Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

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Okay here goess.

I'm bisexual. I have a crush on this girl. However, literally my entire year has guessed and now EVERYONE is telling her. She is incredibly doubtful, however, that it's actually the truth. I don't think she really believes them, so I'm kind of stuck because, it's true. So I don't know what to do. I can't tell her, I am far too shy, though I know she is bound to find out eventually. We still act the way we used to, like really close friends, because that's what we are and she still treats me the same. Also, she is defending me at every corner and getting really annoyed when people are saying stuff, more so than me.
I really don't know what to do, I really need help here people

When you have everybody except for you telling her, you're just building a tower of awkwardness that will eventually crash down really hard. Boy or girl crush, it is never a good thing. Tell her to her face- no guessing games, not through anybody. Don't act awkward and shy- be mature and to the point. I'm going to guess you're in junior high or high school, and that's a point when a lot of people are willing to experiment with sexual orientation. She may like you, too- maybe that's why she hasn't confronted you yet. The only way to find out is to tell her.

So, I was assigned on a team with someone in a class, and during the project it seemed like he kept flirting with me. Now that the project is over, he takes every opportunity to show off in front of me and tries to talk to me a lot. We are also on a robotics team together. I purposely split the team into subsections; project reasearch and robot management, but he still called me over constantly to reveiw something on the PowerPoint or to look at his designs for a helmet. I had to use computers to program, so I had to go over there. He always seems to be looking at me and glancing away when I notice. I think he likes me. The problem is I don't like him. It is making things very awkward, especially since I like someone else. What should I do?

Almost everybody has a situation like that at one point. The only way it will really become a problem is if he asks you out. Meanwhile, if somebody knows who you like or it's not a really big secret, talk about your real crush with other friends around him. Guaranteed way to drive a boy away. But who knows, you could be reading the signs wrong and he could just think of you as a really good friend!

[myoceanrat]

There was a boy I had a crush on at my old school, but when I left, I lost all feelings for him. I saw him again recently, and the feelings returned, stronger than before since I hadn't seen him for over a year, but now I am agitated that i will see him probably only once a month. He does not know that I like him and I don't know if he likes me. To this day I have feelings for him. Help!

[raezel]

we've been together for about two months, and i believe it's beginning to die down.
the last thing i want is to break up with him (or vice versa) but i don't think it'll go to such extreme measures.

[Lazy9248]

I figured out that my crush looks like the guy on the Pepsi next commercial with the dancing baby... Lol he keeps teasing me because he has a car and I don't he won't let anyone touch him and he lets me poke him... I just don't want to screw up us being friends so I don't say anything about my liking him... I've never actually had a boyfriend and no one has ever asked me out so I have no clue what I'm doing... I'm one of those kids that remains invisible and just wants someone to notice them... He is one of the only people that have ever taken an interest in me... yup... Just spilling my guts... any sort of response would be nice

Not trying to rain on your parade, but since you're one of us invisible people you might be mistaking interest with interest. I went to a dance in sixth grade, completely invisible. One nice guy who knew my parents danced with me. My friends snapped pictures and made a big deal about it and he never spoke to me again. He was just being nice; he didn't want anything like that and taking it too seriously screwed up what little we had.
If I were you, I would do a few experiments to test if it's friendly interest or something more committed. Talk about something that you're interested in that he's not- like fashion or some drama show. If he tries very hard to be interested for your sake, he's probably really in to you. If he looks bored or tries to change the subject, then he's probably just being a friend. The worst thing you can do is try to change a friendship, even a casual one, into a relationship. It usually ruins both.
Having a boyfriend could probably increase your confidence, or bring out some jealousy in this guy if he is in to you. You could find a guy in your grade or maybe one or two below you who also hasn't had a relationship yet. Make your intentions clear from the front, sort of a "dry run" if you will. Most guys also want some experience with the whole dating thing, a beta test if you will. Non-romantic, just to see if your flirting and such is working on other people.

Thanks for the advice something I should've mentioned is that we text every day and last year almost all of my friends were convinced that he likes me and they still say that all the time, but I thought I'd ask for outside advice lol

[Lady Sabine]

we've been together for about two months, and i believe it's beginning to die down.
the last thing i want is to break up with him (or vice versa) but i don't think it'll go to such extreme measures.

It's normal for things to cool down after about two months. The chemicals released when you're in love go through several different stages, and you're getting to the point where infatuation is fading away. Don't be too hasty, but if it isn't there, don't hang in for the sake of having a bf.

[raezel]

we've been together for about two months, and i believe it's beginning to die down.
the last thing i want is to break up with him (or vice versa) but i don't think it'll go to such extreme measures.

It's normal for things to cool down after about two months. The chemicals released when you're in love go through several different stages, and you're getting to the point where infatuation is fading away. Don't be too hasty, but if it isn't there, don't hang in for the sake of having a bf.

ah, yeah. it's just been less of a "head over heels" thing lately. we still talk and exchange "love yous" and such, it's just a lot more calmer than it was at the start. it's my first relationship so i didn't/don't really know what to expect as far as infatuation over time goes.
thanks for the advice! uwu

[littlelies]

so. uh.
I'm, me and this boy, my best guy friend, is O. My other guy-friend is J

So I met O earlier in the year, being nice to him. {I don't really know why}
Our friend-ship grew. Including this other boy, J.
I had a crush on J, but thats gone now.
We walk to class everyday together and people thought we were dating, or said," You guys should date!"

Well. Last week, O brought his rip-stick to school, and everyday after school a group of friends (Not J) go to a park.
I wanted to try it out, so I did. But sadly failed. So,
I ordered O to help me and he tried. But I ran away screaming.
That is cause,1. he placed his hands on my shoulders, 2. his friend tried to take a picture{Lol}
I tried using a table for support, but that dosn't get me anywhere. Like really. Try it out.
So I ordered O again to help me again, by holding my hands. I mean that was better but a girl got a picture :c {I'm screaming in it}.

Everyone says he has a crush on me, but I'm not sure.
He helps me with mostly everything and is kind(ish)

Anybody? ;u; Thanks, for reading and maybe commenting <3

[garnet.]

Okay here goess.

I'm bisexual. I have a crush on this girl. However, literally my entire year has guessed and now EVERYONE is telling her. She is incredibly doubtful, however, that it's actually the truth. I don't think she really believes them, so I'm kind of stuck because, it's true. So I don't know what to do. I can't tell her, I am far too shy, though I know she is bound to find out eventually. We still act the way we used to, like really close friends, because that's what we are and she still treats me the same. Also, she is defending me at every corner and getting really annoyed when people are saying stuff, more so than me.
I really don't know what to do, I really need help here people

When you have everybody except for you telling her, you're just building a tower of awkwardness that will eventually crash down really hard. Boy or girl crush, it is never a good thing. Tell her to her face- no guessing games, not through anybody. Don't act awkward and shy- be mature and to the point. I'm going to guess you're in junior high or high school, and that's a point when a lot of people are willing to experiment with sexual orientation. She may like you, too- maybe that's why she hasn't confronted you yet. The only way to find out is to tell her.

I guess you're right but I am so scared. I have ever told anyone I like them before, I don't know how, any tips?

[Lady Sabine]

I guess you're right but I am so scared. I have ever told anyone I like them before, I don't know how, any tips?

Timing is EVERYTHING. Make sure you two are alone, that you're both pretty relaxed and in a good mood, and that there isn't any stress on her to say yes or no. Make sure she knows you're being serious, don't present it as a joke or try to pretend like it isn't a big deal. Not to be cheesy, but bringing flowers or a teddy bear or chocolate or some little gift to make it obvious you're serious about her can't hurt.

[Rated R]

so, this isn't about my crush.

a guy from my camp who lives a couple states away [in a state i visit often] asked for my number over face book and we started late night chatting and stuff. he had admitted he'd liked someone in his camp, but i don't know who.
we've been talking solidly for a while and we have a lot in common. he did admit on his ask.fm where you can ask anonymous questions, after someone [not me] asked whether he'd do a long distance relationship, that yes, he'd definitely try. he's not hot, but he's not ugly, and he's got an honest heart.
we've got a lot in common, but i don't feel like i have feelings for him, though i feel like he might like me. i don't know, i'm thinking of waiting it out and seeing whether common feelings grow together or whether we just stay friends.
but all in all, i kind of like having a guy wanting to talk to me for once. i think the good part about not seeing each other everyday is that i and he can see personality more, don't 'cha think?

my question is, how long should i wait for a spark, or should i even wait at all?