Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[Ninja Jedi]

Calm down. People have live outside messaging and the Internet. You need to remember than when messaging or texting someone. He probably just has things to do.

weeeeeeellll I worry when you don't message me...

Says the one that goes to bed at 9:30. Leaves me in the dark for hours.

my point still stands.

[.musical.dragon.]

I always sit with this guy on the bus. Let's call him A. A always sits by me, except when we had a small fight, when we both thought that the other was mad at them{but I really was a little mad at him...} Anyways, A always tells me his relationship problems, and it's really almost heartbreaking. I have not the slightest clue if I like A yet, but I kind of flirt with him sometimes. I'm not aloud to date though, and A isn't aloud to either, but he's kind of a player almost and has dated a lot of other girls before, but not seriously. I'm really confused and stuff. My sibling plays a sport with him, and I go sometimes{mainly because I have no choice} and see him there. A doesn't really talk to me then, but he really doesn't have time after the game is over, thought I'm sure A could make time. We're really good friends and stuff, and it's just downright confusing. Anyways, I even told him about that creepy guy that liked me... I just don't know...

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So, someone told A that a girl in my grade likes him. I think that he's suspicious that it's me, but I am not entirely sure if he knows that it's me. Also, he told me that somebody asked him out for some other girl, and he told me how like eight girls like him and that it's annoying. Today on the bus, I was being careless with my scars on my arm, and he may have noticed them. But he didn't say anything. If he did see them, I wish that he said something about it. Maybe he was waiting until there weren't as many people around? I don't know; it's just confusing. I may have to go to a game today that my sibling will play in, and he'll be there. I've also been really depressed lately, and he noticed that yesterday, mostly because I made it totally obvious. Also on the bus today, A was playing on his Ipod touch and wouldn't talk to me for the longest time... Could that mean anything?

thanks a ton,
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[Insanities_friend]

So, My best friend, Weston and I are super close I told him the other day that I have a huge crush on him and I have had it for a long time. Weve been friend since we were freshmen in highshool. Now there is this other boy, Gavin. I have been in a commited relationship with him for three months and Weston and Gavin are really good friends too. We do everything together. Today though Weston admitted how he has really deep feelings for me but warned me he wouldn't date me if I dump Gavin for him because Gavin's his friend too. Half of my friends say I should date Weston because he treats me more like a boyfriend then Gavin. But Gavin is super sweet and kind too. The other half of my friends says stick with Gavin because I haven't seen you this happy in a long time, but then I have a few other friends that say I should do what makes me happy. Either way my heart breaks from knowing I'll hurt one of the two people I care about most. I don't know what to do so I thought I would ask a neutral party. Can any on help me? o.0

I know this sounds cheesy,
But fallow your heart. If you really love Weston, then choose him.
Granted you like Gavin, and you don't want to hurt him,
But how would you feel if you saw Weston with another girl and you were still with Gavin?
Do what makes you truly happy.
You do not want to be in a relationship with someone you don't have feelings for.
If you truly love Weston, apologize sincerely to Gavin, and tell him why.
Then, do what makes you happy.

Weston said he wouldn't date me if i dumped Gavin for him. And I love Gavin too. The three of us have been inseperable since we all met. People even call us the three Amigos. (I think that's how you spell it.)

[Tigergal101]

So I like this guy Andrew and I know he likes me but anytime we are near each other he kind of avoids me. We went to the air show together but he stayed near his parents the whole entire time. And also he is my sister's, best friend's, brother so anytime I go over to his house to drop of my sister for a "play-date" he goes in his room and locks the door. Is he just embarrased to be around me? What should I do?

[GrayStar51]

This might be a little off topic, but does anyone have any good ideas for a group date of 3-5 people? 14-16 years old. Guys & Girls. I would really appreciate any creative ideas for an activity, Thank you!

[Saule]

This might be a little off topic, but does anyone have any good ideas for a group date of 3-5 people? 14-16 years old. Guys & Girls. I would really appreciate any creative ideas for an activity, Thank you!

Have a bonfire, go to the mall, go out to eat, go see a movie, hiking, biking, kayaking, roller skating (at a rink or at the park (I prefer the latter)), go to the park, take a walk exploring your neighborhood, spend the day at the beach (make sandcastles, bury each other in the sand, skip rocks), go swimming, make a movie together, find a river and swim or make paper boats (or origami animals/shapes) and race them, picnic, buy flowers and give them to random people on the street, arts and crafts, go fishing (I enjoy this one very much), find a park with large woods/forest and get "lost", drive in movies (do those even exist anymore? I remember going to one less than 10 years ago, it was fun, but I haven't seen any since), play the games never-have-I-ever, spin-the-bottle, etc.., make bucket lists, play catch in the dark with a light up ball, "kidnap" each other (one or two people go hide somewhere (a shop, the woods, somewhere in your neighborhood..) and the others spend the day trying to find them, go to a play, find an (outdoor(?)) event to go to, go to the museum and make fun of the art....
That's all I can think of now. My favorites are kayaking, getting "lost" in the woods (& picnicking), and "kidnapping".
Also, I live on the pacific coast and we like taking the ferry and exploring the nearby islands. Having mentioned that, boat rides are fun too.
Hope this was of some help :3

[Lazy9248]

I'm gonna try to tell my friend I like him... I don't exactly know how he'll take it and I'm nervous because he's the only person I can actually talk to... He always asks me over text and if he asks again I'm going to tell him to go look in a mirror... I hope he actually understands because he's not a very sharp knife lol if he doesn't understand I'll just flat out tell him -_- I tried to tell him earlier but I got freaked out because he's like one of my only friends... any advice on a subtle way to tell him would be nice because I'm an awkward person ._. Thanks so much and wish me luck ^-^

[meow139]

I met this guy a couple months ago and I REALLY like him. I think he likes me, too. But there's one problem- I think that his friend likes him too. Now, we aren't exactly BF/GF yet- we've kissed once or twice, that's it.

His friend, R, has known him for, like, three years and is absolutely INFATUATED with him. He literally joined my boyfriend's political club/group/whatever JUST BECAUSE HE WANTED TO BE AROUND HIM. And he's confessed this, too. He compares him to a Greek God and has openly admitted that he would die for him. He's saved my BF's butt more than once, too. (He's helped him escape from the cops and even bailed him out of prison a few times- we do a lot of political rallies, don't judge.

But my guy doesn't realize his affection, and is even openly scornful of him and his, ahem, excessive drinking habits (Read: Total Alcoholic). The rest of us can blatantly see how in love R is, but for some reason my BF can't. He says really hurtful things to him.

The issue here is, I'm not even sure if my BF would be open to that type of thing himself- gay relationships, I mean. He's all for gay rights, obviously (That's what our rallies are about), but I don't know what he would say to actually having a BF.

I want everything to be OK between R and I, but I really like this guy. It's just getting really sad, now. R follows him around like a little puppy and my guy always kicks him- hard, in the teeth.

So I ask you guys- what should I do? Should I keep my man, or let poor R have him. I'm not even sure if he would be interested in R... What should I do? I really like him, and I think he could even be my first real love... What should I do?

[Eevvee]

An old crush has come back. I started liking him back when we were in France together. I told him, even though I thought he was straight, and it turned out he was bi. He was cool about it, and even said that he used to like me, but he had a girlfriend. So I had one day crying about it, then I got over it because I thought it was just a silly little crush. But she dumped him after we got back from France (even though he got her an extremely expensive necklace from France). So now he's single, and the crush has returned. I really worry about his mental health though. The break up messed him up pretty bad, but even before then he was on medication. I have issues with being in a relationship because I feel like I'm not good enough for anyone and I don't actually want to have sex because of my body image issues and also my gender dysphoria. So I probably shouldn't even try to start a relationship with him if I don't know that I can actually maintain it, because I wouldn't want to put him through another stressful break up (though people really shouldn't stress over me, there are far better people they could be dating) and it could also ruin our friendship (I am still good friends with my ex, but he's different).

So yeah, some advice would be greatly appreciated.

[Ninja Jedi]

my boyfriend just did the sweetest thing ever.
so, I just started Minecraft, and he and I decided to play multiplayer. So, he set up a little house-cave-thing for us on a multiplayer server. ( It took me a while to figure out how to get on the server.)
So, yesterday, I managed to log on, and I walked into the house, and this is what I saw: