Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[WretchedMachines]

I have a serious crush on this guy,"S".
Everyone hates him but I love him. He saved my life. His favorite color seems to be blue and he's not from my country so people find him strange. One day we were playing a game together and he seemed to not get the point of staying where he's supposed to stay. My friends all told me how dumb he was and how much they hated him. It broke my heart. How am I supposed to tell them that's the guy I wanna be with. They don't like him but still. I don't know what to do. :c

[provolone]

I don't know if you guys can help much but I would appreciate your thoughts d:

I've been dating Dylan 2 months (Officially this last Monday!) and It's still truly amazing. Dating my best friend is better than anything! But see, it's spring break. I don't have my phone back till April, and I don't have his number memorized. My friend has it, but she got her phone taken away. I don't know anyone else who has it..And I have no idea where he lives (It being out in the country) so I have no communication with him whatsoever. I have a feeling he might break up with me if I don't at least call him..But I can't! I've seriously looked everywhere. They don't have a home phone and I checked his mom's website only to find it was deleted. Ugghh..I could have asked his brother but he's two years older than me and called me 'awkward.' Too late now...

All I can think of is to wait and see if my friend gets her phone back. She said she'd call me if she did and give me the number. But what if she doesn't?? Gah! There is nothing in my control that I can do. I mean, it would be pretty sweet if he drove to my house...But that's really unlikely. Anyone have an idea of what I can do?:\

[thunderofthedrum]

My boyfriend said he's getting me a present (my birthday is today).
I just.. I don't even.. KJAHSFKJSAHDF. Ex was an idiot and would flake out so I didn't even see him around my birthday that year. Met my boyfriend this same time last year so this is the second year he's wished me a happy birthday. And to get me a present.. *__* I feel awful that I made him cupcakes for his in October but he kept saying not to get him anything and I had NO idea what I would buy anyway. And he loves when I bring him treats, but meh.
I'm just.. really happy he even wants to get me a present. Perhaps it's dumb; we've been dating about a year now, so that's perfectly reasonable, but I haven't really had guys buy me things. And I just found out my family won't be able to celebrate my birthday this weekend as planned because they'll all be out of town at the hunting cabin (it's not even hunting season!) except for my mom and me. No brothers, no nephews, no family friends. So much for worrying what I wanted us to cook on the grill, hamburgers or fajitas.. So yeah, boyfriend being so amazing is just.. HITTING ME RIGHT IN THE FEELS, DAWG.

happy birthday thunder <3

THANKS!!

He took me shopping at Target and spent like $70 on me.. O__o' Took me out for food, and the next day we went disc golfing with his dog (which I adore) and his friend (who let me play with his fancypants Canon Rebel camera the whole time). I'm bringing him as my date to my friend's wedding this weekend. He's even trying to match my bridesmaid colours. XD



Anyway, I recently read I book I'd like to recommend to all the girls in here (which about 99% of the posters).
It's called Hooking Up: a girl's all out guide to Sex & Sexuality, by Amber Madison.
It addresses everything from dating to knowing your body to 'am I gay' to STDs to sex myths to body image to rape, with tons of resources for information and help for every issue discussed. Also, it says she's just recently graduated, so she's probably in early to mid twenties - she's not some old conservative person who thinks it's all taboo to talk about.

I'd probably agree about going with your heart about this.

However, recently I had a similar situation, although it was with someone I didn't know well at the time - we've been hanging out through our local dA member group and some weeks ago he admitted he had a big crush on me and asked if we could maybe hang out privately and get to know each other better (in a less creepy way than I'm probably making this sound, ahaha) and although I didn't think much of him and wasn't attracted to him from the get-go, I went along with that. Turns out, however, that he's one of the potentially most compatible people I've ever met, with similar life experiences, interests and a very nice cuddler. I think we might even realistically build a relationship, and I don't think I've ever felt like this (the realistic chance part, that is) about anyone I've had feelings for or have had something going with.

Note that I'm an adult, not a teenager and am currently just rambling about stuff. :u

I ALMOST went to a local dA meet but the girl who was going to ride with me bailed at the last moment and I had an exam the next day, so I never went. Poop. ANYWAY, I kind of get what you're saying. When I met my boyfriend we were actually very different (SUPER different) but we liked those differences. He had things in common with my brothers (being able to fix anything, for example), and he actually talked to me, a lot. He started out as a little possibility I wasn't putting any faith in, but the more we talked, the more I realised I liked him, I felt comfortable with him, I even trusted him. He admires that I'm pursuing a degree and I adore that he plays and snuggles with his pets. Neither of us feel the need to be attached at the hip and appreciates that sense of independence from the other.

So yeah, you never know unless you give it a chance. Talking is where it all starts. We've been together for a year now, and I feel so silly yet relaxed about it, like I want to say SEE, I CAN HAVE A REAL RELATIONSHIP (and just be giddy he still really likes me), and yet I know I'd lose the edge of cool by announcing it so I stay all laid back and take it in stride. XD

[Coalchaser]

I have fallen into a triangle. We all are in the same sports-team so we se each other at least once a week.

There is Y who obviously likes me. He is one year younger than me but in our personalities it's three years apart. I don't think he's cute nor hot nor whatever you can call it. He is constantly trying to talk to me and getting in my way. He brags about how many sponsors he's got and that he is working on a one-arm pull-up. Plus his sense of humor is awful.

The other one is F who i like. He is cute. He is one year older than me but since i skipped one class, we are equals in mind. He is smart, funny and strong but never engages a real conversation with me. He's clearly not thought about us two yes but i want him him to. If I make a move and get rejected by him, the training period will be very awkward and soon the others in the team will find out. Including Y. He will definitely be sad that I like someone else. Help...

((I don't know if I'm ready for any of them))

[AninaAna]

I have a question for you guys, and purple101 will know what I'm on about if they're online, which I don't think they are.

I have a boyfriend, we've only been going out about two weeks, and I'd asked him out.

I don't use Facebook much, I have it, but I don't use it. My friend purple, she told me to check his Facebook status, I didn't cause I couldn't be bothered. She took a pic of it though, and sent it to another friend, who showed me when I got to school.
I quote "it's a good thing (doggo) doesn't have Facebook." Apparently it's some other guys turn to have a go at me... I am p*ssed off. He's my first boyfriend. First kiss. And now, as soon as he gets back from camp, he'll be the first person I have killed.

What am I supposed to do? He'd said more, but I don't have the pic of his status, so I can't remember all of it, but I do know it wasn't very nice to me.

[FallenSilent]

I say you confront him about it, because if he's messing with you, that's cruel. If he's talking about you behind your back, he probably doesn't care... -Just my opinion, don't kill me! >.<

[AninaAna]

I say you confront him about it, because if he's messing with you, that's cruel. If he's talking about you behind your back, he probably doesn't care... -Just my opinion, don't kill me! >.<

Don't worry, it's him I'm killing not you ^_^ thankyou

[Mosstail<3]

I got this new really cute crush and he doesn't seem to like me back very much... I'm not sure how to get him to like me!! Help?

[Madison143]

I have a serious crush on this guy,"S".
Everyone hates him but I love him. He saved my life. His favorite color seems to be blue and he's not from my country so people find him strange. One day we were playing a game together and he seemed to not get the point of staying where he's supposed to stay. My friends all told me how dumb he was and how much they hated him. It broke my heart. How am I supposed to tell them that's the guy I wanna be with. They don't like him but still. I don't know what to do. :c

Maybe it is best to talk to your friends and see why they don't like him and if by then the situation isn't too dire tell them the truth.

[WretchedMachines]

Maybe it is best to talk to your friends and see why they don't like him and if by then the situation isn't too dire tell them the truth.

Thanks. I will most certainly try to see why they don't like him.