Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[R A I N]

Just me ranting, don't mind me. If you want to read my other posts about him then just search "Coty".

I'm sorta starting to miss him. My friend who's a senior decided he was gonna force me to walk down the hall with him, and he had his arm around my shoulders. And I know Coty saw it. I haven't talked to him in over a month. I haven't talked to him since my birthday I believe, which was the 22nd of March, and that was barely anything. We sent maybe five, if that, texts back and forth. I miss him, and I don't. Everyone says he's annoying, but I don't know. I don't have any classes with him since he's a year older, so I don't really know how he behaves in classes. He was just what I wanted in a guy sometimes.
Whenever he got protective, it was just so cute. I don't know. I see him everyday, and sometimes I catch him looking at me. I don't know whether he misses me or not. I doubt it, cuz he probably would've texted me by now. Or maybe not. *sigh* I just don't know what to do. The other day I considered texting him to see what would happen, but I don't wanna be the one to break first. We didn't fight or anything, we just...stopped talking. I would almost always have to text him first too. I just don't know what I wanna do about the situation. I guess I'll just keep waiting and see if anything ever happens.

ι кησω нσω уσυ ƒєєℓ.
ι αм нανιηg тнє ѕαмє ρяσвℓєм. ιт נυѕт ѕσ ƒяυѕтяαтιηg ησт тσ кησω ωнαт тσ ∂σ.
ιт'ѕ ℓιкє уσυ мιgнт мαкє α ƒσσℓ σƒ уσυяѕєℓƒ.

[Madison143]

does anyone have any advice on talking to a really shy guy..? ;~;
he's so shy that people stand around his locker and he doesn't say excuse me.
he just waits until they leave.

but he's cute. and into stuff i like.
and i'm not sure if he knows i like him, but his friend told him i do and he was all like "no way".
but i'm not sure if he knows i'm the girl his friend was talking about.
and i have no idea how he said "no way". like people say it differently ;x;
my friend keeps telling me to talk to him but it doesn't help that i'm shy and awkward too...ugh.

and by the way i've never talked to him, if you haven't already guessed.
he's always been on my bus and i never really looked at him "that" way until earlier this year.

You could try waving or catching his eye and giving him a smile.

[greysilence]

Just me ranting, don't mind me. If you want to read my other posts about him then just search "Coty".

I'm sorta starting to miss him. My friend who's a senior decided he was gonna force me to walk down the hall with him, and he had his arm around my shoulders. And I know Coty saw it. I haven't talked to him in over a month. I haven't talked to him since my birthday I believe, which was the 22nd of March, and that was barely anything. We sent maybe five, if that, texts back and forth. I miss him, and I don't. Everyone says he's annoying, but I don't know. I don't have any classes with him since he's a year older, so I don't really know how he behaves in classes. He was just what I wanted in a guy sometimes.
Whenever he got protective, it was just so cute. I don't know. I see him everyday, and sometimes I catch him looking at me. I don't know whether he misses me or not. I doubt it, cuz he probably would've texted me by now. Or maybe not. *sigh* I just don't know what to do. The other day I considered texting him to see what would happen, but I don't wanna be the one to break first. We didn't fight or anything, we just...stopped talking. I would almost always have to text him first too. I just don't know what I wanna do about the situation. I guess I'll just keep waiting and see if anything ever happens.

ι кησω нσω уσυ ƒєєℓ.
ι αм нανιηg тнє ѕαмє ρяσвℓєм. ιт נυѕт ѕσ ƒяυѕтяαтιηg ησт тσ кησω ωнαт тσ ∂σ.
ιт'ѕ ℓιкє уσυ мιgнт мαкє α ƒσσℓ σƒ уσυяѕєℓƒ.

Exactly! I keep thinking about the lock-in, and the few times we've hung out after school, and I just want that back. But I also don't want it to seem like I'm needy and desperate. I want him to come to me, ya know? I don't know whether to ignore him or try to get us talking again, and it's just so confusing. >.< I'm glad I'm not the only one who has trouble deciding whether to hold on or let go of things.

[R A I N]

Exactly! I keep thinking about the lock-in, and the few times we've hung out after school, and I just want that back. But I also don't want it to seem like I'm needy and desperate. I want him to come to me, ya know? I don't know whether to ignore him or try to get us talking again, and it's just so confusing. >.< I'm glad I'm not the only one who has trouble deciding whether to hold on or let go of things.

ι αgяєє cσмρℓєтєℓу.
ι ƒєєℓ тнαт ιт мιgнт вє gσσ∂ тσ ѕтαу ƒяιєη∂ѕ вυт тнєη тнєяє αяє ∂αуѕ тнαт ι ωαηт тσ ѕтяαηgℓє нιм. - ωнιcн ωσυℓ∂ вє нαя∂ αη∂ ƒυηηу ѕєєιηg αѕ нє ιѕ α cσмρℓєтє ƒσσт σя мσяє тαℓℓєя тнαη мє -

нєяє ιѕ му ρσѕт

αη∂ уєαн ι кєєρ тнιηкιηg тнαт ιƒ ι кєєρ тєχтιηg нιм тнαт ι'ℓℓ ѕєєм ηєє∂у.
ωнєη ι ∂σ тєχт нιм , нє ∂σєѕη'т яєρℓу αη∂ тнєη ι נυѕт ѕтσρ. αƒтєя α ƒєω ωєєкѕ нє ωιℓℓ cσмє υρ тσ мє αη∂ αѕк ωну ι'м ησт тєχтιηg нιм αηумσяє αη∂ ι'м ℓιкє.
ωтƒ!!!

[Fluffy:3]

I need some help ;-;

So for the past two years I've liked this one guy, MM. He's so cute, but I also really like this guy, Sherbs. Now here are my problems with them:

1) MM used to talk to me all the time, catch my eye just about everywhere, laugh with/at me, and all sorts of things. Now I am convinced 100% that he loves this other girl because he does those same things to her now. He completely ignores me and even moved away from me at the lunch table we all sit at to sit with her. I feel so mad at him lately and I even called him a jerk a few times.

2) Now on to Sherbs. Sherbs is about the nicest guy I've ever met. He's been my friend longer than MM and I love him to bits. Now here's my huge problem; he's my best friend's boyfriend. I talk to him all the time and we laugh and joke around all the time together, even in front of my friend (his girlfriend). Here's a weird part: most all the time when his girlfriend is there, he seems to completely ignore her and only talk to me! I kind of back off and only say a little bit to him around her, but she never looks at me or talks to me when I'm talking to Sherbs. I feel like if I'm too friendly with Sherbs that she doesn't really want me to be there and starts ignoring me. I feel like I'm losing my best friend because of him!

Sorry it's a little long; anyone have opinions?

[-Ash's-Outlaw-]

Alright, so last time I posted, I got a lot of help so I am going to try this again.

So my ex and I broke up in January. It wasn't messy and didn't end badly,we both just grew apart, but we haven't talked since then. All is good there. Two weeks ago, this guy who had really grown on me this year asked me out. Of course, I said yes, and we are perfectly happy. He is great, he appreciates me and is so different from my ex in every great way. He is everything I needed right now. Again, all good there.

But here is the problem: He (E) and my ex (C) hate each other. I don't know why, but they do. All three of us go to school together, and C even has a girlfriend (I think...). E was standing with me the other morning before school started, and by chance, I saw C pretty much in disbelief watching us. Yesterday, he purposely walked by E and I while we were walking to class, and glared at me. And today, he walked by us again, but purposely ran into E. I don't know what to do about it, but I can't talk to C about it, and I don't think E knows much more than I do, either.

A PM for advice would be greatly appreciated

-LP

[Saule]

Bumping :P

It hurts when your friends and crush talk about your crush's previous crush... Especially since you are all still friends with her and she is an amazing, beautiful person...
I posted here about a week and a half ago asking if anyone could help me write a letter I could send over text to tell my crush I like him.
So I haven't gotten a good chance to tell Pickle (I found out yesterday that his grandparents call him Pickle, so that's what I'll call him now) that I like him in months, so I figured I should just text him or something.
But whenever I go to write a text, I just end up thinking what I have written is ridiculous and stupid. Harsh self critic. So I was wondering if any of you could be of help?
I'll probably be texting him soon-ish (by Tuesday) to see if he's decided whether or not he's going to come on vacation with my family or not, so I'm hoping to segue into telling him I like him when that happens.
We don't text really at all unless one of us wants to make or confirm plans with the other, neither of us are really good at keeping a text conversation going on.
Anyways, if any of you have any help, that would be greatly appreciated! Otherwise I guess I'll just wing it or something. Either way, I'll tell you all how it turns out!
~Thanks for taking the time to read this and for any responses!

[greysilence]

Exactly! I keep thinking about the lock-in, and the few times we've hung out after school, and I just want that back. But I also don't want it to seem like I'm needy and desperate. I want him to come to me, ya know? I don't know whether to ignore him or try to get us talking again, and it's just so confusing. >.< I'm glad I'm not the only one who has trouble deciding whether to hold on or let go of things.

ι αgяєє cσмρℓєтєℓу.
ι ƒєєℓ тнαт ιт мιgнт вє gσσ∂ тσ ѕтαу ƒяιєη∂ѕ вυт тнєη тнєяє αяє ∂αуѕ тнαт ι ωαηт тσ ѕтяαηgℓє нιм. - ωнιcн ωσυℓ∂ вє нαя∂ αη∂ ƒυηηу ѕєєιηg αѕ нє ιѕ α cσмρℓєтє ƒσσт σя мσяє тαℓℓєя тнαη мє -

нєяє ιѕ му ρσѕт

αη∂ уєαн ι кєєρ тнιηкιηg тнαт ιƒ ι кєєρ тєχтιηg нιм тнαт ι'ℓℓ ѕєєм ηєє∂у.
ωнєη ι ∂σ тєχт нιм , нє ∂σєѕη'т яєρℓу αη∂ тнєη ι נυѕт ѕтσρ. αƒтєя α ƒєω ωєєкѕ нє ωιℓℓ cσмє υρ тσ мє αη∂ αѕк ωну ι'м ησт тєχтιηg нιм αηумσяє αη∂ ι'м ℓιкє.
ωтƒ!!!

Yesss!!!!!! I would text him, and he wouldn't answer or he would respond like twice. Then I would stop and after a week he would ask me why I don't talk to him anymore. I hate mixed signals. Why do guys have to be so complicated? (and yes, I know girls can be just as complicated too)

[frogpaws]

I used to like a shy guy too, so I'll see if I can help you with this as well. c:

If you can't talk to him straight up, then try to say "hi" and smile at him when you guys see each other, like when you get onto the bus. In this situation, however, I would suggest not cornering him during lunch or anything. xD If you know some of the people he usually hangs out with, you can also join his group of friends and participate in a group conversation with him. That way you guys could get to know each other and become more comfortable. Another thing you could try is talking to him on the bus when you first get on. You could simply say "hi" while walking past him or even sit in a seat next to his and strike up a conversation about school or the classes you guys are taking.

Don't lose heart if he said "no way" when his friend asked him. Even I do that sometimes when I like someone but just don't want them or others to know.

Thanks for the advice! I kinda sorta know a few of his friends, one in particular that he's pretty good friends with. He's the one who told him I liked him. I've been trying to get somewhat familiar with his friends anyways, since I think we all have stuff in common. Of course him and his friends are all 2 years older than me and not in any of my classes, but I always see him at his locker.
They all sit at the same table during lunch, him and his friends xD but there's so many of them I wouldn't even dare go there unless I knew them real well. I'll take your advice though (:

[Lioness626]

Exactly! I keep thinking about the lock-in, and the few times we've hung out after school, and I just want that back. But I also don't want it to seem like I'm needy and desperate. I want him to come to me, ya know? I don't know whether to ignore him or try to get us talking again, and it's just so confusing. >.< I'm glad I'm not the only one who has trouble deciding whether to hold on or let go of things.

ι αgяєє cσмρℓєтєℓу.
ι ƒєєℓ тнαт ιт мιgнт вє gσσ∂ тσ ѕтαу ƒяιєη∂ѕ вυт тнєη тнєяє αяє ∂αуѕ тнαт ι ωαηт тσ ѕтяαηgℓє нιм. - ωнιcн ωσυℓ∂ вє нαя∂ αη∂ ƒυηηу ѕєєιηg αѕ нє ιѕ α cσмρℓєтє ƒσσт σя мσяє тαℓℓєя тнαη мє -

нєяє ιѕ му ρσѕт

αη∂ уєαн ι кєєρ тнιηкιηg тнαт ιƒ ι кєєρ тєχтιηg нιм тнαт ι'ℓℓ ѕєєм ηєє∂у.
ωнєη ι ∂σ тєχт нιм , нє ∂σєѕη'т яєρℓу αη∂ тнєη ι נυѕт ѕтσρ. αƒтєя α ƒєω ωєєкѕ нє ωιℓℓ cσмє υρ тσ мє αη∂ αѕк ωну ι'м ησт тєχтιηg нιм αηумσяє αη∂ ι'м ℓιкє.
ωтƒ!!!

Yesss!!!!!! I would text him, and he wouldn't answer or he would respond like twice. Then I would stop and after a week he would ask me why I don't talk to him anymore. I hate mixed signals. Why do guys have to be so complicated? (and yes, I know girls can be just as complicated too)

To both of you, my almost gay/but still straight somehow guy friend gave me this advice when I went to him with the same problem:
"He might just be busy or forget to reply, I do a lot, doesnt mean we arent interested. I dont get why girls think like that. Just text him"
So basically, I think you should just keep on as you are, and text him, but if you dont get a reply maybe wait again for another day, with a new reason to text, maybe asking for some help on homework or something?