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Postby Fiacla » Sat Apr 13, 2013 6:15 am

I guess this isn't really a sad post or one that needs hugs or such but I thought I would post it here because it has helped me feel a lot better!

Recently I got a little cocker jack, and it's the best thing I have ever gotten, he's absolutely adorable and he has really helped. I understand that not a lot of people see dogs how I see them, but I think that they can and will help anyone who doesn't feel heard or is lonely. I know that's how I had felt for years, but having this little dog to talk to is great. Although that probably sounds a bit mad.
I find that dogs/and other animals make the best companions. They won't judge you or ignore you, they will just listen, listen and show all of the love that you show to them.
Regardless of your interest in animals I think that they really can help.

Here's my pup, Gizmo:

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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby hellebore » Sat Apr 13, 2013 7:31 am

Wolf Luv wrote:I guess this isn't really a sad post or one that needs hugs or such but I thought I would post it here because it has helped me feel a lot better!

Recently I got a little cocker jack, and it's the best thing I have ever gotten, he's absolutely adorable and he has really helped. I understand that not a lot of people see dogs how I see them, but I think that they can and will help anyone who doesn't feel heard or is lonely. I know that's how I had felt for years, but having this little dog to talk to is great. Although that probably sounds a bit mad.
I find that dogs/and other animals make the best companions. They won't judge you or ignore you, they will just listen, listen and show all of the love that you show to them.
Regardless of your interest in animals I think that they really can help.

Here's my pup, Gizmo:

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Like my hamster, Pip. ^^ This is great. Thanks for sharing, Wolfeh.
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Cukee » Sat Apr 13, 2013 8:06 am

Im so sick of pretending.
Pretending Im happy when Im not. Pretending to like people I dont. Pretending to be someone Im not.
I have problems at home. My mum has anger Issues, she gets violent. Im not going into details, but Ive had bruises before. Ive never told anyone, and I dont plan to. Every morning before school, I wipe the tears, dress with a smile, and pretend that Everything is fine. People describe me as 'perfect' -I have it all. Great grades, awesome friends and Im pretty. But its not me. It just isnt.
I have slight anorexia, and I also keep that to myself. Im 5ft 4 and 91lbs.
I dont know what to do. I cant just be 'myself.' That girl crashed and burned a while ago, when my mum became a time bomb. I just want to dissapear. *puff.

Gone.
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Postby strawbewwy. » Sat Apr 13, 2013 8:14 am

Cukee wrote:Im so sick of pretending.
Pretending Im happy when Im not. Pretending to like people I dont. Pretending to be someone Im not.
I have problems at home. My mum has anger Issues, she gets violent. Im not going into details, but Ive had bruises before. Ive never told anyone, and I dont plan to. Every morning before school, I wipe the tears, dress with a smile, and pretend that Everything is fine. People describe me as 'perfect' -I have it all. Great grades, awesome friends and Im pretty. But its not me. It just isnt.
I have slight anorexia, and I also keep that to myself. Im 5ft 4 and 91lbs.
I dont know what to do. I cant just be 'myself.' That girl crashed and burned a while ago, when my mum became a time bomb. I just want to dissapear. *puff.

Gone.


*Hugs tightly* Sweetheart I understand completely how it is, I put on a fake smile all the time too. My dad has anger issues too so we're in the same boat. I'm certain that their is one friend you have you can trust to tell, and you need to tell a doctor or a school counselor or someone about the anorexia, it's deadly and no beautiful girl like you should have to suffer through it. <3
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby seep5 » Sat Apr 13, 2013 8:16 am

Cukee wrote:Im so sick of pretending.
Pretending Im happy when Im not. Pretending to like people I dont. Pretending to be someone Im not.
I have problems at home. My mum has anger Issues, she gets violent. Im not going into details, but Ive had bruises before. Ive never told anyone, and I dont plan to. Every morning before school, I wipe the tears, dress with a smile, and pretend that Everything is fine. People describe me as 'perfect' -I have it all. Great grades, awesome friends and Im pretty. But its not me. It just isnt.
I have slight anorexia, and I also keep that to myself. Im 5ft 4 and 91lbs.
I dont know what to do. I cant just be 'myself.' That girl crashed and burned a while ago, when my mum became a time bomb. I just want to dissapear. *puff.

Gone.


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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby .musical.dragon. » Sat Apr 13, 2013 8:49 am

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So, this upcoming weekend, (in two days, for me) is my dad's weekend. My parents are divorced, and we go by every other weekend. I'm really worried about going over there because now we have to sleep over there. It will be very boring and I may have to go to some of my brother's games... And that means sunscreen, and I'm allergic to the spray kind, yada, yada, yada... I'm really not looking forward to it, as my dad think's that I hate him, but I truthfully don't. (Even though he is the reason my parents got divorced, and divorce isn't right in my religion... and how he cheated on my mom while they were still married. And I still don't actually hate him...) I'm just afraid, because I have some anger issues (a whole different story) and when I have an outburst there, he gets really mad and scary... I hate when my father's mad... I convinced him to get a cat to make the stay more fun, but now my doctor (a neurologist, a whole different story) said that it's not fair because my mom's allergic to cats. So now I have to tell him that he can't get a cat somehow... I really want him to get a pet, but he's gone for days at a time, and I don't know what animal could live like that, even though my father might find a good neighbor that would take care of the pet when he's not there... I just have no idea what to do, and I'm really nervous and scared.... I feel like a loser admitting that...


So, I'm doing this project with some friends. (Well, I don't really know if they are my friends...) And they're making me do this one part in a PowerPoint that we're doing, and it's obviously the worst and most boring part. Thanks guys, thanks.


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Yeah, so it's today now, and I'm really stressed out and worried. I feel nauseated and sick. I really need advice and a hug. Fast, because I'll be leaving any minute now!
I am on vacation, so I will not be able to get on CS. When I come back I will be starting band camp. Sorry for my absence!

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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby nico yazawa » Sat Apr 13, 2013 2:25 pm

Today I had a math test, history test, and pop quiz on optics (science) which I knew nothing for so I handed in a blank sheet. I'm not going to go too into detail but lately my panic attacks have been more frequent and my depression had worsened. I hold back tears everyday because of my 'friends' and I'm doing horrible in school. I feel so worthless and alone. Sorry, just needed to vent..
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby .musical.dragon. » Sat Apr 13, 2013 2:31 pm

Directioner~ wrote:Today I had a math test, history test, and pop quiz on optics (science) which I knew nothing for so I handed in a blank sheet. I'm not going to go too into detail but lately my panic attacks have been more frequent and my depression had worsened. I hold back tears everyday because of my 'friends' and I'm doing horrible in school. I feel so worthless and alone. Sorry, just needed to vent..


I'm really sorry and I know the exact same feelings. *hugs* Be strong and listen to some 1D. I love them too!!!
I am on vacation, so I will not be able to get on CS. When I come back I will be starting band camp. Sorry for my absence!

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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby jacketgirl » Sat Apr 13, 2013 4:24 pm

Nothing is very wrong but something has been bothering me. I keep thinking of what happened with my dad. It bothers me in the night and even if the experiences are long past I still cry. I can't sleep thinking about how violated I felt and how humiliated I was. It hurts. I keep asking questions. Was is abuse? My mother says it was not but I've had others tell me it was. What would have happened if I was injured when he shoved me against that wall? What if I told DCFS how scared I felt? Was it all my fault because I started those fights? Because I tried to run away? What if he never got sick? Would things have gotten worse? What would happened to my siblings? It was so long ago and I love my dad. But I hurt still.
I can't tell anyone, I don't want them to judge my dad. But I just don't want to hurt...
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Re: |TheComfortCorner|

Postby Cloverstream » Sat Apr 13, 2013 4:31 pm

I feel so bad for saying that and putting the truth out there on the bus.
I know it must have hurt. Even though she was acting like a spoiled brat.
It's true. I'm the only one there for her.
She's moms dress up toy and dad is a kid himself who lives far away.
I'm what she's got.
She's what I've been taking care of since I was seven.
Now that she's ten and a half,
It's time to stop acting like a toddler now.
I feel bad. I want to live my own life and not constantly stress over her and my mom.
But it just means I'm doing a horrid job taking care of her if I think like that. X/
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