Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[cobalt.]

I need help, xP
My friend and I both like the same guy from another school, and he likes both of us too. He and my friend have known each other longer and have been talking on facebook, she's older than him but he's the same age as me. He invited us to his game at our school, which happens to be my (insert age here) birthday. He told me he'd make baskets for me for my birthday, but he also told my friend the same thing, minus the birthday part. I don't want to ruin my friendship or my opportunity with this guy, help!

[-Cora-]

I need help, xP
My friend and I both like the same guy from another school, and he likes both of us too. He and my friend have known each other longer and have been talking on facebook, she's older than him but he's the same age as me. He invited us to his game at our school, which happens to be my (insert age here) birthday. He told me he'd make baskets for me for my birthday, but he also told my friend the same thing, minus the birthday part. I don't want to ruin my friendship or my opportunity with this guy, help!

This is where major "girl code" comes in. The typical way for things to work is the whole 'I saw him first rule but some people leave it to the one with the least number of past boyfriends. Lol but I would suggest talking to your friend about who gets "dibs" and if that doesn't work out I'd just let it play out if I were you. Why should you decide and it not be what he wants and someone be left heartbroken? Sometimes it's best to just stand back and see who he chooses (it adds a bit of competition ) But whatever you do don't let it get in the way of your friendship with her. Girl-friends are always to have around when times get tough.

[cobalt.]

I need help, xP
My friend and I both like the same guy from another school, and he likes both of us too. He and my friend have known each other longer and have been talking on facebook, she's older than him but he's the same age as me. He invited us to his game at our school, which happens to be my (insert age here) birthday. He told me he'd make baskets for me for my birthday, but he also told my friend the same thing, minus the birthday part. I don't want to ruin my friendship or my opportunity with this guy, help!

This is where major "girl code" comes in. The typical way for things to work is the whole 'I saw him first rule but some people leave it to the one with the least number of past boyfriends. Lol but I would suggest talking to your friend about who gets "dibs" and if that doesn't work out I'd just let it play out if I were you. Why should you decide and it not be what he wants and someone be left heartbroken? Sometimes it's best to just stand back and see who he chooses (it adds a bit of competition ) But whatever you do don't let it get in the way of your friendship with her. Girl-friends are always to have around when times get tough.

Ok, well if we were to go by who has the least number of past boyfriends that'd deff be me xD we've been talking, all three of us and she told me to go after him if I like him but she likes him too. We both don't want to hurt eachother's feelings. xP
Thanks for the advice. c:

[Anuran]

~Ugh, moi needs a bit of advice.

See, I've always had more guy-friends than girl-friends. But, when I first moved here, I met this guy, J, and he was... different. Like, I'd never really blushed around ANY guy before, but whenever I was with him, he'd make me blush one way or another. We were good friends for a while, but then after a while it just kind of... fizzled out. Like, we still talked and laughed, but we found different friends and eventually went our own ways. Now, rumor has it he wants to 'ask me out', and we laugh and talk more and the other day he had his arm around me and held my hand, but he still doesn't talk to me when we're with other people in our group, only when we're alone walking to our classes together or see eachother after school. I really like him, but he makes me so freakin' nervous with that adorable smile and always looking at my eyes and laughing at the dumbest things and playing songs on the uke and guitar together and making fun of eachother.. today, I finally did something about it and gave him my number, but he's just as nervous as I am. How the holy codfish do I get this started? He already knows I like him, and I know he likes me. I really want this to work; but we're both brutally shy. x3

[~NoeyyIzzaBeast]

Valetines day i coming up, and I"m so nervous.
The boy that was flirting with me, Chase. Posted a facebook status; "With her. (tagged the girls name) <3*
Good.
He's out of the picture c:
But, Bobby.
I still realllly like him.
I have his number, somewhere in my phone.
I could text him, but... that would be awkward. .-.
He knows I like him. And a couple of my friends think he likes me.
We talk a little bit like everyday. He now comes up to me in the hall.
But, when my friend told him a few months back that I like him...
he said he only liked me as a friend.
Maybe his feelings changed? Maybe he does really like me..
I'm just so confused...
aha.

[Charlie14]

noe9999 the only thing you can do is just look for signs if you really like him and you think he likes you I would maybe ask him out and see what he says as it can't hurt to find out I mean if he says no then at least you know where you both stand if you get what I mean otherwise keep looking for the signs and wait and see if he asks you out. To me it sounds like he really likes you and that it will only be a matter of time before he asks you out let us know how it goes

[Zeee]

ah, i haven't posted here in a while, but...

i had safety patrols on thursday, and i brought my stuff into the classroom (because the bell hadn't rung yet), and B stole one of my mitts and he was like playing with it, so i'm like, "what are you doing?" and he said, "your mitt interests me..." in a really low and concentrated voice. i had to fight to get it back from him when the bell rang, and he walked in front of me to his locker, so i hit him upside the head with my mitt and he hit me with his book on the head and then i hit him in the face with my mitt (not very hard) and he hit me in the face with his book (it didn't hurt XD), and i was late for patrols because we were fighting :P

[~NoeyyIzzaBeast]

noe9999 the only thing you can do is just look for signs if you really like him and you think he likes you I would maybe ask him out and see what he says as it can't hurt to find out I mean if he says no then at least you know where you both stand if you get what I mean otherwise keep looking for the signs and wait and see if he asks you out. To me it sounds like he really likes you and that it will only be a matter of time before he asks you out let us know how it goes

I don't go for asking people out .-. aha. I'm too shy.
I think I'm gonna wait and see what happens. c:

[kelly.]

-Le story-

The only thing that I'm scared about is that what if he doesn't like me? My friend HL asked 16 if he liked me and he asked as a friend or GF, and she said GF and he said No. I think HL's going to ask him again though.

I'm not sure

Me and 16 are putting like notes into eachothers lockers and when we were texting he made the kissy face with emojis a couple times, but I don't know if he meant it.

We're actually video chatting a lot as well as texting c: We chatted for like 2 hours yesterday and 2 hours the day before that :3 Yesterday we were singing and he said he can't sing but I tried to make him hehe. And I sang too, which I usually don't do in front of people

unless hes a total flirt or an alien O_o I think he likes you it sounds like he does and if he said he didn't the first tim maybe he was just shy or didn't want to tell HL....

Well we were talking over video chat and he said he didn't have any friends or anything, but we were talking about it and he said me and my friends were like popular and stuff and when he was in elementary school he wasn't that popular. I don't think he's a flirt though XD

What do you think I should do to see if he likes me again? Should I tell him or get my friend to tell him that I like him?

[StreamWolf]

Ugh, my social life is becoming more and more complicated So in my PE class, I hang out with 2 friends (M) and (A). D, my crush, also had two friends that he hung around with but they left the class so he just hangs out with another one of my friends (Z). D was dating this one girl in our class at the beginning of the year but they broke up even though D still talks to her. Sorry if this is confusing but D is a new kid this year. On the first day of school, I was talking to my friends Z and A and D was all alone. I started joking with my friends and D was always watching me, smiling and laughing when I made a funny joke even though he wasn't in the group. So yesterday, we walked from the court onto the field and we caught up with D and Z and started talking to them. While we did this, D kept looking down in my direction and making eye contact and stuff. Then, we sat in a circle to hear the instructions for PE that day and D kept looking down in my direction but I couldn't tell if he was looking at me or M. M purposely threw the ball in D's direction then went over and started flirting with him and I walked over with her. D started talking to us and stuff and he threw my football down the field so I ran after it and gently threw it at him and he started laughing. Unfortunetely we went inside right after that. So what do you think? Was he interested in me or M? What should I do to catch his attention? Whenever I'm around him, I can't think of anything to say!