Trade Rant Thread V.23

[catsmaycry]

I'm so conflicted and honestly depressed right now...

I'm on a semi-hiatus and rarely stay online, usually only logging in once or twice a week.
And even when I do login, I do nothing much besides look around or the monthly adopts...
I've lost the motivation and determination for CS you see, but I love it all the same- I just need a break.

I had some ups and downs last year, especially nearer towards the end,
though I'm happy to have achieved a major dreamie during Christmas 2012- the UR Lion. c':

I had a lot of problems in the negotiating part, with me being absolutely horrible with bulk Main List trades. ; - ;
I just kept editing back and forth, throwing whatever could spare till finally the person said they liked my offer<3
I was overjoyed and despite the heartache of me giving up multiple other major dreamies, I was quite happy with it.

But now... the person wants it back.

They checked and after awhile found out it was unfair to them, and wanted it back or for me to give them some pets.
The thing is.. I barely have much to spare to just give away.. so many of my own pets have been chucked into auction bids...
And though I feel guilty, it hadn't been my intention to underpay.. and at the moment of time, they weren't experienced either.

We both basically were pretty bad at bulk Main List trades. ; - ;

Now I'm just stuck.

They want me to give them my 2012 UR Cat for free, or they want their lion back for their UR Mint.
I honestly don't even like the UR Mint.. and I'm just so reluctant to give up a major dream I achieved...
I'm guessing this is just another sign for me to stay off CS more.. lately it brings me nothing but discouragement. :'c

I don't know what to do...
They didn't even offer to give back all the original pets I traded to them..
I'd rather have those back compared to a UR Mint I don't even like at all... ; n ;

*crawls into a corner and just hides there for awhile...*

This must be hard, but to be honest, I wouldn't trade it back. They were happy with the offer, and could have asked around on the FFT to check if it was fair. You didn't want to scam them, so why should you give it back? Especially for a pet you don't want.


Also, I can't seem to work out a trade for a hyena advent.... The user offering it keeps on wantig 2 advent list pets... I offered a cream advent + a few rares, but they sent it back once with an android, second time with the spiderwing butterwolf added. I don't know what to do... >__>

[Dragonborn Comes]

ok, im freaking tired of this cause people dont help me out on trades, i ask if its ok and if not please help me out cause the dog on their side is for trade and i added 4 rares (SHE HOARDS LIONS)
http://www.chickensmoothie.com/trades/v ... qtZ4qDAZtg
Canceled saying No thanks ouo

WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE NO HELP FROM THIS PERSON, ITS SO IRRITATING (THIS IS NT APART OF HER MESSAGE)

[SunlightAura]

I'm so conflicted and honestly depressed right now...

I'm on a semi-hiatus and rarely stay online, usually only logging in once or twice a week.
And even when I do login, I do nothing much besides look around or the monthly adopts...
I've lost the motivation and determination for CS you see, but I love it all the same- I just need a break.

I had some ups and downs last year, especially nearer towards the end,
though I'm happy to have achieved a major dreamie during Christmas 2012- the UR Lion. c':

I had a lot of problems in the negotiating part, with me being absolutely horrible with bulk Main List trades. ; - ;
I just kept editing back and forth, throwing whatever could spare till finally the person said they liked my offer<3
I was overjoyed and despite the heartache of me giving up multiple other major dreamies, I was quite happy with it.

But now... the person wants it back.

They checked and after awhile found out it was unfair to them, and wanted it back or for me to give them some pets.
The thing is.. I barely have much to spare to just give away.. so many of my own pets have been chucked into auction bids...
And though I feel guilty, it hadn't been my intention to underpay.. and at the moment of time, they weren't experienced either.

We both basically were pretty bad at bulk Main List trades. ; - ;

Now I'm just stuck.

They want me to give them my 2012 UR Cat for free, or they want their lion back for their UR Mint.
I honestly don't even like the UR Mint.. and I'm just so reluctant to give up a major dream I achieved...
I'm guessing this is just another sign for me to stay off CS more.. lately it brings me nothing but discouragement. :'c

I don't know what to do...
They didn't even offer to give back all the original pets I traded to them..
I'd rather have those back compared to a UR Mint I don't even like at all... ; n ;

*crawls into a corner and just hides there for awhile...*

You don't have to do anything. You were both happy at the time of the trade C:

Agreed. Especially if they're not willing to trade back all of the pets you gave them-that's just rude. They had the time to think about the trade and ask people if it was fair before they accepted it. If they didn't do their research in the first place, it's their own fault.

I also agree, you both accepted the trade at the time, and you were both happy! You do not have to do anything they are telling you! And they accepted the trade themselves as well, of course it wasn't your intention to underpay, and they didn't know ether! Once traded, it is settled! You do not have to give anything back and they just have to leave you alone now! It is mean how they will not offer back all of your pets, if I were you, I would just stay with how the trade was before! And they cannot report you either, that would be very unfair!

[Industry]

Seriously, I give up, there are literally NO hyena's out there and their either, A. In a hoard [Not ranting about them! Just saying] B. In some one's "DO NOT TOUCH" C with an inactive user or if they are available people want me to pay my joker...

No

I'm having the same problem with the Drink Me dog.
Seriously bros. I know there are some available out there.
I'm offering a cake dog. Which I believe is what... 6 or 7 tiers above the Drink Me? That's fair, yes?
Bah. I'm finding heaps of them, but 90% of them are in "NFT" groups. Then the piddly 10% that aren't in locked groups are gifts that people aren't ready to part with (which I understand. I don't like trading my gifts either, lol)

People, you're killing me.
Give me your Drink Me dog.

Errmmm...
Stay on topic, Sugar Snap.
Stay on topic.
Here.

[Thief.]

I'm so conflicted and honestly depressed right now...

I'm on a semi-hiatus and rarely stay online, usually only logging in once or twice a week.
And even when I do login, I do nothing much besides look around or the monthly adopts...
I've lost the motivation and determination for CS you see, but I love it all the same- I just need a break.

I had some ups and downs last year, especially nearer towards the end,
though I'm happy to have achieved a major dreamie during Christmas 2012- the UR Lion. c':

I had a lot of problems in the negotiating part, with me being absolutely horrible with bulk Main List trades. ; - ;
I just kept editing back and forth, throwing whatever could spare till finally the person said they liked my offer<3
I was overjoyed and despite the heartache of me giving up multiple other major dreamies, I was quite happy with it.

But now... the person wants it back.

They checked and after awhile found out it was unfair to them, and wanted it back or for me to give them some pets.
The thing is.. I barely have much to spare to just give away.. so many of my own pets have been chucked into auction bids...
And though I feel guilty, it hadn't been my intention to underpay.. and at the moment of time, they weren't experienced either.

We both basically were pretty bad at bulk Main List trades. ; - ;

Now I'm just stuck.

They want me to give them my 2012 UR Cat for free, or they want their lion back for their UR Mint.
I honestly don't even like the UR Mint.. and I'm just so reluctant to give up a major dream I achieved...
I'm guessing this is just another sign for me to stay off CS more.. lately it brings me nothing but discouragement. :'c

I don't know what to do...
They didn't even offer to give back all the original pets I traded to them..
I'd rather have those back compared to a UR Mint I don't even like at all... ; n ;

*crawls into a corner and just hides there for awhile...*

This must be hard, but to be honest, I wouldn't trade it back. They were happy with the offer, and could have asked around on the FFT to check if it was fair. You didn't want to scam them, so why should you give it back? Especially for a pet you don't want.

If you were both happy at the time, then you don't have to.
You are under no obligation to trade back, or give them pets to even it up.
They just have to live with that fact ;u;

[Firstborn Dragon]

Okay really...

FIRST they send just the rare rabbit for the horse, without checking the true date. I tell them it's an easter 11, send it back tell them to edit.

Now... KNOWING their rabbit is 2 years older then my draft...

How dose 3 commons fix a two year gap?!

[Nikki Amaranti]

Thanks everyone<3

I know.. I can choose not to trade it back. > - <
I guess it's just the part of me that feels guilty somehow.. D':

I mean.. they even PM'd me asking about,
asking if I could give them pets to bridge the gap so they could slowly trade up to a Moonswirl.

I know I know.. they could be purposely trying to guilt-trip me.. or not. I don't know.

I just can't help feeling guilty and bad about it. ~ T

[mal du pays]

Not coppa'd, no message, ready to accept.

No. Bl

[bohnette.]

Was there something wrong with this trade?

[Thief.]

Thanks everyone<3

I know.. I can choose not to trade it back. > - <
I guess it's just the part of me that feels guilty somehow.. D':

I mean.. they even PM'd me asking about,
asking if I could give them pets to bridge the gap so they could slowly trade up to a Moonswirl.

I know I know.. they could be purposely trying to guilt-trip me.. or not. I don't know.

I just can't help feeling guilty and bad about it. ~ T

Guilt means you're human, but you should just explain how you can't afford it really
and nicely tell them what most of us just posted <3