Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[classi]

I don't understand how he can still like me and yet he has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is pretty much the complete opposite of me, mostly personality wise. She's extremely outgoing, I'm extremely shy. She has a lot of friends, I have a few close ones. She flirts with guys all the time, I barely talk. Our appearances are really different too. But, he likes me. And, yes, I know he does, there's no question about it.
It's kind of funny because he was talking to me a few days ago, and she kept pulling him away... but he didn't let her the first three times, and he kept pulling back and talking to me. Finally she succeeded in cutting off our conversation. /: She always looks at him funny whenever they're talking and he says hi. I get it, I'm really shy and not part of their friend group, and he never talks to shy girls so she probably sees me as a threat.
I found out that they've been dating for three months via instagram, and her account has numerous photos of them together and, man, the jealousy... Does anyone have any tips for handling that? My followers seem to enjoy liking pictures of them and every time I see a new one, which isn't often but still, I feel like someone punched me in the stomach and tears prick at my eyes. It's pathetic and I don't know why I'm reacting that way. I like him, yeah, but he still likes me and I'll probably never go out with him anyways. Besides, it's just a relationship. It's not final, and it will end sometime.
Mhm, so yeah. I'm kind of afraid to talk to him now because what if his girlfriend sees and gets mad at him or something? I don't want to mess with their relationship. I could pull the 'we're friends' but no, that wouldn't work, he's the only guy I talk to and I'm the only shy girl he talks to and I'm not in his friend group, it's obvious he likes me... This is all kind of fun, though, in a weird sort of way. *Shrug* Drama is fun.
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[Outlander]

I don't understand how he can still like me and yet he has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is pretty much the complete opposite of me, mostly personality wise. She's extremely outgoing, I'm extremely shy. She has a lot of friends, I have a few close ones. She flirts with guys all the time, I barely talk. Our appearances are really different too. But, he likes me. And, yes, I know he does, there's no question about it.
It's kind of funny because he was talking to me a few days ago, and she kept pulling him away... but he didn't let her the first three times, and he kept pulling back and talking to me. Finally she succeeded in cutting off our conversation. /: She always looks at him funny whenever they're talking and he says hi. I get it, I'm really shy and not part of their friend group, and he never talks to shy girls so she probably sees me as a threat.
I found out that they've been dating for three months via instagram, and her account has numerous photos of them together and, man, the jealousy... Does anyone have any tips for handling that? My followers seem to enjoy liking pictures of them and every time I see a new one, which isn't often but still, I feel like someone punched me in the stomach and tears prick at my eyes. It's pathetic and I don't know why I'm reacting that way. I like him, yeah, but he still likes me and I'll probably never go out with him anyways. Besides, it's just a relationship. It's not final, and it will end sometime.
Mhm, so yeah. I'm kind of afraid to talk to him now because what if his girlfriend sees and gets mad at him or something? I don't want to mess with their relationship. I could pull the 'we're friends' but no, that wouldn't work, he's the only guy I talk to and I'm the only shy girl he talks to and I'm not in his friend group, it's obvious he likes me... This is all kind of fun, though, in a weird sort of way. *Shrug* Drama is fun.
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You might want to talk to him about it. He may like you, but the fact is that he is in a relationship. I'd be good for the two I you to talk things through.

Also, in my opinion, it's bad to have the "It'll end sometime" mentality going Into a relationship.

[PFDC]

I keep forgetting how lucky I am
I went looking through my girlfriends moms photos cause she's a photographer
And I saw a bunch of my girlfriend
Everything keeps reminding
How effing lucky I Am To have her
To have such a beautiful girl
Pick me
She could have any guy or girl
She chose the messy, disorganized me
Wow

[Outlander]

I keep forgetting how lucky I am
I went looking through my girlfriends moms photos cause she's a photographer
And I saw a bunch of my girlfriend
Everything keeps reminding
How effing lucky I Am To have her
To have such a beautiful girl
Pick me
She could have any guy or girl
She chose the messy, disorganized me
Wow

It happens sometimes. You forget how good you have it.

I try to remember how lucky I am. How such a wonderful, smart, talented, charming, geeky, beautiful girl chose me to be with. To share in many firsts.

Wow

[PFDC]

I keep forgetting how lucky I am
I went looking through my girlfriends moms photos cause she's a photographer
And I saw a bunch of my girlfriend
Everything keeps reminding
How effing lucky I Am To have her
To have such a beautiful girl
Pick me
She could have any guy or girl
She chose the messy, disorganized me
Wow

It happens sometimes. You forget how good you have it.

I try to remember how lucky I am. How such a wonderful, smart, talented, charming, geeky, beautiful girl chose me to be with. To share in many firsts.

Wow

We're both each others first girlfriend I think she might have had a boyfriend before but I've had neither. It's so strange cause she's so outgoing and sweet and nice, but I'm timid and shy unless I know you well. She basically forced me to ask her out lol. She told my friend(who told me) that she wants to date me, but I had to do it -.- I just wrote a note in the back of a Dr. Seuss book that fit with the rest of the story but asked her out at the same time. It worked and made her laugh so yay! But seriously I don't deserve her at all I'm overly clingy and anxious about relationships, I'm terrified of loud noise especially thunder, I'm not that attractive honestly, I have a lot of problems from when I was bullied as a youngster, I'm tottaly a potato and unfit. She's beautiful, smart(oh yeah I fail even when I try not to), funny, outgoing, protective of me, a hockey goalie(so really really fit)
What made her chose me of all people?!

[Outlander]

I keep forgetting how lucky I am
I went looking through my girlfriends moms photos cause she's a photographer
And I saw a bunch of my girlfriend
Everything keeps reminding
How effing lucky I Am To have her
To have such a beautiful girl
Pick me
She could have any guy or girl
She chose the messy, disorganized me
Wow

It happens sometimes. You forget how good you have it.

I try to remember how lucky I am. How such a wonderful, smart, talented, charming, geeky, beautiful girl chose me to be with. To share in many firsts.

Wow

We're both each others first girlfriend I think she might have had a boyfriend before but I've had neither. It's so strange cause she's so outgoing and sweet and nice, but I'm timid and shy unless I know you well. She basically forced me to ask her out lol. She told my friend(who told me) that she wants to date me, but I had to do it -.- I just wrote a note in the back of a Dr. Seuss book that fit with the rest of the story but asked her out at the same time. It worked and made her laugh so yay! But seriously I don't deserve her at all I'm overly clingy and anxious about relationships, I'm terrified of loud noise especially thunder, I'm not that attractive honestly, I have a lot of problems from when I was bullied as a youngster, I'm tottaly a potato and unfit. She's beautiful, smart(oh yeah I fail even when I try not to), funny, outgoing, protective of me, a hockey goalie(so really really fit)
What made her chose me of all people?!

I know exactly what you mean.

I'm her first Boyfriend, and she's my first serious Girlfriend. I'm pessimistic quite a bit, but she's surprisingly optimistic, and she's one of the few people that can bring me out of a slump. We kinda eased into our relationship. I had a huge crush on her since basically the week I met her, and I told her so a few months later, but we didn't start dating until December.

I'm not entirely sure either. I don't like the outdoors, basically burn in the sun, i'm not especially fit, nor am I hansom, I sit around way too much, i'm basically as mature as a 5 year old, and I worry about her constantly. I'm scared to death knowing she loves climbing trees, and it didn't help seeing where she was hurt with a table saw. She's super smart (high class summer internship), beautiful, talented (Her voice, drawing skills, love of art, athletic ability, ext), charming, funny, sweet, way too happy, sometimes awkward (in such a cute way ).

I agree completely. So many other people she could have chosen.

[PFDC]

It happens sometimes. You forget how good you have it.

I try to remember how lucky I am. How such a wonderful, smart, talented, charming, geeky, beautiful girl chose me to be with. To share in many firsts.

Wow

We're both each others first girlfriend I think she might have had a boyfriend before but I've had neither. It's so strange cause she's so outgoing and sweet and nice, but I'm timid and shy unless I know you well. She basically forced me to ask her out lol. She told my friend(who told me) that she wants to date me, but I had to do it -.- I just wrote a note in the back of a Dr. Seuss book that fit with the rest of the story but asked her out at the same time. It worked and made her laugh so yay! But seriously I don't deserve her at all I'm overly clingy and anxious about relationships, I'm terrified of loud noise especially thunder, I'm not that attractive honestly, I have a lot of problems from when I was bullied as a youngster, I'm tottaly a potato and unfit. She's beautiful, smart(oh yeah I fail even when I try not to), funny, outgoing, protective of me, a hockey goalie(so really really fit)
What made her chose me of all people?!

I know exactly what you mean.

I'm her first Boyfriend, and she's my first serious Girlfriend. I'm pessimistic quite a bit, but she's surprisingly optimistic, and she's one of the few people that can bring me out of a slump. We kinda eased into our relationship. I had a huge crush on her since basically the week I met her, and I told her so a few months later, but we didn't start dating until December.

I'm not entirely sure either. I don't like the outdoors, basically burn in the sun, i'm not especially fit, nor am I hansom, I sit around way too much, i'm basically as mature as a 5 year old, and I worry about her constantly. I'm scared to death knowing she loves climbing trees, and it didn't help seeing where she was hurt with a table saw. She's super smart (high class summer internship), beautiful, talented (Her voice, drawing skills, love of art, athletic ability, ext), charming, funny, sweet, way too happy, sometimes awkward (in such a cute way ).

I agree completely. So many other people she could have chosen.

Someone finally gets it!!!!! We've been "dating" for probably three months and actually officially dating for a week but haven't told our rents yet(I haven't anyways) cause I'm afraid they'll say I can't date cause of my grades. That would break my heart since it took me so long to ask her out!!!!

[Outlander]

Someone finally gets it!!!!! We've been "dating" for probably three months and actually officially dating for a week but haven't told our rents yet(I haven't anyways) cause I'm afraid they'll say I can't date cause of my grades. That would break my heart since it took me so long to ask her out!!!!

You should talk to her about it. You can't really know what they'll say until you ask.

Our parents know, but only my parents know we've kissed. We decided not to tell her parents.

[PFDC]

Someone finally gets it!!!!! We've been "dating" for probably three months and actually officially dating for a week but haven't told our rents yet(I haven't anyways) cause I'm afraid they'll say I can't date cause of my grades. That would break my heart since it took me so long to ask her out!!!!

You should talk to her about it. You can't really know what they'll say until you ask.

Our parents know, but only my parents know we've kissed. We decided not to tell her parents.

True true
And we haven't kissed yet I'm too scared to
Can you see a reoccurring problem?
I want to get help for it but I know my mom
I told her I thought I had ADD and she blew it off as "oh no you just need to focus more!"
I do, but I CAN'T
Andim terrified of new things

[Outlander]

Someone finally gets it!!!!! We've been "dating" for probably three months and actually officially dating for a week but haven't told our rents yet(I haven't anyways) cause I'm afraid they'll say I can't date cause of my grades. That would break my heart since it took me so long to ask her out!!!!

You should talk to her about it. You can't really know what they'll say until you ask.

Our parents know, but only my parents know we've kissed. We decided not to tell her parents.

True true
And we haven't kissed yet I'm too scared to
Can you see a reoccurring problem?
I want to get help for it but I know my mom
I told her I thought I had ADD and she blew it off as "oh no you just need to focus more!"
I do, but I CAN'T
Andim terrified of new things

Don't do it until you're comfortable taking the plunge. It will happen on it's own.

I'd suggest talking to a school counselor.