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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby christine-marie » Thu May 23, 2013 11:49 am

Since it's nearing the end of the year, I've decided to do something nice for my crush of approx. 5 months. We've been friends for around 2 years though.

So I'm making a scrapbook with all of our little inside jokes. I'm looking back at our old facebook messages and screenshotting funny things. I'm also making her a Loki necklace, and I'm making myself a Thor necklace, so we're going to be matching. :)

Too bad I couldn't tell her! Maybe I'd "strongly hint" to it in my scrapbook. ;)
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby raezel » Thu May 23, 2013 11:51 am

Lazy9248 wrote:
jänis wrote:
Lazy9248 wrote:What do you do when people that call themselves your friends don't like the guy you have a crush on?? My friends don't like him because they think he's a geek, but he's also one of my only close friends... Idk what to do :P

it shouldn't matter what they think. i'm in the same situation (well, i don't have a crush on the guy my friends dont like) but my advice is to just ignore them. it isn't their opinion that matters!

Thanks for the advice :)

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby bola11 » Thu May 23, 2013 1:11 pm

You guys, listen to this insanely hilarious story I have to tell:
So I was being really silly at lunch the other day at lunch. The lunch was turkey pizza and I was complaining about it and stuff... Anyway it ended with me crying out "WHY DOES EVERYBODY HATE ME?!"
And then my crush who sits at the table across from us said "not everybody!"
So I was over there with my friend and her face is all O_O and I'm like "aaaww that's so sweet!"
Then he gets all worried and shouts "as a friend!!"
I'm over here like: riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight B)
Then for the rest of the day I would wiggle my eyebrows and he would literally flip out xD
Now every time I'm walking or even just by myself he tries to sneak up on me...?
BOY WHY ARE YOU SO CONFUSING.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby amylovescallie. » Thu May 23, 2013 1:15 pm

He moved schools no..... anyways we still get to see each other every afternoon today we were in the park on the swings it was kinda silent except for his laughter whenever i almost tripped but he always caught me im a klutz but i loved the time i spent with him


















































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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby EatTheRich666 » Thu May 23, 2013 1:20 pm

bola11 wrote:You guys, listen to this insanely hilarious story I have to tell:
So I was being really silly at lunch the other day at lunch. The lunch was turkey pizza and I was complaining about it and stuff... Anyway it ended with me crying out "WHY DOES EVERYBODY HATE ME?!"
And then my crush who sits at the table across from us said "not everybody!"
So I was over there with my friend and her face is all O_O and I'm like "aaaww that's so sweet!"
Then he gets all worried and shouts "as a friend!!"
I'm over here like: riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight B)
Then for the rest of the day I would wiggle my eyebrows and he would literally flip out xD
Now every time I'm walking or even just by myself he tries to sneak up on me...?
BOY WHY ARE YOU SO CONFUSING.

xD wow. He sounds cool :) nice story.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby bola11 » Thu May 23, 2013 2:50 pm

Thank you -u-
Yeah he's pretty cool.... But he can get kind of annoying xD
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby Thunder River » Thu May 23, 2013 3:42 pm

Nice story bola ;) I'm kinda in the same situation with my other crush. Anyway, so I have had this guy friend for almost 2 years now. We used to talk a lot and have inside jokes and stuff but he is in the very rowdy/perverted group that I recently left because I just hated being associated with them... (he is the most civilized one there) He is totally geeky which I am too.. but recently he has gotten some popular friends and I'm worried he's starting to feel 'above' me or something because he never talks to me anymore. He just ignores me constantly. Whenever I was around him before he would look at me and immediately smile and start talking to me. Or maybe he holds a grudge for leaving that group after over a year with them? I really hope not. He slammed a door in my face the other day :/ I don't know what I did, I really don't want to lose this friendship. Oh and another issue with him is that my bestie had a crush on him but she says she's over it now and he just laughed when I told him (bff said it was ok) so I know he didn't like her... but lately I have kinda started having on crush on him. I would love to date him but as you may have guessed I am in no way pretty and very much bottom/middle of the pack on popularity and neither of us has ever dated anyone. I kinda want us to stay just friends but even that is now in question. Can anyone help a bit here? Thanks <3

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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby .yuanfen » Thu May 23, 2013 4:30 pm

Episode number... I don't know, I come here a lot to ask these kinds of things. But it's time for another round of 'friend, or crush?'. Hooray.

So, obviously, there's this guy. Hm, where do I begin?
Okay, so I don't recall ever having him in any of my classes, but that might be because I never really noticed him much before. This year I ended up sitting behind him in English, and I didn't know him very well.
It turns out that we both have a really cynical sense of humor, so it's nice to talk to him every now and then. I'm hoping we're friends, because he's a nice person, and he's friends with a bunch of my other guy friends. As mentioned before, I'm friends with a lot of guys and girls, and nothing is romantic between any of my guy friends and me, as far as I know. All of a sudden, he starts commenting on all of my Google+ { it's like a Facebook for people who aren't so popular, hahaha } posts, and then invites me to the beach.
Yes, my school is right next to the ocean, so we can walk to the beach in about five minutes. It's quite nice, actually.
Not wanting to awkwardly be walking with a guy that I can talk to but probably won't be able to hold an over half-an-hour conversation with, I decide to invite a few more of my friends. We have a lot of fun at the beach, etc. etc., and decide that it would be really great to do this every Friday.

Today we had an assembly in school, so we had to walk to the auditorium. I'm near the back of the crowd on the way there, because I'm talking with my { girl } friends, and one of my friends is asking me to help her on a guess-the-character game on her phone. Thus, I'm not looking up much except to make sure that I'm not going to crash into a pole and completely embarrass myself, so it's a surprise when I look up to see if we're almost there and see him standing right next to me. He was at the front of the crowd and I can't help but wonder how in the world he ended up back here. It becomes slightly awkward when he's there without any of his { guy } friends, but since we talk a lot, it isn't so terrible. I move away from him when we begin to file into the seats, since I'd like to sit next to my { girl } friends next to this assembly, which looks to be filled with potential boredom that might put me to sleep unless I have somebody to talk to. Somehow, though- I don't bother looking to see who is behind me, because I'm assuming it's one of my { girl } friends, he ends up sitting next to me.
It doesn't turn out to be so bad, because between the two of us we have a bunch of cynical statements to keep the time going, and my other { girl } friend is sitting right next to me, so we can talk.

So, my question is, as is the same at every post of mine on this topic, is he looking to be friends, or is it something more than that? We're going to the beach again this Friday, and I have a lot of fun with him, I just want to know, I guess.

Thanks in advance ^^
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby vvoland » Fri May 24, 2013 1:10 am

Thunder River Stable wrote:Nice story bola ;) I'm kinda in the same situation with my other crush. Anyway, so I have had this guy friend for almost 2 years now. We used to talk a lot and have inside jokes and stuff but he is in the very rowdy/perverted group that I recently left because I just hated being associated with them... (he is the most civilized one there) He is totally geeky which I am too.. but recently he has gotten some popular friends and I'm worried he's starting to feel 'above' me or something because he never talks to me anymore. He just ignores me constantly. Whenever I was around him before he would look at me and immediately smile and start talking to me. Or maybe he holds a grudge for leaving that group after over a year with them? I really hope not. He slammed a door in my face the other day :/ I don't know what I did, I really don't want to lose this friendship. Oh and another issue with him is that my bestie had a crush on him but she says she's over it now and he just laughed when I told him (bff said it was ok) so I know he didn't like her... but lately I have kinda started having on crush on him. I would love to date him but as you may have guessed I am in no way pretty and very much bottom/middle of the pack on popularity and neither of us has ever dated anyone. I kinda want us to stay just friends but even that is now in question. Can anyone help a bit here? Thanks <3


I'd like to first off say that social status, for some odd reason, doesn't matter. I am very nerdy, but I was asked out by a jock. \shudders
Just... Try talking to him once and see what he does. If he just ignores you, he's a butt. If he keeps talking, *shrug* see where that takes you.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

Postby provolone » Fri May 24, 2013 5:49 am

athenian dragon. wrote:
Episode number... I don't know, I come here a lot to ask these kinds of things. But it's time for another round of 'friend, or crush?'. Hooray.

So, obviously, there's this guy. Hm, where do I begin?
Okay, so I don't recall ever having him in any of my classes, but that might be because I never really noticed him much before. This year I ended up sitting behind him in English, and I didn't know him very well.
It turns out that we both have a really cynical sense of humor, so it's nice to talk to him every now and then. I'm hoping we're friends, because he's a nice person, and he's friends with a bunch of my other guy friends. As mentioned before, I'm friends with a lot of guys and girls, and nothing is romantic between any of my guy friends and me, as far as I know. All of a sudden, he starts commenting on all of my Google+ { it's like a Facebook for people who aren't so popular, hahaha } posts, and then invites me to the beach.
Yes, my school is right next to the ocean, so we can walk to the beach in about five minutes. It's quite nice, actually.
Not wanting to awkwardly be walking with a guy that I can talk to but probably won't be able to hold an over half-an-hour conversation with, I decide to invite a few more of my friends. We have a lot of fun at the beach, etc. etc., and decide that it would be really great to do this every Friday.

Today we had an assembly in school, so we had to walk to the auditorium. I'm near the back of the crowd on the way there, because I'm talking with my { girl } friends, and one of my friends is asking me to help her on a guess-the-character game on her phone. Thus, I'm not looking up much except to make sure that I'm not going to crash into a pole and completely embarrass myself, so it's a surprise when I look up to see if we're almost there and see him standing right next to me. He was at the front of the crowd and I can't help but wonder how in the world he ended up back here. It becomes slightly awkward when he's there without any of his { guy } friends, but since we talk a lot, it isn't so terrible. I move away from him when we begin to file into the seats, since I'd like to sit next to my { girl } friends next to this assembly, which looks to be filled with potential boredom that might put me to sleep unless I have somebody to talk to. Somehow, though- I don't bother looking to see who is behind me, because I'm assuming it's one of my { girl } friends, he ends up sitting next to me.
It doesn't turn out to be so bad, because between the two of us we have a bunch of cynical statements to keep the time going, and my other { girl } friend is sitting right next to me, so we can talk.

So, my question is, as is the same at every post of mine on this topic, is he looking to be friends, or is it something more than that? We're going to the beach again this Friday, and I have a lot of fun with him, I just want to know, I guess.

Thanks in advance ^^


Well at this point it's kind of hard to tell. He is obviously making an effort to get to know you better an become better friends. Maybe he's trying to figure out if he really feels something for you. All I can say is just take it day by day and see where it leads.
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