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[his girl friday]

left my abusive boyfriend tonight.

oh, no, he never hit me. but the verbal abuse to my son and i. it was just to much

now he wont quit calling. texting. asking me to come back.

i cant go back, i wont. even if he is threatening to run off with my dog. (my other dog, i was able to get one out with my son and i)

Good for you! Just make sure that you contact the police or someone who can help! This is a pretty serious situation in y opinion... *hugs*

my sister and aunt came to help me pack and move. staying with them til i can get my own place again.

[theexileofkiem]

It thoroughly ticks me off how much my mother-in-law takes advantage of me. To the point where I just have to cry over how angry I am at her.
I understand that I shouldn't be able to sit around and do nothing seeing as I am living in their house. I really. But she constantly acts like I owe her. She told me I could move in. I didn't ask. I am here as someone she supposedly loves...not a maid and not some random renter.

She sits in her chair and does NOTHING all day, except for watch tv and complain. Makes the house a total mess when she isn't doing that and refuses to do any cleaning. This is a big house. She should be doing her share. But she doesn't.

It is always "you should do this, you should do that.." and I just want to quirk up and say something like "OR you could get up off your lazy arse for once and actually do something" ...but I can't because she would just ignore me.

I've tried being nice. She acts like a complete prick to me when I ask her to do something. As someone who has slight anger issues I don't know how to cope with this. How much longer I can cope with this.

Ugh...any advice?

i dub the Cinderella! Fellow cinderellas unite!

Hmmm... Since I'm not there to witness whats happening and don't know COMPLETLY what is going on... If she really doesn't do anything... Tell her nicely that she should clean up her own mess or tell her maybe that your exhausted from (insert activity here) and are to tired to lean today? Just try and stay calm as much as you can
And if it really is that bad, don't live with them... Or get them to hire a maid? Hope I helped a bit feel free to pm me as well * hugs * remember to keep cool!

[his girl friday]

It thoroughly ticks me off how much my mother-in-law takes advantage of me. To the point where I just have to cry over how angry I am at her.
I understand that I shouldn't be able to sit around and do nothing seeing as I am living in their house. I really. But she constantly acts like I owe her. She told me I could move in. I didn't ask. I am here as someone she supposedly loves...not a maid and not some random renter.

She sits in her chair and does NOTHING all day, except for watch tv and complain. Makes the house a total mess when she isn't doing that and refuses to do any cleaning. This is a big house. She should be doing her share. But she doesn't.

It is always "you should do this, you should do that.." and I just want to quirk up and say something like "OR you could get up off your lazy arse for once and actually do something" ...but I can't because she would just ignore me.

I've tried being nice. She acts like a complete prick to me when I ask her to do something. As someone who has slight anger issues I don't know how to cope with this. How much longer I can cope with this.

Ugh...any advice?

i dub the Cinderella! Fellow cinderellas unite!

Hmmm... Since I'm not there to witness whats happening and don't know COMPLETLY what is going on... If she really doesn't do anything... Tell her nicely that she should clean up her own mess or tell her maybe that your exhausted from (insert activity here) and are to tired to lean today? Just try and stay calm as much as you can
And if it really is that bad, don't live with them... Or get them to hire a maid? Hope I helped a bit feel free to pm me as well * hugs * remember to keep cool!

or sit down with her, at a table/counter/chairs by each other and tell her that while you understand she expects you to carry your weight around the house you think that she expects to much. calmly list what you do (on a regular basis) around to help out and mention that you think she might be beginning to take advantage of you because your her 'daughter'

[theexileofkiem]

left my abusive boyfriend tonight.

oh, no, he never hit me. but the verbal abuse to my son and i. it was just to much

now he wont quit calling. texting. asking me to come back.

i cant go back, i wont. even if he is threatening to run off with my dog. (my other dog, i was able to get one out with my son and i)

Good for you! Just make sure that you contact the police or someone who can help! This is a pretty serious situation in y opinion... *hugs*

my sister and aunt came to help me pack and move. staying with them til i can get my own place again.

Well that is very good that you have their support! I hope your son is doing alright in this, situations like this can cause a lot of stress or trauma to kids, try and comfort him if he needs it. But if your ex Is really that serious about killing himself and your dog, contact the authorities please

[his girl friday]

Good for you! Just make sure that you contact the police or someone who can help! This is a pretty serious situation in y opinion... *hugs*

my sister and aunt came to help me pack and move. staying with them til i can get my own place again.

Well that is very good that you have their support! I hope your son is doing alright in this, situations like this can cause a lot of stress or trauma to kids, try and comfort him if he needs it. But if your ex Is really that serious about killing himself and your dog, contact the authorities please

our other roommate is still there, she'll call if someone needs too. and yes my little boy is doing good. playing with his toys and had extra desserts and went tot he park. had a talk about how its not his fault or anything. and how noone is 'mad' at him even if there was lots of yelling

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Tell her nicely that she should clean up her own mess or tell her maybe that your exhausted from (insert activity here) and are to tired to lean today? Just try and stay calm as much as you can

or sit down with her, at a table/counter/chairs by each other and tell her that while you understand she expects you to carry your weight around the house you think that she expects to much. calmly list what you do (on a regular basis) around to help out and mention that you think she might be beginning to take advantage of you because your her 'daughter'

Thank you both for replying and giving advice, but unfortunately that doesn't work in this situation. My fiance and I have both politely asked her to step up and do her part. I've told her that it shouldn't be all on me (in the most polite way possible} Her exact reaction?

"You know I'm not perfect and it really ticks me off when you act like you are...so get off my back!!"

Word for word. And while not living with her (because that would mean leaving my fiance) isn't an option, I am going to stay with my own parents for a few months. I had been dreading it because of some separation anxiety issues...but at least it means a break from her :'c

[theexileofkiem]

our other roommate is still there, she'll call if someone needs too. and yes my little boy is doing good. playing with his toys and had extra desserts and went tot he park. had a talk about how its not his fault or anything. and how noone is 'mad' at him even if there was lots of yelling[/quote]


Good! Sounds like you have every thing pretty under control That still has to be a lot of stress though *hands you cookie* I love your sig by the ways that was pretty funny I hope everything turns out good for you and your family *hugs* if you need any advice or someone to talk to feel free to shoot me a pm!

[theexileofkiem]

Tell her nicely that she should clean up her own mess or tell her maybe that your exhausted from (insert activity here) and are to tired to lean today? Just try and stay calm as much as you can

or sit down with her, at a table/counter/chairs by each other and tell her that while you understand she expects you to carry your weight around the house you think that she expects to much. calmly list what you do (on a regular basis) around to help out and mention that you think she might be beginning to take advantage of you because your her 'daughter'

Thank you both for replying and giving advice, but unfortunately that doesn't work in this situation. My fiance and I have both politely asked her to step up and do her part. I've told her that it shouldn't be all on me (in the most polite way possible} Her exact reaction?

"You know I'm not perfect and it really ticks me off when you act like you are...so get off my back!!"

Word for word. And while not living with her (because that would mean leaving my fiance) isn't an option, I am going to stay with my own parents for a few months. I had been dreading it because of some separation anxiety issues...but at least it means a break from her :'c

Why couldn't your fiancé to with you? Just curious... You don't have to answer if you don't feel like it and also who would you be having separation anxiety with? Sorry just a bit confused of that part

Meanwhile... Zecorou felt the need to bring you a cookie
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[theexileofkiem]

Added to above, she may also be edges around you since she is a step mom, she may feel the need to defend herself? My step grandma is kind of like this...

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Added to above, she may also be edges around you since she is a step mom, she may feel the need to defend herself? My step grandma is kind of like this...

She isn't my step-mom, she is my mother-in-law (to be) and we (meaning my fiance and I) live with her parents. We can't afford to live on our own just yet and my fiance can't come with me to my parents because they despise her :c

The separation anxiety will come from having to be away from her for those several months that I am with my parents. We're used to being together 24/7.