Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Anza]

A bunch of my guy friends like me, and I don't know how to tell them I'm not interested, they are like my bests friends...

I'm in the same boat right know as you so I completely understand!
what I would sugjest is simple to tell them that you just want to be friends. That should work and good lu8ck to you.

[Anza]

I think his pride wount let him

I am so, incredibly, hurt right now.

One question. Would you guys take a chance for a boy you might love, and risk being hurt like crazy all over again... or, give up, walk away, try to move on and not cause yourself anymore pain?

We had been dating for half of a year, minus 10 days. We broke up a week ago, it was a tiny bit mutual, but mostly him. He says he did it for parents/sports, and he originally said he wanted to get back together after state track meet (in two weeks)... but everything I hear is completely different. I've heard 100 different stories from 100 different people about why he broke up with me. Some say he misses me like crazy, some say he doesn't want anything to do with me. He says he wants to get back together to my face, then doesn't act like it unless we're alone.

1: I think you should take a chance no matter what!
2: I think his pride wount let him act like that around people other then you!
3: rummers are not to be trusted!

[Anza]

Leaving for the night so bye I will be back tommorow!

[Zeee]

Hi guys c: Just posting to get this off my chest.

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Basically, this guy - let's call him Neff (because that's the brand of the hat he always wears and treats like a baby) - likes me. I figured out a little while ago, but apparently he's liked me since summer of last year. See, we're like best friends. Well, here's how the conversation went:

(He's currently dating one of my friends but he told me he never even liked her that much and they're breaking up. He also told me at the time that he liked somebody else and I was trying to convince him to tell me who)

Neff: You'll have to wait to know who I like
Me: How long? Long time?
Neff: A year
Me: I HAVE TO WAIT A YEAR?!?!
Neff: No I've liked her for a year
Me: Oh thank cheese I thought I had to wait for a year Lol
-- a little while later --
Neff: Well... If you really wanna know who I like it's... You
Me: ..........
Me: Really?
Neff: Yeah
Neff: Bye
Me: Don't leave
Neff: Why? I don't wanna hear that you don't like me so bye
Me: Noooo
Neff: Fine
Me: Thank you
Me: Sooo...
Neff: Sooo...
Neff: Be honest. Do you like me or not?
Me: ...

And he kept on asking me that and I honestly didn't know if I did or not. So every time my answer was I don't know. Then he asked me one last time and said, "Whether you say yes or no, H (his girlfriend, my friend) and I are going to break up. But please all I ask is for you to be truthful to me, okay? Please tell me what you think right now. Yes or no, do you like me?" and I said no... I felt so bad for saying no because he's been rejected a lot and not a lot of people like him but I just didn't think we were right for eachother. And then I guess he texted L (mine and his best friend) screenshots of what I said and I guess he said, "I thought we were so perfect for eachother". Seriously, I felt SO bad... And I still don't even know if I do like him or not...

...Sigh.

Oh, and I guess O (friend) would date me, but only if I asked him.

I'm so confused right now. So much is happening in so little time...

Again...

...Sigh.

[Saule]

Hi everybody! I'm really happy today :3 Back from a weekend vacation and before I had left I stayed overnight at C's house and he let me borrow his jacket <3 which unfortunately I had forgotten to bring, but it was waiting for me when I got back, so I'm wearing it now ^w^
I'm learning how to play Come What May on piano and hope to play it for him on Thursday.
And last Wednesday I finally told a close friend of both C and myself that I have a crush on C, so I think tomorrow I'll ask her to tell C for me because I have an awkward situation that has thus far made it rather hard for C and me to make any moves ourselves. Let's suffice it to say that my overprotective brother is one of C's best friends as well. But I think asking to A (C's and my mutual friend) to help us along will work out quite well. And I'm 99% sure that C likes me as well, so I'm not worried about getting turned down or anything.
Oh, and last Thursday, I was at his house for a while and he played sweet songs on the piano and sang for me <3 and then we ended up tickling each other to the floor and tickling and cuddling each other for a while. That was a good day. I was hoping to ask him out then 'cause we were alone for a while, but his mom was in the next room and it made me feel awkward. But I think my current plan is going to end up working out well. ^__^
I just wanted to share, my life has been coming together perfectly lately and I'm really, truly happy for the first time in a while.
Well, I guess I'll tell you guys how everything goes after I find out, probably Thursday night I'll post again.
Thanks for the space to share my happiness and I hope all of your (love) lives turn out excellent as well!
~Saule

[PFDC]

Hi,
I have a little problem. Maybe I'm just overacting but hey lets find out! So I liked my girlfriend for a long time, and actually fell in love woth her before I asked her out. Now that were dating, though, it's always me imitating things: hugs, kisses, even just cuddling. She rarely shows affection towards me, and when she does it's small. We are always around friends if that helps. Advice???(ps I'm also a girl if that helps as well)

[Kodabomb]

Ok, reading all these adorable posts now makes me jelly. XD I've always been single. ^ ^

[Outlander]

Hi,
I have a little problem. Maybe I'm just overacting but hey lets find out! So I liked my girlfriend for a long time, and actually fell in love woth her before I asked her out. Now that were dating, though, it's always me imitating things: hugs, kisses, even just cuddling. She rarely shows affection towards me, and when she does it's small. We are always around friends if that helps. Advice???(ps I'm also a girl if that helps as well)

She might just be uncomfortable with things like that while around others.

[Lioness626]

Hi,
I have a little problem. Maybe I'm just overacting but hey lets find out! So I liked my girlfriend for a long time, and actually fell in love woth her before I asked her out. Now that were dating, though, it's always me imitating things: hugs, kisses, even just cuddling. She rarely shows affection towards me, and when she does it's small. We are always around friends if that helps. Advice???(ps I'm also a girl if that helps as well)

She might just be uncomfortable with things like that while around others.

I agree, and it may depend on how close you are in public, some couples I know are far too affectionate in public, the "get a room" type, so if you are being a little like that she might be attempting to keep things normal in public, but not wanting to say. I know I am not one for public affection, at all, lucky to get a hug from me XD (single though, could be why, but dont think Id change much in a relationship)

[thunderofthedrum]

Hi,
I have a little problem. Maybe I'm just overacting but hey lets find out! So I liked my girlfriend for a long time, and actually fell in love woth her before I asked her out. Now that were dating, though, it's always me imitating things: hugs, kisses, even just cuddling. She rarely shows affection towards me, and when she does it's small. We are always around friends if that helps. Advice???(ps I'm also a girl if that helps as well)

She might just be uncomfortable with things like that while around others.

Also it's very important to understand her dating experience. If this is only her first relationship or this is turning into her longest or most serious/committed, then these things may be pretty new to her. Some people are able to move forward and dive in without caring what others think, whereas others may be very concerned about it or very self conscious or uncertain. I was slow to show affection with my boyfriend and even then it began to happen only in little touches, not 'big' things like kissing. Lacking that self confidence can be very scary.

And let's not forget you said you guys are always with friends. She may not feel comfortable doing that in front of everyone, especially if it's her first time becoming this intimate with someone. She may need to become more comfortable with kissing you and cuddling when in private and learn to take initiative in THAT situation before she can do so with other people around. I could barely kiss my boyfriend first in private, there's no way I could do it in front of others because I would feel extra pressure.

And above all, communication. Let her know you just want to be with her. Ask what you can do to help, or what she prefers or perhaps what she is uncomfortable with.