Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Mosstail<3]

I'm really confused.
I'm a girl, and although I've likes a few guys, they're pretty much all jerks. No guys really appeal to me for more than a month. And I've always kind of swung towards liking girls. Now I have a big crush on my best friend. I think she's amazing and adorable and she's perfect, but lately I've started getting the urge to hold her hand. And I get that fuzzy feeling inside when she hugs me. I love spending time with her, and she makes me so happy, I just want to kiss her sometimes. I feel like I shouldn't, but I still do. but all my life I've had girl crushes.
Am I lesbian? Or bisexual? I don't even know!
Should I tell her about how I feel? Or would it be wrong?

Sometimes I feel the same, at this age you are finding what your sexual orientation is. You may do some "experimenting" not in a negative way of course but just to figure out who you are.
You could be bisexual especially since you've liked a few guys, but you could also be lesbian. I don't know you personally so I don't really know.
Hoped this helped a little! And good luck~!

[christine,]

I'm really confused.
I'm a girl, and although I've likes a few guys, they're pretty much all jerks. No guys really appeal to me for more than a month. And I've always kind of swung towards liking girls. Now I have a big crush on my best friend. I think she's amazing and adorable and she's perfect, but lately I've started getting the urge to hold her hand. And I get that fuzzy feeling inside when she hugs me. I love spending time with her, and she makes me so happy, I just want to kiss her sometimes. I feel like I shouldn't, but I still do. but all my life I've had girl crushes.
Am I lesbian? Or bisexual? I don't even know!
Should I tell her about how I feel? Or would it be wrong?

Sometimes I feel the same, at this age you are finding what your sexual orientation is. You may do some "experimenting" not in a negative way of course but just to figure out who you are.
You could be bisexual especially since you've liked a few guys, but you could also be lesbian. I don't know you personally so I don't really know.
Hoped this helped a little! And good luck~!

And don't forget- there is nothing wrong with not being straight. It's a perfectly normal thing, you should never be embarassed by it, if it turns out you are bi or lesbian :)

[Tora Dingo]

Thank you! It's good to know--everyone thinks it's weird and "attention-grabbing" when people think about their sexual orientation. But really, I think that now's when I have to start figuring it all out.

[Lazy9248]

I'm going to invite J to walk to lunch with me for end of the year exams... We have two hours for lunch on exam days he keeps joking that he has a car and I don't even though I'm older (by a week lol). I hope he agrees... Last time I asked him, he agreed, but it ended up 2 degrees F the day we were supposed to walk to lunch so we didn't go... He's shy but he's fairly open with me, so I hope he'll go with just me to lunch... I'm not going to invite any friends because my friends always put me down and make fun of me in front of him... wish me luck.... /(._.)\ so nervous...

[panhead]

Alright. Here's my situation. Sorta simple, and really recent.

There's this boy lets call him E. He caught my attention last year but I really didn't like him. This year however it just hit me I love him.
He knows my name and he would talk to me like once a week and it would just be something like "ah!" When I pretended to hit him upside the head with my science binder...not even like a sentence just...yeah.
So I was talking to my friend (call him Z) and Z Said, ill talk to E for you. If you like him that much! He's my best friend!

Ok so today in science Z talked to E and Z said "what is ___<-my name to you? What is she appear to you as?" E said "nice...not angry" (I laughed at that part) So then Z told E that I liked him.

The only problem is that Z told me that E had a crush on an eighth grader but he hasn't made a move yet.

This kid is really really nice. He plays soccer and he's a nerd. He isn't rude he doesn't cuss or anything and he is just plain awesome.

I would really like there to be something between us even if it was just friendship but I have no clue where to start seeing as I only have one class with him and I literally sit all the way across the room with my back turned to him. His names Ethan...getting tired of writing E...


Help.

Perks.(call me perky)

new update. Sorry haven't posted in a while.


Well I didn't really talk to Ethan much but my friend Niall told me he didn't like me.

At lunch yesterday I started high fiving all my guy friends, and Ethan got a high five to. But with him, I make him do it twice, by saying "two hands, or it doesn't count". I see him joke around at lunch and I get all choked up and my friends just stare at me (I can't sit with him at lunch were in dif. Classes)

So....I mean I am like dying on the inside and u know what his dad coaches my brothers soccer team and he attends practice (I'm there with my mom and bro) and my mom is like."you should go talk to him wink wink" so she's trying to hook me up and then I really am freaking out I just hope that one day he finds I would be sic with him, :3

And also my friend told me he doesn't deserve you. (We deserve each other I think)


So....what should I do? There's NO getting over him....I'm stuck with these people till HS....I don't like anyone else!







Perky

[jetlag]

Hey guys, I need some tips on talking to my crush. Everytime I come close to talking to him I chicken out. The school year is almost over and I really want to talk to him before summer break.

This so much. I have the same problem, I wish I could help ;n;

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I'm afraid that after the year is over we'll never talk again.
I need to make some kind of move to keep us talking!

[Twilight Sky]

So this is more about my friend than me, but I still need help.
My friend is friends with (and has a crush on) this guy that I cannot stand. He's a wealthy arrogant jerk and he only cares about himself. He's in my history class and the other day he said that all poor people are lazy and don't work for their money. He's so ignorant and stupid it's just asdfghjkl;
Anyways, he's also a player and I really don't think he's right for my friend (or anyone for that matter). I don't know exactly why she likes him. He's also popular and plays football.
So, what do I do? I don't want to just tell my friend that he's a jerk, but if I have to I suppose I will.
Any advice?

[G.L'S]

^ you can by all means warn your friend of this guy but if she really likes him, she may not choose to believe it just as a warning to you. If she doesn't heed your advice, your best to just let her learn for herself and offer support, some people just have to learn the hard way.

[panhead]

Can someone help me with my problem scroll UP ^^^ :3 thanks

[T.a.r.d.i.s.]

So, I like this guy, and we have become pretty good friends, but in a year or so he will be moving back to his country, and I probably won't be able to see him again. I was wondering how I should ask for his email before the school year ends without sounding too awkward. That way we could still talk. Another problem is that I am not sure if he likes me... my love life is chaos.