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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Thief. » Sun May 05, 2013 1:49 pm

pandas<3green wrote:
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My friends are all acting older then they are.
And not in a good,mature way.
All this illicit and 'frowned upon' stuff is going on and my closest friend and I are
standing here trying to act cool about it.
We have already told teachers/parents but it doesn't do ANYTHING.
We have tried talking to them,ignoring them, helping them but nothing helps

They are going around town in questionable clothes (and it is nearly winter), acting like *censored* and thinking that all this illicit stuff they do is cool.
The thing is,they were really good friends.
Now it seems like it is just the two of us.



Lets just say I know how you feel, all I do is ignore the people like that and maybe try making a joke whenever they start to get ridiculous!


I know, but it is so *eeugh*
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby city; » Sun May 05, 2013 1:51 pm

2freeAlex wrote:I know that this seems really insignificant, but I just want to hear a kind response. Here's how this went.

So, I have four best friends. B and R, both of whom I've been friends with for a very long time. We are all very close, and very rarely will you find us without each other. Halfway through the year, I found another good friend, we'll call her M. She has a cousin, who we will call J. He is really kind and sweet, and I also have a huge crush on him. M told him because he was blackmailing her (in a friendly way, not meanly) and she told him. Of course, I was a little mad, but we're really good friends and I didn't want to ruin that.

So J always eats lunch with me and M. Three days ago at lunch, I showed J and M a picture of my hamster I had taken the night before. J said he wanted a hamster, and then the conversation was over. So the next day, M comes up to me and tells me that J is serious about getting a hamster. She also tells me he's never wanted a pet before. I asked why he wanted a hamster all of the sudden, and she told me it was because I showed him that picture of Alex. Later that day, he asks me where he should buy all of the stuff, what stuff he should get, and what breeds of hamsters I have had. I told him, and that was the end of it.

Today I found out that he did exactly what I said. He bought everything from the same stores, and I went to three different stores for my hamster stuff. Seems a bit excessive when you could just buy it all at one store. So I asked what kind he got, and the response was 'a Russian Dwarf'. Which is the same kind I used to have. It's not a well known breed. I asked the color scheme, and I come to find that it happens to look exactly like one of the ones I used to have.

I am positive he likes me, but he wouldn't admit it, of course. So I told my friend R my suspicion, and she had the nerve to laugh and tell me (quite blatantly) that there was no way he could have a crush on me. It made me really sad, especially after my soccer incident earlier this morning, so could I maybe have another hug? :c


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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Shoe. » Sun May 05, 2013 2:22 pm

i am new to this comfort corner thing ...

i normally dont " open up " but i am having a really tough time right now , so please dont mind the story im about to tell ...
So picture this : im sitting there , on my laptop , minding my own business when POW , my " friend " comes up and tells me , " hey , so i heard Jay ( changing names here ... ) said she hated you ( me , werefox ) " and then i say " no , we are talking right now ... " and then she tells me , " i thought she wasnt going to talk to you anymore , thats what she told me ... " and then i dont reply , and then she tells me " Kasey ( changing dah name ( my sister )) said you called me annoying " and then i , upset already about the previous lie ( her and " Jay " dont get along at all , and * thinks up random name * Jessica , well say for the " friend " is always trying to split us up so she can have me to herself ) i tell her it was all a lie , and that i never said that , because i didnt ! and then she tells me " well , i dont know , both of you have good points , and i dont know who to trust " and I. Shut . Down . being told i couldnt be trusted was like a slap in the face . i couldnt take it , so i foed her , and now she is posting on my posts saying rude stuff ( she is still foed , but i click on the " display post " button thing ) and shse is posting trash about me . i just reported her to the mods , and now .. i need a hug , a virtual hag if necessary ;n; also , i am separated from my own mother , so i am lonely . i am living with my aunt and little cousin ( only two years younger than i ) and they hang out all the time , and it makes me literally cry in a corner , because i cant stand being " left out " then she ( my cousin ) comes up to me like im crazy , and says , " you never hang out with me ! " and i try , but she is always with her mom .
so , in conclusion , i need a hug D: i really big hug DX i think telling everyone this made me feel a bit better , like i got something off of my chest .. thanks for any feedback ! :D
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby strawbewwy. » Sun May 05, 2013 2:24 pm

werefox wrote:i am new to this comfort corner thing ...

i normally dont " open up " but i am having a really tough time right now , so please dont mind the story im about to tell ...
So picture this : im sitting there , on my laptop , minding my own business when POW , my " friend " comes up and tells me , " hey , so i heard Jay ( changing names here ... ) said she hated you ( me , werefox ) " and then i say " no , we are talking right now ... " and then she tells me , " i thought she wasnt going to talk to you anymore , thats what she told me ... " and then i dont reply , and then she tells me " Kasey ( changing dah name ( my sister )) said you called me annoying " and then i , upset already about the previous lie ( her and " Jay " dont get along at all , and * thinks up random name * Jessica , well say for the " friend " is always trying to split us up so she can have me to herself ) i tell her it was all a lie , and that i never said that , because i didnt ! and then she tells me " well , i dont know , both of you have good points , and i dont know who to trust " and I. Shut . Down . being told i couldnt be trusted was like a slap in the face . i couldnt take it , so i foed her , and now she is posting on my posts saying rude stuff ( she is still foed , but i click on the " display post " button thing ) and shse is posting trash about me . i just reported her to the mods , and now .. i need a hug , a virtual hag if necessary ;n; also , i am separated from my own mother , so i am lonely . i am living with my aunt and little cousin ( only two years younger than i ) and they hang out all the time , and it makes me literally cry in a corner , because i cant stand being " left out " then she ( my cousin ) comes up to me like im crazy , and says , " you never hang out with me ! " and i try , but she is always with her mom .
so , in conclusion , i need a hug D: i really big hug DX i think telling everyone this made me feel a bit better , like i got something off of my chest .. thanks for any feedback ! :D


*Snuggles and hugs tightly* I'm sorry hun. That has to hurt a lot, but you did the right thing by reporting them. Maybe if you ask your cousin if she'd like to set up a time to play a game with her certain days of the week or something, then you two could do stuff together that way. *Hugs again*
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Shoe. » Sun May 05, 2013 2:28 pm

Perey of the Sand wrote:
werefox wrote:i am new to this comfort corner thing ...

i normally dont " open up " but i am having a really tough time right now , so please dont mind the story im about to tell ...
So picture this : im sitting there , on my laptop , minding my own business when POW , my " friend " comes up and tells me , " hey , so i heard Jay ( changing names here ... ) said she hated you ( me , werefox ) " and then i say " no , we are talking right now ... " and then she tells me , " i thought she wasnt going to talk to you anymore , thats what she told me ... " and then i dont reply , and then she tells me " Kasey ( changing dah name ( my sister )) said you called me annoying " and then i , upset already about the previous lie ( her and " Jay " dont get along at all , and * thinks up random name * Jessica , well say for the " friend " is always trying to split us up so she can have me to herself ) i tell her it was all a lie , and that i never said that , because i didnt ! and then she tells me " well , i dont know , both of you have good points , and i dont know who to trust " and I. Shut . Down . being told i couldnt be trusted was like a slap in the face . i couldnt take it , so i foed her , and now she is posting on my posts saying rude stuff ( she is still foed , but i click on the " display post " button thing ) and shse is posting trash about me . i just reported her to the mods , and now .. i need a hug , a virtual hag if necessary ;n; also , i am separated from my own mother , so i am lonely . i am living with my aunt and little cousin ( only two years younger than i ) and they hang out all the time , and it makes me literally cry in a corner , because i cant stand being " left out " then she ( my cousin ) comes up to me like im crazy , and says , " you never hang out with me ! " and i try , but she is always with her mom .
so , in conclusion , i need a hug D: i really big hug DX i think telling everyone this made me feel a bit better , like i got something off of my chest .. thanks for any feedback ! :D


*Snuggles and hugs tightly* I'm sorry hun. That has to hurt a lot, but you did the right thing by reporting them. Maybe if you ask your cousin if she'd like to set up a time to play a game with her certain days of the week or something, then you two could do stuff together that way. *Hugs again*


thanks , sounds good . thanks for the support and kindness ^^
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby nervousdog » Sun May 05, 2013 2:29 pm

OMG I didn't know saying I didn't know who to trust would hurt you this much! I know I belive you because I talked with your other bff and I just could believe her after thinking everything throug T.T And after your other BFF was being a *censored* to your sister I just couldn't take it because I couldb't tell you.
werefox wrote:i am new to this comfort corner thing ...

i normally dont " open up " but i am having a really tough time right now , so please dont mind the story im about to tell ...
So picture this : im sitting there , on my laptop , minding my own business when POW , my " friend " comes up and tells me , " hey , so i heard Jay ( changing names here ... ) said she hated you ( me , werefox ) " and then i say " no , we are talking right now ... " and then she tells me , " i thought she wasnt going to talk to you anymore , thats what she told me ... " and then i dont reply , and then she tells me " Kasey ( changing dah name ( my sister )) said you called me annoying " and then i , upset already about the previous lie ( her and " Jay " dont get along at all , and * thinks up random name * Jessica , well say for the " friend " is always trying to split us up so she can have me to herself ) i tell her it was all a lie , and that i never said that , because i didnt ! and then she tells me " well , i dont know , both of you have good points , and i dont know who to trust " and I. Shut . Down . being told i couldnt be trusted was like a slap in the face . i couldnt take it , so i foed her , and now she is posting on my posts saying rude stuff ( she is still foed , but i click on the " display post " button thing ) and shse is posting trash about me . i just reported her to the mods , and now .. i need a hug , a virtual hag if necessary ;n; also , i am separated from my own mother , so i am lonely . i am living with my aunt and little cousin ( only two years younger than i ) and they hang out all the time , and it makes me literally cry in a corner , because i cant stand being " left out " then she ( my cousin ) comes up to me like im crazy , and says , " you never hang out with me ! " and i try , but she is always with her mom .
so , in conclusion , i need a hug D: i really big hug DX i think telling everyone this made me feel a bit better , like i got something off of my chest .. thanks for any feedback ! :D
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby wickedbvnes » Sun May 05, 2013 2:31 pm


i'm not going to see my best friend for two months.
:c
sadness.
plus
i miss my ex. :c
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby strawbewwy. » Sun May 05, 2013 2:33 pm

twisted∞acrylics wrote:

i'm not going to see my best friend for two months.
:c
sadness.
plus
i miss my ex. :c
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*Hugs* I'm sorry hun.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby seep5 » Sun May 05, 2013 2:35 pm

twisted∞acrylics wrote:

i'm not going to see my best friend for two months.
:c
sadness.
plus
i miss my ex. :c
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*hugs*
I know how you feel buddy :'c
but don't worry it will be okay.

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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby MenheraCollie » Sun May 05, 2013 2:37 pm

twisted∞acrylics wrote:

i'm not going to see my best friend for two months.
:c
sadness.
plus
i miss my ex. :c
- twisted


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