is in neat little boxes that don't overlap. Thats why when girls talk they have a hard time following. Because they have to jump from box to box faster than they usually do. The males brain also has less connections between the left and right side than girls. Typically this is why girls can multitask better than guys, and why their conversations are more like spaghetti.

I'm only on the fifth chapter and I feel like I know so much about girls and guys alike. I can relate to the things it's talking about and it's super cool! If anything was unclear about it, please pm me. It's been really helpful to me and I want it to help you guys out too!!!

[Outlander]

Everyone should read this. It's truly amazing.

Lately I've been fascinated with body language. How we can subconsciously say things to others people and how we enterpret it amazes me. When I help people with things concerning how do I tell if he likes me? and how can I drop little hints that I like him without flat out saying it? I say use positive body language. Make eye contact from across the room and smile. Do little things for him that only he will notice at first. Same works for figuring out if a guy likes you.

Last night a read a book called Guys Are Waffles, Girls Are Spaghetti. It describes how girls and guys think differently. Girls think like spaghetti. Trying to follow one noodle is very hard because all the other noodles touch and tangle around each other. This is the way girls see life, everything has something to do with another some way. Guys think like waffles. Everything in life is in neat little boxes that don't overlap. Thats why when girls talk they have a hard time following. Because they have to jump from box to box faster than they usually do. The males brain also has less connections between the left and right side than girls. Typically this is why girls can multitask better than guys, and why their conversations are more like spaghetti.

I'm only on the fifth chapter and I feel like I know so much about girls and guys alike. I can relate to the things it's talking about and it's super cool! If anything was unclear about it, please pm me. It's been really helpful to me and I want it to help you guys out too!!!

That's pretty cool! However, it isn't a catch all. I myself am a guy, and, if you talk to me, my speech is usually very quick and erratic. I jump all over the place. So, while it may be useful, it isn't the rule.

[provolone]

Everyone should read this. It's truly amazing.

Lately I've been fascinated with body language. How we can subconsciously say things to others people and how we enterpret it amazes me. When I help people with things concerning how do I tell if he likes me? and how can I drop little hints that I like him without flat out saying it? I say use positive body language. Make eye contact from across the room and smile. Do little things for him that only he will notice at first. Same works for figuring out if a guy likes you.

Last night a read a book called Guys Are Waffles, Girls Are Spaghetti. It describes how girls and guys think differently. Girls think like spaghetti. Trying to follow one noodle is very hard because all the other noodles touch and tangle around each other. This is the way girls see life, everything has something to do with another some way. Guys think like waffles. Everything in life is in neat little boxes that don't overlap. Thats why when girls talk they have a hard time following. Because they have to jump from box to box faster than they usually do. The males brain also has less connections between the left and right side than girls. Typically this is why girls can multitask better than guys, and why their conversations are more like spaghetti.

I'm only on the fifth chapter and I feel like I know so much about girls and guys alike. I can relate to the things it's talking about and it's super cool! If anything was unclear about it, please pm me. It's been really helpful to me and I want it to help you guys out too!!!

That's pretty cool! However, it isn't a catch all. I myself am a guy, and, if you talk to me, my speech is usually very quick and erratic. I jump all over the place. So, while it may be useful, it isn't the rule.

Yes, I know. There are some innacurate things about it. Everyone is different, so you cannot pinpoint it down to one specific category how guys and girls are. It does have some great points! I can honestly say that I don't think I'm much of a "spaghetti" talker. When I'm on one subject I tend to stay on that one. And everything is not all 100% connected in life. But in the general idea it helps you to understand that girls and guys are so alike, and yet so different. It's really hard for me to explain simply.. But your right, this is not foolproof. It's advice that I found very helpful, and I would like to help people with it too[:

[Ninja Jedi]

Everyone should read this. It's truly amazing.

Lately I've been fascinated with body language. How we can subconsciously say things to others people and how we enterpret it amazes me. When I help people with things concerning how do I tell if he likes me? and how can I drop little hints that I like him without flat out saying it? I say use positive body language. Make eye contact from across the room and smile. Do little things for him that only he will notice at first. Same works for figuring out if a guy likes you.

Last night a read a book called Guys Are Waffles, Girls Are Spaghetti. It describes how girls and guys think differently. Girls think like spaghetti. Trying to follow one noodle is very hard because all the other noodles touch and tangle around each other. This is the way girls see life, everything has something to do with another some way. Guys think like waffles. Everything in life is in neat little boxes that don't overlap. Thats why when girls talk they have a hard time following. Because they have to jump from box to box faster than they usually do. The males brain also has less connections between the left and right side than girls. Typically this is why girls can multitask better than guys, and why their conversations are more like spaghetti.

I'm only on the fifth chapter and I feel like I know so much about girls and guys alike. I can relate to the things it's talking about and it's super cool! If anything was unclear about it, please pm me. It's been really helpful to me and I want it to help you guys out too!!!

That's pretty cool! However, it isn't a catch all. I myself am a guy, and, if you talk to me, my speech is usually very quick and erratic. I jump all over the place. So, while it may be useful, it isn't the rule.

Pretty interesting theory! Although it might not be applicable 100% of the time, I still think that

OOOh! look! a squirrel!

sorry, what was I saying?

[Pongo.]

I'm really confused, there is this guy that likes me, and I like him, and we have been texting eachother the past couple of days (4-5) and the past two days he has been completely ignoring me. He is ignoring me on facebook, and texting...

[GEL516228]

If a guy keeps teasing you, over exaggerating thing you say and acting like he doesn't like you does that possibly mean he likes you?
I have a crush on the guy that keeps doing this to me and I really hope he likes me back but please respond honestly and don't say "I'm positive he likes you" just because I like him. So again, please respond truthfully.

[provolone]

If a guy keeps teasing you, over exaggerating thing you say and acting like he doesn't like you does that possibly mean he likes you?
I have a crush on the guy that keeps doing this to me and I really hope he likes me back but please respond honestly and don't say "I'm positive he likes you" just because I like him. So again, please respond truthfully.

Honestly, we cannot tell you exactly if he likes you or not.

[Doggo Supreme]

Okay, I have had a crush on this boy for more than a year. I began to have a crush on him on October in 2011 and everyone told me that he liked me a lot. I still do not know if he likes me still but here is a big problem. He hangs out with A LOT of girls including me. There is more than twenty girls that hang out with him. He always hangs out with them 24/7 . And they mostly do not like me at all and they think they are so popular. I am thinking of asking him out but I am debating about it. I have no idea of what I should do. It is so confusing. It is driving my mind crazy and it is so hard on me. I asked my friends for advice and they just give answers that don't help me at all. I need a lot of help for this because I have had a crush on him ever since 6th grade. I need help.

I have no idea what to do.