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[Lily.Sweet]

☆Ooh, that is really gorgeous! Go marry it O w O I support this

Oh, and yeah! I'd heard Classical Puppets Petticoats are really good. I was considering getting one for myself.

[♥ღMistyBelleღ♥]

Oh really? I was just planning to buy one or two from bodyline and wear those. Do you think that would work?

[thekraken]

That would work yes, but keep in mind that Bodyline's pettis deflate very quickly. The general rule with them is, the cheaper they are, the faster they will deflate.

[Lily.Sweet]

☆Hmm, okay! I suppose that makes sense, what you pay for is what you get. I wanted a big one anyway, and I can almost afford it now!
What do you think is the most annoying thing about lolita? What's the best thing?

[thekraken]

Oh, what a brilliant question! The mist annoying thing about Lolita, I think... Is probably going to have to be the amount of rules that go with it. Sometimes it can be frustrating to have ti wear a blouse under a JSK, and sometimes a dream item reaches a few inches above your knees and some elitist Lolitas don't like that. It can be terribly frustrating to have ti conform to so many rulesnin every style.
But the best thing about Lolita for me is that it makes me feel beautiful. I adore the shapes and the patterns, and how ladylike they can make a girl look. Even though you get a lot of funny stares that can make ou nervous nothing takes away that feeling of beauty for me and I like that.

[♥ღMistyBelleღ♥]

Hmmm, that got me thinking.
I have never actually been out in Lolita before, having only just started. What was it like going out in Lolita for the first time? Has anyone ever said anything to you about it? I am slightly worried about it...
Thank you for answering all my questions, if they get annoying, I'm sorry!

[Lily.Sweet]

☆I think that's a really interesting question, Misty! I'd certainly like to know.
And wow, I know the rules are there for a reason, but shouldn't they be able to stretch and adapt to a co-ord? If it's a dream item, are people really going to be that bothered? I mean, if it's mid-thigh it's probably a worry, but...

[thekraken]

Sadly, there are a lot of elitist lolitas who find it unacceptable if the skirt is even a couple of inches above the knee. There has been quite a lot of hate secrets on Behind the Bows about that.

@ Aeternum, don't worry, your questions don't bother me! (:
My first time going out in Lolita I hadn't been expecting to leave the house, but I ended uo doing so. I get a few stares whenever I leave the house in Lolita. Some people are giving me funny looks a lot and giggling about it to their friends, and some people smile because they like it. However, I have yet to have somebody say anything to my face about my Lolita.
But I find the best way ti tolerate it is not to let people know that it bothers you, because they are looking to get you to react. I either just glare straight back at them or smile sweetly so they end uo being ashamed for seeming so rude c: I think that so long as you act confident, and don't act a though what you are wearing is out of the ordinary, people tend not to bother you about your clothing choice.

[Lily.Sweet]

☆I'm actually looking forward to going out in Lolita Q u Q
It sounds like fun, a step out of the comfort zone, a little more experience.

[thekraken]

Just remember to keep your head up when you step outside in the fashion ; u; Don't let people get to you, really.