Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Thammy]

umm i have a HUGE PROBLEM
my bestfriend just told me she was going out with my ex- boyfriend
and everyone is thinking they don't even like each other and i know this cause
they both want a relationship
the guy always wanted a girlfriend every single year
and my bestfriend always flirts with guys

now she kept on saying my boyfriend everysingle time and its really awks for me because its my ex

[hiraethe]

umm i have a HUGE PROBLEM
my bestfriend just told me she was going out with my ex- boyfriend
and everyone is thinking they don't even like each other and i know this cause
they both want a relationship
the guy always wanted a girlfriend every single year
and my bestfriend always flirts with guys

now she kept on saying my boyfriend every single time and its really awks for me because its my ex

well, she's your best friend. i think tell her how you feel about it. really she's not a good friend to not at least listen to you, especially about your being awkward about her mentioning him unnecessarily. maybe say you don't think there's a point to dating for the sake of dating as well. it's a big test of friendship.

[Thammy]

umm i have a HUGE PROBLEM
my bestfriend just told me she was going out with my ex- boyfriend
and everyone is thinking they don't even like each other and i know this cause
they both want a relationship
the guy always wanted a girlfriend every single year
and my bestfriend always flirts with guys

now she kept on saying my boyfriend every single time and its really awks for me because its my ex

well, she's your best friend. i think tell her how you feel about it. really she's not a good friend to not at least listen to you, especially about your being awkward about her mentioning him unnecessarily. maybe say you don't think there's a point to dating for the sake of dating as well. it's a big test of friendship.

i know the fact is that she used to like this guy just a week ago before this happend and so did the guy
and the guy is know as a flirter and he just dumps people easily thats why i dumped him cause she advised me to saying if he's all that just dump him he's not worth it and i don't like him either

[lioness99a]

That moment in an exam where you glance up and catch sight of your crush and he's deep in thought with slightly messed up hair and his adorable thinking face on and then you forget what you were writing! Happened to me today <3

[the stomp.]

Just got out of a rough relationship.. And then came the new boy.. ;o;

He is gorgeous! He is cheeky, funny, clever and just.. Amazing! And he flirts.. With me! He says he likes me but then he messes with me by flirting with other guys.. It hurts.. But then he says he still likes me?;n;

D why dont you understand I have trust issues? Help me out a little dude.. :'c

x~ D

[Mrs.NiallHoran]

so i met this guy online, and he lives far away. we have been talking for a while now, and we have both admitted that we love each other. No one else has ever liked me before and not one guy has told me im pretty or anything. But he is amazing, we text all the time and he tells me every day how much i mean to him, how much he loves me, and that im beautiful....he asked me out 2 weeks ago today, and i have been so happy. i want to tell all my friends, but i dont want them to freak out on me because hes older, and we met online. i trust him and he trusts me. ive never been happier....what do u guys think about it?

[thunderofthedrum]

Firstly, that sounds illegal (you are a minor).
Secondly, what is 'a while'? Have you shared pictures of yourselves already?
The feeling I get from what you wrote is that this all happened fairly recently and considering he is a stranger on the internet, I don't like the idea of you gettig too tied up and possibly losing your good common sense just because he says nice things to you.

Do your parents have any idea?

I don't want to be just negative, but I know that if I'd done that so young my mom would be pissed, my friends would be concerned, and, looking back, I would be embarrassed to have been so easily captivated. There is a reason parents caution about stranger danger on the internet - he could be anyone. And as you begin to feel safe with him, you may be revealing too much personal information that could put yourself in danger.

[greysilence]

So, I'll try to do a quick sum up of Coty before I pose my question. Or, you can just search Coty and read the posts.

Anyways, here's some background info. He's a year older than me, and he goes to my school. We've seen each other before, but we just started talking in the end of January after flirting at a lock-in. We talked for roughly two months, give or take the random "breaks" we took where we oddly just stopped texting each other. He never directly said he likes me, and I never directly said I like him. The last time we talked was around 2 months ago. We haven't talked or texted since, though we see each other nearly every day. Here's my question. He posted on facebook a few hours ago saying he got a new and to text him your name. Should I text him? I would probably just say, "Hey, it's ______, I saw you got a new phone". Or should I just leave it be and not text him?

EDIT: Thanks for any responses. :3

EDIT again: Nevermind, I just sent the text. I feel pretty stupid. >.<

[ＦＵＣＣＩ ＤＡＵＧＨＴＥＲ]

so i met this guy online, but im 14, and hes 19, and he lives far away. we have been talking for a while now, and we have both admitted that we love each other. No one else has ever liked me before and not one guy has told me im pretty or anything. But he is amazing, we text all the time and he tells me every day how much i mean to him, how much he loves me, and that im beautiful....he asked me out 2 weeks ago today, and i have been so happy. i want to tell all my friends, but i dont want them to freak out on me because hes older, and we met online. i trust him and he trusts me. ive never been happier....what do u guys think about it?

I'm sorry, I generally try to be positive...but no. Just don't. You are a minor, and he is older. Guys that old tend to want things, and did you know if he pressured you into sex or something tat would be statuary rape? Which is illegal? And also, he lives far away. Have you met him? There is a very likely chance that this boy is an online predator. And most important of all... I'm pretty sure you don't love him. I know it's nice to have someone say that but, uh, that is ten kinds of wrong. You may be flattered or attracted to him, but I seriously doubt "talking for a while" equates to love. Sorry to be so harsh, but it sounds like you need a reality slap.

I didn't want to post on here but meh. Whatever.
Ooook, so I like this guy. And I really want to talk to him, but I don't even think he knows my name. I'm just too scared to talk to him, and not only that, but I don't want to just randomly talk to him and have him think Why is this weird girl talking to me? So I need help on what to say, I guess. The only times I would feel comfortable talking to him without seeming too random is in P.E. or in the library at lunch. Help?

Edit: My friend and I have previously come up with the idea of asking people in the library random questions (like "what's your favorite color?" or something like that) and somehow start a conversation with him out of that. But I don't want to annoy him if he's doing homework or something...

I know exactly how you feel. My man does not even know he's my man.

Yeah, he probably doesn't know your name. And when you talk to him that is probably exactly what he's going to think. Which is exactly why you need to do it! Come on strong. Be yourself. Be like, "Everybody knows me and everybody wants some of this and I know it, so I can do whatever I want!" Talk to him at PE. Talk to him in the library at lunch. GO TO HIS HOUSE AND TALK TO HIM. NO! Do not do that! The random-questions thing is an awesome idea. I am going to use that one myself. If you annoy him he will get over it, especially when he realizes what an amazing person you are! (But, uh, you have to ask him in the library. Don't leave it up to your friend. Friends are so unreliable with that sort of thing.)

Do I sound negative? 'Cause I might be. There is always the slight chance that he knows who you are... but you can't wait for him! Go for it!

[K9.]

Soon I am gonna spend a week with my boyfriend....can not wait.