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by Jenye » Mon Apr 08, 2013 1:40 am
Hi guys.
I'm sure you've seen me post about a certain friend who I've lost to a fandom. She couldn't understand that I am not a part of it, and ended up never responding.
Now all I feel towards this person is hatred. I feel that if she can't understand that not everyone has to like what she likes, fine. If she can't see that she just needs to stop forcing it down my throat, fine. We're not friends and I'm not coming back, no matter how much she pleads, if she ever does!
I don't know if this is right, and I feel slightly bad having this kind of emotion towards someone who was my best friend at a point, a recent point, and I feel that I have no friends left, but I don't know how to make them. I've tried gifting nice people randomly, but it just ends in a simple " thank you" and we never chat again. I gift people because they're nice and I want them to like me too. I want to be friends. But they just see it as another pet, accept with a small thanks, and leave. I used to be able to make friends like that. Those friends all ended up quitting.
Can someone please help me figure this out? ;__;
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by seep5 » Mon Apr 08, 2013 1:43 am
Mintee wrote:Hi guys.
I'm sure you've seen me post about a certain friend who I've lost to a fandom. She couldn't understand that I am not a part of it, and ended up never responding.
Now all I feel towards this person is hatred. I feel that if she can't understand that not everyone has to like what she likes, fine. If she can't see that she just needs to stop forcing it down my throat, fine. We're not friends and I'm not coming back, no matter how much she pleads, if she ever does!
I don't know if this is right, and I feel slightly bad having this kind of emotion towards someone who was my best friend at a point, a recent point, and I feel that I have no friends left, but I don't know how to make them. I've tried gifting nice people randomly, but it just ends in a simple " thank you" and we never chat again. I gift people because they're nice and I want them to like me too. I want to be friends. But they just see it as another pet, accept with a small thanks, and leave. I used to be able to make friends like that. Those friends all ended up quitting.
Can someone please help me figure this out? ;__;
*hugs* You can PM me if you want, I will try and help :*)
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by Guardian-Angel » Mon Apr 08, 2013 3:44 am
I feel really lonely w.w I only have one friend and she's a really good friend and she tries to help me feel better, but she doesn't understand how I feel DX What should I do to make her understand? Thanks

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by strawbewwy. » Mon Apr 08, 2013 3:47 am
EmberHunter wrote:I feel really lonely w.w I only have one friend and she's a really good friend and she tries to help me feel better, but she doesn't understand how I feel DX What should I do to make her understand? Thanks

Well, try to explain to her how you feel, she isn't a mind reader so she only can guess. If you can explain it, then she'll understand more and be able to help you to make sure you feel better. *Hugs*
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by Guardian-Angel » Mon Apr 08, 2013 3:48 am
EmberHunter wrote:
I feel really lonely w.w I only have one friend and she's a really good friend and she tries to help me feel better, but she doesn't understand how I feel DX What should I do to make her understand? Thanks
Well, try to explain to her how you feel, she isn't a mind reader so she only can guess. If you can explain it, then she'll understand more and be able to help you to make sure you feel better. *Hugs*
I have though and I still don't think she quit understands DX
But thank you

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by seep5 » Mon Apr 08, 2013 3:50 am
EmberHunter wrote:EmberHunter wrote:
I feel really lonely w.w I only have one friend and she's a really good friend and she tries to help me feel better, but she doesn't understand how I feel DX What should I do to make her understand? Thanks
Well, try to explain to her how you feel, she isn't a mind reader so she only can guess. If you can explain it, then she'll understand more and be able to help you to make sure you feel better. *Hugs*
I have though and I still don't think she quit understands DX
But thank you

Have you tried using very descriptive wording? Maybe she would understand better if you painted a picture with words.
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