Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[G.L'S]

^ asking for his email cant hurt, especially if you're friends, it'll help you both stay in touch. mind you, long distance can be rough and you would both have to work at it if it was something you both wanted. Take it slow and see how it fares out with the distance.

@perks, in regards to your guy issue, all you can really do is wait until he becomes interested or expresses interest in you. You can always ask (or get someone else to) if he likes anyone but if he's not interested in you at the moment, your only choices are to wait or move on. Once you hit high school, the playing field opens up more and you'll probably find yourself interested in someone different if not before then.

[`Hypnotic]

So me and R are talking again, to day he even sat by me in math. But he really hurt my feelings thru text. He's a player, but I can't seem to get over him! He's not even THAT cute. :-:

[littlesulley]

ok.. So there's this guy that I'm pretty sure likes me, but I'm not sure if I like him. He's not ugly, but idk.. Not really my type. And I'm not even allowed to date anyways >~< ((and no I'm not some 11 year old XD, Ill just say I'm older than 13 and younger than 17))

I'm really frustrated that my parents won't let me date... I mean ALL my friends except for my very best friend are allowed to date, and then there's my parents, all "You don't need to date until you're 30!" And I know they're not serious about that long, but not anytime soon -.-

So, basicly, I'm wondering what to do about the guy that likes me. He knows I can't date now, but Im going to see him a lot this summer because his best friend has a lake cabin next to my grandparents, and they're there almost everyday in the summer. And we go there often...

I don't want to like completely reject him, but I don't want to be too nice and look like I'm into him... What do I do? I didn't see anything like this in the FAQ..

Thanks in advance :3

[Saule]

So yesterday I had asked my friend A to tell C that I like him and today she told me that she told him! But unfortunately she didn't get much of a response. She said he made his "deep in thought face" but didn't really say anything back. I'm going to take that as a good sign 'cause if he were upset by that fact he'd probably make his awkward thinking face and make some negative comment. But according to A, he just made his normal deep thinking face. So I guess I'll talk to him on Thursday and find out what he's thinking unless I see him tomorrow (which isn't likely).
But anyways, I'm excited. Even if he doesn't feel the same way, I think I'll still feel pretty happy. The fact that I've liked him for so long and that he hasn't known has stressed me out a lot and this feels like a great weight lifted off me. And everything in my life has been going really well lately, so this is the perfect time to find out everything even if he turns me down 'cause I've had a super happy high lately.
Thanks again for the place to rave!
~Saule

[Rated R]

Advice, please!

so, my crush. we're friends on facebook. he lives in my neighborhood. i do not know what he thinks of me.

i want to ask him whether he'll exercise with me/be a jogging or biking partner.
ask him over facebook chat or wait until i see him in person next?
i do not want for him to show that i asked him to be my jogging partner to anyone. i'm not one to tell my friends like, so i like this guy..., so i'm a bit nervous to facebook message him because he could show it to anyone.
if i showed up at his house, it'd be kind of awkward, in our instance anyways.
advice?

[G.L'S]

^ Facebook can also be ambiguous as well if you don't phrase things perfectly. Asking him in person is the best way so there's no chances that he'll mix something up in communication. Plus, it'll be more natural that way since you could play it off as just looking for a buddy whereas Facebook may seem awkward to some.

[Rated R]

Thanks, G.L., that's what I was thinking. I just needed someone to confirm that.
eraghghgsajfyiegf now to figure out the next time i see him [we do not go to the same school].

[DragonLoverHere]

Okay, I am in some dire need of advice. I really didn't want to talk about it, but I guess I have to at this point.

My boyfriend broke up with me on Valentines. Big heartbreak, argument... Whole nine yards of pain for me. I know, I can't control how he feels, and he had his reasons, but it hurt.

The bad part of this? We settled on sticking to friends like it was before. I thought it wouldn't be a big deal, but it's proving to be the worse road for me to walk. It's been over two months now, and I still can't shake all of these feelings for him as much as I'd love to hate him. Every time I see him, I have to restrain myself from resting my head on his shoulder or chest. Everything I see him only chatting with other girls, I instantly feel this unspeakable jealousy and defensiveness, and I keep jumping to the idea he's with someone else or is crushing on another girl. Whenever I say hello or goodbye, I barely can stop myself from pecking him on the cheek or neck. When I'm crying or asking advice from him, I find myself wishing he was holding my hand or holding me close like he once did, telling me it'll be okay.

One of the saddest things I guess is I miss the feeling of a pendant he gave me around my neck. It was a comfort and rock for me, it made me feel safe and know he was waiting for me to help. But I gave it back shortly after we broke up, and now I walk around with this bare chain. When I try to talk to him about my feelings and this, I find instead I'm snapping or taking a stab at him verbally.

This is becoming a living heck for me and I can't speak about it. Not if I want to wind up in a convent or asylum like my grandmother and mother were saying because I'm 'unstable.' And there are so many other things that just orbit around this heartache I can't heal. I... I'd like any advice anyone can offer...

[christine,]

He smiled at me today <3

Those eyes... I swear, they are goinng to kill me o.o

[~IronRose~]

Okay, I am in some dire need of advice. I really didn't want to talk about it, but I guess I have to at this point.

My boyfriend broke up with me on Valentines. Big heartbreak, argument... Whole nine yards of pain for me. I know, I can't control how he feels, and he had his reasons, but it hurt.

The bad part of this? We settled on sticking to friends like it was before. I thought it wouldn't be a big deal, but it's proving to be the worse road for me to walk. It's been over two months now, and I still can't shake all of these feelings for him as much as I'd love to hate him. Every time I see him, I have to restrain myself from resting my head on his shoulder or chest. Everything I see him only chatting with other girls, I instantly feel this unspeakable jealousy and defensiveness, and I keep jumping to the idea he's with someone else or is crushing on another girl. Whenever I say hello or goodbye, I barely can stop myself from pecking him on the cheek or neck. When I'm crying or asking advice from him, I find myself wishing he was holding my hand or holding me close like he once did, telling me it'll be okay.

One of the saddest things I guess is I miss the feeling of a pendant he gave me around my neck. It was a comfort and rock for me, it made me feel safe and know he was waiting for me to help. But I gave it back shortly after we broke up, and now I walk around with this bare chain. When I try to talk to him about my feelings and this, I find instead I'm snapping or taking a stab at him verbally.

This is becoming a living heck for me and I can't speak about it. Not if I want to wind up in a convent or asylum like my grandmother and mother were saying because I'm 'unstable.' And there are so many other things that just orbit around this heartache I can't heal. I... I'd like any advice anyone can offer...

Don't worry the pain and hurt will pass, you will find another guy that will shine a light brighter than any other guy ever. It may be hard to let go but it will come over time, I learned to let go very early when my crush moved away. I'm still trying to let go of my last crush but he still shines the brightest in my world, even if I know he doesn't like me and your ex probably still shines brightest for you but the time will come when another shines brightest and if not, just wait and see what happens.