Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[plantiie]

why am i so lucky?
I dont know.

So this guy I knew of but didn't really know is in this band I went to see. There band is really small so of the people there it was mostly just friends of the band (I know the bassist). I went and was standing in the crowd and whatever so yeah. Skip a couple weeks and I get a friend request from the drummer. I started chatting with him on facebook on monday and we haven't really stopped. Like we are texting or messaging each other ALL THE TIME! He told me he remembered me from the show and thought I was really pretty.We only stop during school hours or when were sleeping. And let me tell you, this guy is amazing. Hes really into music, like me, and is a drummer, he is the sweetest guy and let me tell you the story of the talent show. He was preforming with this girl at my school and this guy who goes to my school.So I made a joke when we were texting that he should get me some tea because I was really nervous and then told him that he really didn't need too. So guess what, as soon as I got there he was standing with a tea, my favorite type and wearing a Nirvana T-shirt. Like OMG! So I had to practice with my guitarist before hand but just before it started he came and we talked and he tried to calm me down since I was freaking out until it started. So when it was going I went on just before the intermission so during the intermission he came over and said I was really good and was just being sweet about it. So ANYWAYS, hes told me that Im the prettiest girl he knows and I made another joke that he should write me a song, AND HES DOING IT.

So my real question is we've planed to go out on friday and see Iron Man. thing is I dont know if its a date or not. SO UM YEAH...

[provolone]

so, i've been texting a guy i sorta kinda like every day for the past week.
we exchanged numbers a week ago.

so, my question: he doesn't live in my area, about 4 hours away in a place that i visit quite often actually.
how can you tell if a guy likes you over text?
if he sends you songs or links or how he responds, etc.
thanks c:

It's super hard to tell if anyone likes someone else just by over regular texting. you can over exaggerate or under exaggerate emotions that can send off the wrong vibe. It also depends on the person. Some people use excessive amounts of smile faces and lol's but that doesn't mean they like you. Some people don't use any puncuation or faces at all, but that doesn't mean they don't like you. It all just depends. It's going to be tough, but you have to f igure it out on your own. Best of luck to you![:

[kay.]

Xena's sad :'(

I used to have a huge crush on one boy (Call him One) for 2 years, however now (From a few months ago) I have a crush on another boy (Call him Two). With One, we don't really know each other, in between friends and someone you don't know. Two, on the other hand, is one of my friends. We hang out sometimes, talk, or comfort each other. Rarely, but we do. He once said something weird to me... There you go:

He had to move to my desk because he was being silly. Through the lesson we kept talking and joking around, nothing special. Next day. We had a supply teacher, so he moved to my desk out of his own will. Remember, I did not have a crush on hom then

Two: Hi.
Me: Hi.
Two: My friend said we should go out because we kept on talking yesterday.
Me: What Two?? No way. *Calls the friend, then glares at him*
We carry on working in awkward silence. Then when we were getting ready to go outside:

Me: ------ (The friend)!
Friend: What?
Me: No way.
Friend: Wha- Oh. When I said you and Two should go out?
Me: Yes. And, NO WAY!
Friend: But you really should-
I slap him across the face then walk to Two. I have a similar conversation just without slapping him.

IDK what to think of it. By now we just carried on being friends (I have a crush on him though), until yesterday. One of my greatest friends said something that broke my heart.

BFF: Now there are 3 boys (She can't decide which one to choose for a disco thing in a few months).
Me: Who is it?
BFF: Two.
Gulping down, I clench my teeth and pretend to be excited. NOOOOOOOO.

Help me, I think I have no other choice but to go back to my first crush One.

[Lioness626]

My guy friend is annoying me, really need advice. He has a crush on me, an accepted fact, and I dont like him back. Told people he is close to when they asked, and he even knows who I like, so its not like he doesnt know Im not interested.

Then he goes around making it sound like we are together. "when I walked home from hers at 2am" yeah cos thats where someone dropped you off, you werent at mine... "just gonna be me and you in a room together for a few hours" not my choice thanks, exam timetable means we are there in isolation.

And more. And sitting closer than I want, making me move over, retreat, but he follows.

Any clue how to deal with it?

[Thunder River]

Nice story bola I'm kinda in the same situation with my other crush. Anyway, so I have had this guy friend for almost 2 years now. We used to talk a lot and have inside jokes and stuff but he is in the very rowdy/perverted group that I recently left because I just hated being associated with them... (he is the most civilized one there) He is totally geeky which I am too.. but recently he has gotten some popular friends and I'm worried he's starting to feel 'above' me or something because he never talks to me anymore. He just ignores me constantly. Whenever I was around him before he would look at me and immediately smile and start talking to me. Or maybe he holds a grudge for leaving that group after over a year with them? I really hope not. He slammed a door in my face the other day I don't know what I did, I really don't want to lose this friendship. Oh and another issue with him is that my bestie had a crush on him but she says she's over it now and he just laughed when I told him (bff said it was ok) so I know he didn't like her... but lately I have kinda started having on crush on him. I would love to date him but as you may have guessed I am in no way pretty and very much bottom/middle of the pack on popularity and neither of us has ever dated anyone. I kinda want us to stay just friends but even that is now in question. Can anyone help a bit here? Thanks <3

I'd like to first off say that social status, for some odd reason, doesn't matter. I am very nerdy, but I was asked out by a jock. \shudders
Just... Try talking to him once and see what he does. If he just ignores you, he's a butt. If he keeps talking, *shrug* see where that takes you.

LOL thanks I really hope so. No one has ever asked me out before. Well our orchestra teacher finally let us go back to original seats (he and I sit next to each other) two days ago and he is already talking to me again... he was joking around a bunch and always watching me play when he was lost even though I'm a 2nd violin and he's a viola and being really nice. So... I hope that he didn't mean to give me such mixed signals and that we're back to normal (or better, he's being slightly weirdish) . But he still hangs out with his mega popular friends. LOL. Good story Did you say yes? lol

[muffintop365]

I have a dilema:
I have liked this guy for 8-9 months. We'e had a sort of "puppy-love" for a long time. Most people around me think we were dating, or that we would be dating soon, as in within the month. My friend asked him if he would date me, and he said "No, I don't want to date any friends beause my last realionship with my best friend ended badly." I've had a melting pot of emotions with my friend as we have been going over it for two days. I have not spoken to him yet, but I see him again for summer school next Tuesday. My friend will be there, but I don't know how I should appraoch him. He knows that I know, and he also knows I was very upset with the whole situation. I would still like to be friends, but I want a sincere apology. My friend doesn't think it's fair of me to want an apology. I also want to ignore him for a while until he apologizes. I just want an outside opinion, so don't hold back. What do you think of this, and what would you do? Thank you :3

well this is what i would do.... Try to respect what he said. Maybe he just needs some time or closure before he gets into a relationship again.i wouldn't ignore him either. I know it's natural to want an apology, but you don't want to damage your friendship with this person. I really doubt they ment to hurt you. He's probably not sure he did. If I were you I would try not ignore him, even though it might be hard to see him. If you keep pushing him away there's a very slim chance he might actually develope stronger feelings for you. I would just give it some time.try to get past all the akward stuff and just be friends until he wants something more.

[christine,]

Love sucks.

I have the moment when you realize that you don't like one guy... but two.

[Thunder River]

Love sucks.

I have the moment when you realize that you don't like one guy... but two.

I know right! I have for a year lol.

[meerkatgirl]

Well apparently I have a boyfriend now... ok.

I was going to go out with this other guy, but he told me that a guy who we're both pretty much best friends with has really liked me for awhile and he didn't want to make it awkward. Since I'm completely oblivious, I never noticed that friend liked me even though I've basically liked him since we met. We then had not one, but two very awkward conversations about the whole situation, and finally agreed to go out on Wednesday.

This week we told a few people and literally every singly one of them either knew it would happen soon or thought we were already dating.

We already hang out at least once a week anyways, but yesterday it was just us instead of with a bunch of other friends, and I got my first kiss. It... kind of sucked. I mean, it got better after the first one, but neither of us really had any clue what we were doing, which while I have the excuse of never even going out with anyone before, he's had multiple girlfriends. Whatever, it'll get better eventually, I assume.

Anyways, I'm just happy and I can't wait to see him again. I'm actually glad we were friends first, because I suck at being comfortable around a lot of people.

[ViiciousVee]

Love sucks.

I have the moment when you realize that you don't like one guy... but two.

Im in the same spot